Evan Lamicella (mixed Ig Hunk)

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No, I'm pointing out he specifically used pronouns used for cishet women. If he himself is not saying that he's bi, then he isn't.
If, in the hypothetical future, states that he is, then and only then we can say that too.
I didnt know ‘she’ could only be used for cishet women…? What the heck are you talking about? I call a lot of people she, many of which I know were born with a penis…

Am I the only one that sees how problematic it is to push others to assume that anyone that does not publicly identify as anything other than straight has to be straight?
We live in an extremely heteronormative world. Yes it is gradually changing, but for thousands of years of human history, there was no such thing as ‘queer’ identity.
Were all of those people that lived prior to the 20th century straight?
Were you straight before you mustered the strength to publicly identify as anything other than straight? What about those that will never understand what their feelings, desires and thoughts mean for whatever reason… whether its a lack of support, education, representation, resources, freedom to do so, etc.?
I just don’t get it…. It’s so ignorant and backwards to ‘correct’ me when I say this guy is bi. I have eyes and a brain and life experience…. SMH
 
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I didnt know ‘she’ could only be used for cishet women…? What the heck are you talking about? I call a lot of people she, many of which I know were born with a penis…

Am I the only one that sees how problematic it is to push others to assume that anyone that does not publicly identify as anything other than straight has to be straight?
We live in an extremely heteronormative world. Yes it is gradually changing, but for thousands of years of human history, there was no such thing as ‘queer’ identity.
Were all of those people that lived prior to the 20th century straight?
Were you straight before you mustered the strength to publicly identify as anything other than straight? What about those that will never understand what their feelings, desires and thoughts mean for whatever reason… whether its a lack of support, education, representation, resources, freedom to do so, etc.?
I just don’t get it…. It’s so ignorant and backwards to ‘correct’ me when I say this guy is bi. I have eyes and a brain and life experience…. SMH
Simply put, it's disrespectful to him. You keep pushing this narrative that he's bi even though he hasn't said so. Your personal experiences don't represent his. It just seems like you're projecting is all.
 

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Simply put, it's disrespectful to him. You keep pushing this narrative that he's bi even though he hasn't said so. Your personal experiences don't represent his. It just seems like you're projecting is all.
Sadly some people have made the decision of his sexuality for him even though Evan hasn’t said it himself.
 
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Sadly some people have made the decision of his sexuality for him even though Evan hasn’t said it himself.
I know. Some people are insisting he’s straight and that’s problematic because he hasn’t said so
 

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Simply put, it's disrespectful to him. You keep pushing this narrative that he's bi even though he hasn't said so. Your personal experiences don't represent his. It just seems like you're projecting is all.
Didnt know that being bi or gay or anything but straight is disrespectful to anyone... He specifically typed out h/she in his post. We use our eyes and ears and brains to observe the world around us and come to the conclusions that make the most sense to us. You want him to be straight because that gets you off. It’s your fantasy. You think it’s ‘disrespectful’ to consider that he might not be or that he might not even be one or the other...because you feel disrespected that anyone would shatter ur fantasy of his straightness. So please get off your high horse and seek help. Talk to someone about your internalized homophobia.
 

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it was. If they talking about the Maid outfit then every tiktok guy is bi then.
No, I was not referencing the maid outfit as a reason for his bi-ness. Apparently he identified as bi on twitter for a short period. I didnt see it but ppl were congratulating him in some tik tok comments. That;s my reference.

And yes, it’s entirely possible that a lot of guys that decide to wear a maid outfit and acne around on tik tok might or might not have certain interests that they have yet to understand, explore or identify with…. Again, I will say this for the people in the back… we live in a heteronormative world. Straight is status quo. We were all thinking we were or trying or hoping or instructed to be straight at some point in time. So someone identifying as ‘straight’ does not mean very much, guys. So many ppl thing they are ’woke’ but they have not done any work in the area and are actually just spewing homophobic rhetoric Such as “it is disrespectful to say he’s bi.” No, its actually disrespectfull that you are policing me and the people here.
 
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* The norm for every good looking straight guy that delusional gays think they might have a chance with on every social media platform*
*the norm for every good looking ‘straight’ guy…that is selling sex to other men in a world that considers it a shameful thing to do for both parties...*. And, no, nobody here thinks they are going to have sex with Evan or would even want to have sex with him. So please stop calling people 'delusional gays.' SMH
 
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So many ppl thing they are ’woke’ but they have not done any work in the area and are actually just spewing homophobic rhetoric Such as “it is disrespectful to say he’s bi.” No, its actually disrespectfull that you are policing me and the people here.
You may be overthinking the mindset of those who disagree with you. This wasn't about internalized homophobia or heteronormativity. You made a claim that you provided no proof for, so we were dubious. If you have evidence of his bisexuality then I'm sure people here would be more open to the idea, but you don't. It's that simple.
 

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*the norm for every good looking ‘straight’ guy…that is selling sex to other men in a world that considers it a shameful thing to do for both parties...*. And, no, nobody here thinks they are going to have sex with Evan or would even want to have sex with him. So please stop calling people 'delusional gays.' SMH
"Would even want to have sex with him", okay now you're just arguing for sake it. You know damn well, more than half of the men following this thread would get on their knees for, Evan, if he just breathed towards their direction. Stop delusional, is not cute.
 
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