Ever been caught jerkin? (18+ only)

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When I visited Japan several years ago, I stayed at a hotel with a public bath. One night I got really horny during my bath (probably because I had seen many naked men) there and started stroking myself while sitting at one of those "sitting showers". I was away from other bathers and thought I was well hidden from them. While I was frantically stroking my cock, however I suddenly noticed one guy was passing me from the behind. I am sure he got an eyeful of what I was doing. He probably caught a glimpse of my hard cock as well. Oh well... :)
 

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Had a buddy staying with me for a while after he sold his house and needed a place to stay. Honestly, couldn't have asked for a better housemate. We'd known each other for a number of years before having met at the local pool.

Being in underwear only or nude around the house (when appropriate) never an issue at all for either of us.

Early on, he had walked in to my home office where I was happily enjoying some porn, he was laughing and making the 'jerking-off' motion with his hand at me when he walked in. I did cover up initially when I heard him coming, but he told me it was okay and didn't mind. I figured well we were going to catch each other at some point anyway, so what the hell. He stood beside me for a a bit and watched some of it too, staying fully clothed while I continued my little session.

Since then, we've both grown comfortable and respectful around each other. I've walked in on him and he has walked in on me a number of times, dick in hand, to tell or ask each other something quickly. Always our first response to each other. 'Oh, sorry man,' then proceed to say whatever it was we had to tell each other and leave whoever to get back to their session. (I am the more frequent wanker of the two of us).

I will say, the first time he saw me with morning wood (I'm at my biggest and hardest in the mornings when I wake up), I thought his eyeballs were going to pop out of his head. I'm really not that big (size-wise) but big enough, and bigger than him when erect so I think that was what surprised him the most.

It was very cool for both of us not having to be so covert or apologetic about anything.
 

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Yesterday I was jerking off at home, in my living room. There is a large window but I live in a basement suite with the entrance in the back, and it was around dinner time so I obviously wasn’t expecting anyone.

Anyway, my partner was out with a friend and they were expecting another friend to show up. So me, mid jerking off, got surprised by a loud noise outside and quickly tried to pull up my grey sweatpants that were on the ground, succeeding only to barely cover my raging hard on, my ass and pibes still obvious and out. He then stared into the window, and since I was shocked and a little high, just stared and waved awkwardly back. He motioned to the door and I sheepishly grinned and looked around, not sure what to do.

So I stood up, my boner sticking obviously out of my grey sweatpants and pulled my pants the rest of the way up and went to open the door.

He quite obviously figured out what he walked into, and quickly left after confirming my partner and the other were waiting for him there, and that was that.

I almost wish I hadn’t pulled up so maybe he wouldn’t have stared so long, I’m not sure if it was more or less awkward this way.

He jokes about beating his meat all the time, and I know everyone does it, but how do relationships usually go after something like this happens?
 

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Yesterday I was jerking off at home, in my living room. There is a large window but I live in a basement suite with the entrance in the back, and it was around dinner time so I obviously wasn’t expecting anyone.

Anyway, my partner was out with a friend and they were expecting another friend to show up. So me, mid jerking off, got surprised by a loud noise outside and quickly tried to pull up my grey sweatpants that were on the ground, succeeding only to barely cover my raging hard on, my ass and pibes still obvious and out. He then stared into the window, and since I was shocked and a little high, just stared and waved awkwardly back. He motioned to the door and I sheepishly grinned and looked around, not sure what to do.

So I stood up, my boner sticking obviously out of my grey sweatpants and pulled my pants the rest of the way up and went to open the door.

He quite obviously figured out what he walked into, and quickly left after confirming my partner and the other were waiting for him there, and that was that.

I almost wish I hadn’t pulled up so maybe he wouldn’t have stared so long, I’m not sure if it was more or less awkward this way.

He jokes about beating his meat all the time, and I know everyone does it, but how do relationships usually go after something like this happens?
He didn't say anything about it so he either didn't see what you were doing and any reaction he had was just due to you behaving strangely or he did see/figure it out, doesn't care and won't say anything about it.

