Ever been friends with a porn star?

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    Pretty strange, but for a while there I corresponded with Erick Everhard. I remember him tellin gme about his different jobs. I remember talking to him about one of his recent releases, and him saying how horny the girls were. And I remember him telling me one time that he was having so much sex that he wore off the top layer of skin on his penis and had been told by a doctor that he had to stop having sex for at least a week. Pretty funny.
     
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    I had a British Porn star add me to msn once after getting my email address from another site. When he first contacted me I was really dismissive and didn't believe it was really him, going as far as to tell him how tragic his life must be if he had to resort to pretending to be a porn star in order to get attention.

    After a few minutes of enduring my scorn he put his webcam on... that soon shut me up, it was him!

    Good job I'd never consider shagging a porn star because he was one of the dullest men I've ever chatted to online! lol

    I won't name him, because the guy was hung and is probably a member of this forum haha
     
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    The thing about Erick Everhard was that he was incredibly intelligent. He was a perfect speller. His punctuation was immaculate. He was thoughtful. And this was when he was about 27. I remember telling him at the time that I couldn't believe how young he was. He was so insightful. I remember him saying that he had a theory that one reason we males need porn is because so many male privileges are being taken from us; there's a part of us that wants to say, "look, I still have a dick and I can fuck a woman...."

    It was such an unusual experience to correspond with him about this career, to talk to him about videos he was making -- and then to see those videos. And then talk to him again about the videos. I was sort of a vicarious porn star through him for a while.

    I remember talking to him about whether he would ever direct videos. He said no. But then a few years later, lo and behond, he's directing.
     
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    Actually, I'm friends with quite a few..fucked around with a few too. Most are just your normal guys...very nice guys as far as the ones I know goes. Funny thing is, a lot of them have normal jobs...
     
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    A few of my friends do porn. I agree with OCMuscleJock, it is funny that they do have rather normal jobs. Although, I don't have any desire to "fuck around" with any of them. It would just be odd to me.

    I think I've pretty much seen everything they've done. I've seriously learned about just how non-vanilla some of my rather plain, "church on Sundays", "in bed by 9" friends can be!
     
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    Started dating one when I lived in Minneapolis. Super sweet guy, but on our third date he started talking about how he wanted to move in with me. Needless to say, that was not something I thought we were ready for. It was pretty much done after that.
     
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    Seeing as how I've worked in the industry (behind scenes, journalist), then yes I've been friends with numerous porn stars, and have slept with quite a few too. and I'd have to agree with the view that they're all just people whose job involves sex. They have as varied personalities as any other class of people - some are freaks or flakes or weirdos, and some are lovely, warm-hearted people.
     
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    My best friend was a porn star in the 90's. Funny thing is, he is as shy and insecure as they come!(Trust me, he has NOTHING to be shy about)
     
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    I'm good friends with a women who worked in the Russian porn industry for three years. She left it because she felt threatened and couldn't collect the money she was owed. She was afraid for being forced in prostitution.

    She has a sweet but forceful personality... the women knows how to get she wants! She has completed an engineering degree and now works in the Russian IT sector.
     
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    This is all so interesting. I guess that for most of us the whole thing seems so exotic that you almost feel like they'd live in another realm.

    I remember how odd it was back when I used to correspond with Erik Everhard. Writing to him, it was all so "normal." And then I'd watch him in a porn video and think, "Wow. This is that guy I write to...." I don't know. Not only unusual to see a guy I knew (at least via e-mail) have sex, but also on camera.

    I'm still friends with Erik, at least on facebook.
     
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    I bet you put them to shame anyway big man... :)
     
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    I had a friend for several years that was quite a porn star in gay films. We had wonderful conversations and he was really an interesting person.
     
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    Years ago, 4 of us rented a house. Went to luch with one of the new roommates and it seemed a lot of guys in West Hollywood knew him. Turns out he was Nick Rogers (R.I.P) One of the absolute nicest roommates and guys I ever knew. Met Al Parker and his boyfriend back then and a few others. Most as we know, are all gone now.
    And not too many years ago I worked with Spike. We worked together for a few years before he was out. I have a picture of him with really long hair. To the middle of his back. He was young, hung, lean and a really good artist. He went on to be, well Spike. I still keep in touch with him.
    Have a holly Jolly all

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    My aunt was in the porn business when she was young. Most of the family doesn't know about her but I've seen some of her old vids. She was quite the hottie in the 80s.
     
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    I went on a date and subsequently had sex with Tristan Paris.
     
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    Al Parker was a grad student at BU when I was an undergrad although I never knew him and I went out with Jack Wrangler a few times. He's a sweetheart.
     
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    hahah thanks :) *blush*
     
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    I used to film porn, and I was friends with a gay porn star name "Grant Fagin"
    HUUUUUUUUUGE WIENER!

    Grant Fagin
     
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    I was talking to a former porn star online for awhile. He showed me his old contract with Falcon Videos, and some old pictures. He told me the titles of some movies he was in, but I never remembered the names. He and his boyfriend would occasionally put on some sex shows for me, show me some visual tips and tricks they use on-set, etc. The thing is, he and his boyfriend "fell in love" with me and wanted to come and pick me up and bring me back to their home state; They wanted me to be both of their boyfriends; to share me. That was a bit too weird for me, so I had to break all contact with them.
     
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    Dude I can't blame him for trying, you are way HOT!!!!!
     
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