Even tighter after fisting?

[lookingtochange]

One of my current boyfriends wants to fist me. He tells me its his favorite thing to do in bed. I am down to explore, if it gets him off. His arms are pretty slim so I'm not terrified. But he said something wierd that sticks out to me.

He said I'll be tighter and more sensitive to cocks once I'm used to being fisted. I've always assumed that dicks would stop doing the job for me if I started getting fisted.

So, to any fisting bottoms, is their any truth to his statement?

 

[HardUSN]

What he likely means is that you will have better control of your anal muscles after you are used to fisting. You will be able to grip a cock tightly if you wish... and you will never find a cock that is too big after you are accustomed to taking the fist and arm.

 

[lookingtochange]

What he likely means is that you will have better control of your anal muscles after you are used to fisting. You will be able to grip a cock tightly if you wish... and you will never find a cock that is too big after you are accustomed to taking the fist and arm.

Will my hole be more sensitive though? Like, my boyfriend is trying to tell me that I'll enjoy his less endowed friends more thoroughly. Is that just because I'll be able to grip tighter?

I would like to hear from more fisting bottoms about how sex and sensation changes for them after they fisted regularly.

 

[paoklin]

Will my hole be more sensitive though? Like, my boyfriend is trying to tell me that I'll enjoy his less endowed friends more thoroughly. Is that just because I'll be able to grip tighter?

I would like to hear from more fisting bottoms about how sex and sensation changes for them after they fisted regularly.

I'm not really accustomed to fisting just yet. Done it a few times and I think I like it. I was really worried the first time that my hole was going to be stretched out too much and not be able to be tight again. But that was not the case at all. Sure it felt awkward afterwards and it was very open. But it closed again after a few days and then it was even tighter than before I think. I haven't noticed any less sensation when my boyfriend fucks me and I don't think it changed for him either. I think it is as HardUSN says that you gain more control over the muscles in the ass. For me the fisting has only added more pleasure,

 

[Mogluver]

I'm not really accustomed to fisting just yet. Done it a few times and I think I like it. I was really worried the first time that my hole was going to be stretched out too much and not be able to be tight again. But that was not the case at all. Sure it felt awkward afterwards and it was very open. But it closed again after a few days and then it was even tighter than before I think. I haven't noticed any less sensation when my boyfriend fucks me and I don't think it changed for him either. I think it is as HardUSN says that you gain more control over the muscles in the ass. For me the fisting has only added more pleasure,

Just reading your post, thanks for sharing. Out where I live a fuck is a luxury, far and few between, as a result I have expanded ass play in the solo sense. The more I play, the hungrier my hole becomes, as the nerve endings get worked. Being fisted is on the list of things to experience.

 

[sodominsane]

He tells me its his favorite thing to do in bed. I am down to explore, if it gets him off.

Hmmmmmmmm.

He said I'll be tighter and more sensitive to cocks once I'm used to being fisted. I've always assumed that dicks would stop doing the job for me if I started getting fisted.

This sounds like something I would say when I was trying to convince them.to do something I like....."This will only hurt for a little while ....I'll only put the head of it in....I promise that I won't cum in your mouth"

So, to any fisting bottoms, is their any truth to his statement?

OFCOARSE.....the ONLY way to make something tighter is to STRECH It with something three times bigger ......that's simple physics!!!

 

[Gopher]

Its a muscle, while not having experience with fisting I do understand Anatomy from my education. To make a muscle stronger you stretch it out, tear it with exercise and that then repairs itself stronger than before. A lot of fisting is relaxing and stretching the muscles in your ass. It makes completes sense that after SAFELY stretching those muscles they would repair themselves stronger than before.

 

[HOU_HEADHUNTER]

I'm curious about this myself. I understand that the sphincter is a muscle and it is true that it can be stretched and can will eventually return to it's normal state. I'm more concerned about the effects on the mucus membrane of the rectum and the effects that fisting would have on that portion that is internal. I've had a colonoscopy before while under conscious sedation which means I was aware of things said and could see the monitor as they inserted the camera but couldn't feel a thing. I recall the doctor commenting on the diameter of my rectum being smaller than normal which explains why I have had a harder time being able to take guys that are really thick. Penetrative sex always sends a wave of worry thought me because I am afraid of tearing.

 

[Uncutpete]

Penetrative sex always sends a wave of worry thought me because I am afraid of tearing.

I think you have reason to be concerned. The sphincter (all sphincters) is not really analogous to other muscles which lift, steady and move us. It's muscles and it's nerves are very complex. Also the anus is linked, as you say to delicate mucus membranes. None of it is really made for penetration and stretching the way a vagina is. Regular major stretching is a good way to make yourself incontinent in years to come.