Since you all or at least he seems to joke about jerking off anyway, if he does say something it will just become part of the inside jokes of your friendship group. Obviously thru the jokes there is an unspoken understanding that you all beat your meat.

I doubt anything will change and I would just proceed like nothing happened. If it comes up then just play it off - "yes I was busted while trying to bust" or something like that. Obviously as guys he and he entire group all understand the need you were fulfilling and do it plenty themselves so they won't think any less of you or make any judgement. The only catch here is if your partner has the expectation there is no masturbating and all sex is between the two of you then you may need to have a conversation about that - but its doubtful this friend will bring it up with them anyway.
 

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He didn't say anything about it so he either didn't see what you were doing and any reaction he had was just due to you behaving strangely or he did see/figure it out, doesn't care and won't say anything about it.

Since you all or at least he seems to joke about jerking off anyway, if he does say something it will just become part of the inside jokes of your friendship group. Obviously thru the jokes there is an unspoken understanding that you all beat your meat.

I doubt anything will change and I would just proceed like nothing happened. If it comes up then just play it off - "yes I was busted while trying to bust" or something like that. Obviously as guys he and he entire group all understand the need you were fulfilling and do it plenty themselves so they won't think any less of you or make any judgement. The only catch here is if your partner has the expectation there is no masturbating and all sex is between the two of you then you may need to have a conversation about that - but its doubtful this friend will bring it up with them anyway.
I messaged him after and just said “I am sorry about that” and he replied “lol all good” and then I said “awesome let’s never talk about this again Ahaha” and he didn’t respond. I told my partner right away, he knew I was gonna be jerking off anyway so he just felt bad that I got caught.
I still don’t know how to feel lol. It was a little part exciting getting caught but also just super awkward so idk lol. He definitely figured out what I was doing, my boner was not invisible in my pants.
 

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I messaged him after and just said “I am sorry about that” and he replied “lol all good” and then I said “awesome let’s never talk about this again Ahaha” and he didn’t respond. I told my partner right away, he knew I was gonna be jerking off anyway so he just felt bad that I got caught.
I still don’t know how to feel lol. It was a little part exciting getting caught but also just super awkward so idk lol. He definitely figured out what I was doing, my boner was not invisible in my pants.
Ok well that sounds like a good outcome. I'd bet if you hadn't texted him he never would have said anything but good being proactive with your partner just in case. Sounds like you are both on the same page which is good.
 

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Ok well that sounds like a good outcome. I'd bet if you hadn't texted him he never would have said anything but good being proactive with your partner just in case. Sounds like you are both on the same page which is good.
Oh definitely, communication is important :D
 
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In college, my friend was visiting me in the dorms when my roommate was out of town. I heard my friend get up and seeing he was going to the bathroom with his towel to take a shower. I had my morning boner and was just horny. I just needed a minute or 2. I’m sitting up against the wall, pull my boxer briefs under my balls and start stroking. I’m so close when the door opens and he enters. He closes it and says he forgot….when he stops and stares. And I say sorry then press my lips together to stifle any moans because I start to cum. He actually watches until I finish. It’s like I held my breath the whole time…excited and embarrassed at the same time. I say sorry again. He says he guessed he should have knocked in this cute goofy grin, and we both start laughing.
 

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In college, my friend was visiting me in the dorms when my roommate was out of town. I heard my friend get up and seeing he was going to the bathroom with his towel to take a shower. I had my morning boner and was just horny. I just needed a minute or 2. I’m sitting up against the wall, pull my boxer briefs under my balls and start stroking. I’m so close when the door opens and he enters. He closes it and says he forgot….when he stops and stares. And I say sorry then press my lips together to stifle any moans because I start to cum. He actually watches until I finish. It’s like I held my breath the whole time…excited and embarrassed at the same time. I say sorry again. He says he guessed he should have knocked in this cute goofy grin, and we both start laughing.
And hopefully that led to you two masturbating together :p
 

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Think it's happened to me twice, once a family member walked in on me, he just laughed at me and walked out, the other time I was at someone's house and there was a woman next door watching, once I noticed her I just went to another room
Who was the family member ?