Ever asked a partner to wear a Halloween costume to fulfill a fantasy?

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    Mine is being stubborn. :tongue:
     
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    Oops, dunno how I did it, but I ended up putting this in the wrong forum! Mods can you tow it to Etc or Relationships or Sex with a Large Penis? Where-ever asking one's partner to fulfill Halloween costume fantasy sex belongs?
     
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    Ha! i should have asked him to wear that first, then he'd be more willing to wear the costume I want him to wear. Sometimes it's easier to sell your idea as a compromise. That would have been more clever.
     
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    hmmm...i'll move to...well where do you guys best think it fits? i'm torn. i'm inclined to say relationships.
     
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    LOL! See, if I had asked him to wear that first, maybe he'd be more willing to compromise and wear the one I want him to wear.

    Surely you've thought of it. I mean, there are so many fun possibilities!

    He's actually wearing one of two "fantasy" costumes, but since Halloween is over the weekend, I'm trying to convince him to wear a different costume on the other night. :biggrin1:
     
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    Are you going to put the man in leather and chains? Seriously... show him the pink one with the tutu and tell him you think you like that one more... I smell a cave-in coming on:tongue:

    Actually no, I guess I've never really gotten into the costume thing. Other than the D/s type roleplay I haven't really thought of it. I don't have real life fantasies about a man being a Viking, Buccaneer, Prince, Zombie Slayer, etc. I'm not sure why, I just always keep the fantasies to real life men that look sexy doing whatever they are doing... no costumes needed, less is more in the clothing department during fantasies for me.



    Edit: Yes Enid, I think relantionships is a good place.
     
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    Oh, he'd look good in leather and chains. I'd love to see him in a pair of leather pants and boots, shirtless with his chest all oiled up... Yup. He'd be hot!

    I'm sort of embarrassed by what it is, by both of them! Actually, I'm afraid I'll offend someone with one of them, so I'm not saying what that one is, but it's not the one he's being stubborn about. I've tried to get him to wear this costume before, but he won't.

    Enid: Relationships might be a good place since it's about convincing one's partner to dress up for you. :tongue:
     
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    Haha, leather is hot. I guess I would just see the man behind the costume... I would spend a lot of time laughing about the situation. I think I would find it more amusing than sexy.

    Hmm, strange since I'm normally on board to discuss practically anything. This just does nothing for me. I would definitely try it to have fun.

    And as for embarassment, Halloween is meant to be embarassing. :tongue:
     
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    Zombie costumes are so much fun!
     
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    Oh, yes! It would be funny! Isn't that part of the fun?

    What about a pirate? Come on, you have to admit that pirates are sexy! Vampire? I know they're overdone, but I still think they're sexy. Oh, how about a fireman? A cop? They have handcuffs. A cowboy?

    Indiana Jones! Oh god, now I want him to dress up like Indiana Jones!

    Once he dressed up like Bacchus. I loved that one. I like the costumes where he's half nekkid. He'd got a good chest and nice abs. :smile:
     
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    I guess "wear your birthday suit into my room" doesn't count?

    Just kidding :D Maybe tell him you're a zombie and you need the "liquid brains" from his "other head" to live, and that the process of accessing those "brains" requires his being in-character as whatever you want him to dress as?

    It's a hackneyed old ploy, but it seems to get Bacall the help she needs from Bogie...
     
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    *bows to the Zombie Mistress*
    All hail!

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    I imagine Zombie fantasy costume sex would be reeeaaaallllyyy sloooow. Unless they're the fast zombies in 28 days Later.
     
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    Yes!!! I love doing this, and thankfully my wife enjoys getting dressed up and doing it for me, even letting me take pictures, lol.

    Our first was a Catholic school girl outfit, and most recently I bought her a french maid outfit, along with a bunch of accessories for it, including white stocking with bows, this white and black Victoria's secret garter belt to hold them up, the whole 9 yards!
     
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    Ok ok... a Cop would be fun, handcuffs, getting arrested, begging for my freedom:biggrin1: Vampires are hot too. The idea is growing on me. :cool:
     
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    Indiana Jones would totally make me happy. So would Hans Solo. They were some of my earliest crushes when I was a girl.

    I bet someone can guess who I want TheBF to dress up as. I talk about it enough. :redface:

    I've done the school girl costume for TheBF, but not a French Maid before. Oddly, he didn't spank me. :confused:

    I was trying to think of what costume would do it for TheBF and that's when I just remembered that the last one he oohed and ahhed over were these two kittens.

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    Oh, I like your cop idea! Now your thinking like me! :cool:

    Yuck!!!!

    Yeah, baseball players are hot! I bet you have a thing for them! :tongue:

    Oh jeebus, I have been in love with David Bowie since I discovered music. That man is just RAWR!

    I had't even thought of Star Trek! And Kirk? Yowza! I LOVED the new Spock. He was drop dead sexy, with that simmering passion just below the surface. Yeah, I could totally see Spock being a fun one.
     
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