Ever been an experiment

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  1. luckyinky

    luckyinky New Member

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    Have you ever been someones experiment? You know, as in their test of the waters as to rather they like men, women or both? If so, do share all the good details! :wink:
     
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    actually yes, I had a friend who was st8 and he knew Id been with guys before, we were cruzing in his car one night and he straight up asked, whats it like to give head. So we went back to his place I started by giving him head and then he gave me head (he was good at it too) then kissed a bit then I rode his cock and he wanted to know what it was like so he rode mine but it hurt too much he was not relaxed enough but he ended up bangin me again an was pretty good we both came showered. in the end he said its not so bad. we messed around a few times after that.
    humm wonder what ever happed to him. he was cool
     
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    Yeah I was the breaking point for a friend who was too far gone gay. He fucked me twice, said it was great.. but he couldn't resist the urge to be with men. He was a sub, so fucking a girl was totally unlike him and not close to what he needed.
     
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    I've been an experimenter most all my life with pretty good success.
     
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    I was once a lesbian's experiment. She wanted to know what sex with a guy was like, so she asked a good friend - me. She seemed pretty certain about being a lesbian, so I don't think it was an experiment - more like wanting to satisfy a curiosity. Overall, a healthy encounter for both of us. She said she might want to try more later, but our life path diverged and we remained in touch afterwards.

    Never been a guy's experiment as far as I know.
     
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    For me, it didn't begin as an experiment, it was just a guy asking me if I wanted to jerk it with him over some straight porn. We were both going at it when I asked him if it would be okay if I touched him and he said alright so I did.

    I rubbed his arms and pecs and did light kissing and it was cool with it all but it just wasn't for him. Shame, too, since he was so attractive and built.
     
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    This has happened to me twice now. The first time was in high school. It was a friend of a friend and we chatted on the subject a bit. A few days later he picked me up and we went to his place. It was actually pretty good. He had been with only one girl and it was my first time. Now I think about it, it was pretty hot. He was laying down on his bed on his back while I sucked him. It lasted for abot an hour--and he gave no warning, just started to softly moan while I swallowed. We never talked after that but I guess my three days of, well, I'll be the gay one-why are you so worried about this? chatting paid off.

    Now the second time, whoa, what a trip! I was sleeping on my couch and my roomie's brother came out from her room and said, there you are, and started kissing me. He then asked for the definition of pitcher and catcher, about three different times and ways. It was clear to me that I was his bottom and had no problem with that. He was a yummy, hung (and dumb) Polish guy, and was nearly commanding me around; but how did he know my weakness, LOL. After the joint shower and the brain cell killng, oxygen depriving blow job from me--he wanted me to fuck HIM. I was so disappointed and then and only then did I feel used. I have to say though, he was a damn good cock sucker and a great fuck--I'd do it all again in a heartbeat.
     
  9. Corius

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    When sex happens between persons who are already bonded in friendship it is often true that both are new at sex. But, when the person who initiates the sex is simply using the other to discover something about himself or herself, I see that as exploitation, using another person for one's own purposes. That's hardly the way to further one's growth in understanding the beauty of sex.

    Nature has provided so that generations of persons who have not experienced the joy of sex can, with a loving partner, learn by doing. The journey into the fullness of one's sexuality ought to be a happy journey; it is by its nature very personal and ought never to be treated as mere experimentation.

    My first, incidentally, was very pleasant; we were both new at it. I would describe it as a wonderful journey of exploration of a new way of expressing our deep feelings for each other. We were both enriched: discoverying things about each other and about ourselves which we found enriched the love we had for each other.
     
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    not tested as in orientation, but as size yes. Small girl want see if big cock would work.
     
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    Similar to Quietguy. I worked with a lesbian who had once been married to a guy and even had a kid but died at birth. That caused the marriage to collapse and she eventually turned to women and thus her current station in life...anyway she was having "girl" problems. Since we both have motorcycles I recommended we take a ride down to the coast. Great ride. We wound up in Santa Cruz and I told her of a private beach we could camp at. She was excited about sleeping at a beach. As we pulled up and stopped I told her that there was one catch...it was a nude beach. She paused then said what the hell. It was around 2 pm so we still had plenty of beach time. We got a camp site and I took her to the showers. When I finished I walked over to the womens shower and waited. When she walked out she looked me up and down and said..You're naked! I said..duh..nude beach! We laughed and walked to our camp. I noticed that she would glance over at my cock. She took off her towel and I said..Damn, you're a girl! Nice tits! Wow you shave, I thought all Lesbos were hairy? She got embarrassed. After a great time on the beach we returned to camp, ate dinner and took a stroll in the sunset. We stopped and talked to a very friendly couple. My friend got very turned on by the woman. Walking back to our tent she said that she was so turned on by the day. We lay there talking and she told me that she now considered me a very good, close friend. The guys at work really gave her a hard time. So I put my arm around her and half hugged her. She immediately reached for my cock and started slowly stroking me. I acted surprised and said that I didn't have tits. She said that she was curious to see if she really missed it or not. It had been 12 years. I was surprised to slide in so easy but she said she still uses a dildo. After what seemed like 2 hours we both exploded at the same time. We fell asleep with me still inside her and her ontop. We had sex 2 more times before morning. About 2 weeks later and a few awkward moments at work she said that I almost swung her over the fence. I feel good that I was able to help a friend but at the same time I feel weird about the whole situation.
     
  12. D_Ivana Dickenside

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    the only experiementing i ever did was kissing my friend, sarah, to see if i liked women or not. there was no difference. it felt the same as kissing a man, except her technique was softer and her lip gloss tasted fruity.
     
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    I have had sex with men who professed to be straight and who had either no or very limited prior sexual experience with other guys. They always appeared to enjoy themselves, so if I was an experiment, I think it worked for them ok. However, whenever I have had sex with other guys who are in an experimental phase, I would say at least half the time, immediately after blowing their loads, they display signs of guilt and remorse. This is a dynamic I don’t like, so unless you are willing to deal with this, I think gay/bi men should proceed cautiously in situations where they are “experiments.”
     
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    god point, fire stick.... i think gay or bi guys who are thinking of going further with a good friend shoukld try to make absolute certain that the relationship would not change

    and y does sex ALWAYS end when loads are blown???? can we not have like after play?
     
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    This is a great topic. As for myself ive had a few experiments. Once with a friend who got caught up in my life style. He liked all the attention he got from hanging out with me. (he had low self esteem, but he was HOT and hung) I think no one ever told him he handsome. Until he started hanging with me. My friends let him know. They also thought we were a couple. So i guess we started messing around over the next two years with oral, anal (i was the bottom) and of course hangin out. We were both in the army. When we would have sex it was great. Then after we finished he'd want to leave. I wouldnt see him for days until he'd call me. Then we were best friends again. Also I think he wasnt gay. He just found a friend to experiment with and who wouldnt let our secret out. Emotionally i think it was hard for me everything was there except the commitment. Eventually i left hawaii we lost touch. Although I have some hot memories of the guy.
     
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    I have a few times, it's something that turns me on a lot. Most recently it was with a student guy who said he hadn't tried anything with another guy before. He was a bit of a bad boy when it came to chasing girls. We got chatting and exchanged numbers and then he started pestering me, not that I wasn't up for it. We met up on my lunch break from work and he was incredibly eager to suck me off. For a first time he was pretty good, I guess guys are just naturally better because they know what it's like to be sucked. I sucked him a bit but he was more interested in sucking me. It was a bit rushed but hot, I came in his mouth and then had to rush back to work all red flushed LOL.

    I think he must have had second thoughts or panicked after that as he wasn't up for it again for months. After that he told me he'd been experimenting with fingering himself and that he wanted to try getting fucked but by then I had a b/f and wasn't up for it.
     
  17. Principessa

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    Sex ends for many men after they 'blow a load' because they fall asleep. :12: Yup, they do it to us girls too. :mad: Some guys can't even be touched afterwards they just want to lie there and bask in the glory of their ejaculation I guess. :confused:

    As for the topic; no, to the best of my knowledge I have never been any mans experiment. I do get a lot of young guys on here who want me to be their first black woman. I always decline. That's just a little weird to me; and a lot degrading.
     
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    As an adolescent I used myself as a test subject to find out what my body enjoyed and how long I could prolong my sexual stimulation and the different kinds things I could use to stimulate me to orgasm. I also had a family friend act as coach in these self stimulaton experiments.
     
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