Ever been friends with a porn star?

[musclebutt2]

10+ years ago I was putzing around the upstairs pool table at The Cafe one early afternoon. It was almost empty except for some barflies getting their drink on. After a few solo games, I was approached by a handsome, tall, and lanky stranger to play pool. I readily agreed. I won a few games and he suggested we make it more interesting, "let's play for tops or bottoms." I was young and the cocktails were flowing. I didn't really make the connection as to what he was talking about so I said sure, why not.

He trounced me hard the next couple of matches and I lost royally. I've been had and it was time to pay up. We went back to his hotel room and I was in for a shock. For the very first time, I came face to face with 'Monster,' I cock big enough to scare small children and little animals. But I was a trooper, and did the best I could. A bet was a bet, afterall.

I belatedly learned his stage name was Michael Brandon. When we were playing pool I think he mentioned he was in porn but I dismissed it as pure braggadocio. Since that initial encounter, Michael and I have remained friends. We tried to date, but I don't like long-distance relationships and decided that friends with benefits was a better arrangement. He is a sweet man and before we both found our respective boyfriends, I stayed at his house a few times when visiting Los Angeles.

Our paths crossed last week in front of Harvey's, and we re-connected. He's a good man going through some hard times but still a long-time friend; hard to come by in a transient town like San Francisco. We promised to renew our acquaintance.

I have known other people in the porn industry besides Michael, and I concur that it is a mixed bag. For some inexplicable reason, the nice and sweet ones always stand out most in my mind. I find it difficult to watch people I know personally perform in porn videos. It turns me off. It's not jealousy nor possessiveness, but due to objectification and fantasy. A rather strange voyeuristic idiosyncracity, I admit.

 

[molotow11]

hm reading your stories I am a bit jealous.I met two pornstars without knowing they were in porn and it was really very normal. I would love to meet michal Brandon just for the sake of him...

 

[deleted142346]

There was a porn actor who lived in my apt bldg in West Hollywood. We jacked off a couple of times together on the rooftop sundeck. His stage name was Mark West. His boyfriend and I also messed around on the sundeck.

That sounds like a nice plotline for a gay porno version of Melrose Place -- from your gallery you could play yourself no problem.:biggrin1:

 

[Mem]

I think I've pretty much seen everything they've done. I've seriously learned about just how non-vanilla some of my rather plain, "church on Sundays", "in bed by 9" friends can be!

When I read this I thought it said in bed by nine inch. :wink: I'm a perv. :biggrin1:

 

[justndav]

Well being from the area Im from I would never have expected to meet any... but a few years ago I met one at a local bar actually. He's a younger pup and originally from the area too, very handsome and hung like a horse. He, too, is shorter at about 5'7" but his hardon is about 8-8 1/2" not bad at all. We fucked around for quite a while and still email and talk on the phone to this day. He had a couple of parties where a lot of his fellow porn stars with the company he works for have attended and Ive played with a couple of them too, but not actually friends with them.

 

[Capitolhillguy]

Year's ago I was friends with a pornstar who may have saved my life. He had a genormous cock and was a strict top. He became poz topping people bb. I used to do that and cut it out of my repertoire. I also hooked up with a pornstar/ escort for some play. He was sexy but like most pornstars didn't know how to properly suck cock. He wanted my load but he wasn't good enough to get it. My best friend years ago was a centerfold in Mandate magazine and I had sex with another centerfold about 20 years ago who had an 11 inch cock! I used to dance with Sergio Canali about 17 years ago at a country western bar.

 

[D_Cock_Hudson]

Used to be friendly with a former page 3 model. It was like being a friend of your next door neighbour.

 

[hoggindaz]

yeah im friends with preston parker and ramon from bangbros when i lived in florida we would hang out and smoke up alot, lol funny story preston said that none of the people they pick up are really off the street, he said they have an agent who looks for and calls the girls they want and then the agent calls and they decide whether they want to use her or not and if they do they call her do a phone interview and agree on the terms and then have her come in and they decide final terms sign contract, etc then they call and say, be waiting here and we will come and get you at a certain time, its completely staged.

 

[JC8]

yeah im friends with preston parker and ramon from bangbros when i lived in florida we would hang out and smoke up alot, lol funny story preston said that none of the people they pick up are really off the street, he said they have an agent who looks for and calls the girls they want and then the agent calls and they decide whether they want to use her or not and if they do they call her do a phone interview and agree on the terms and then have her come in and they decide final terms sign contract, etc then they call and say, be waiting here and we will come and get you at a certain time, its completely staged.

It's completely staged!? No way, now millions of morons are disillusioned.

Also: I never realized there were so many gay porn stars.

 

[D_Jerry_Atric]

If by "hilarious classic" you mean "repulsive disease-ridden example of the worst in human nature," then I agree with you.

I agree with lvsxy808.

As for the question: Nope.

 

[scottredleter]

I have several friends that are porn actors... but I was friends with only one porn star...
Garg MAn: My Porn Star Hero

 

[BiItalianBro]

Yea...I am good friends with two; they are really decent people. I don't define them for what they do anymore then they define me for my career choices.

 

[allmale]

I met one former Falcon model at a bookstore about 4 years ago and we hooked up for a couple of weeks. He was a power bottom and was mostly in the industry before HIV/AIDS, he spoke of his tenure in porn, said he never did a shoot without being on something (mostly herion I think). He made alot of money but sadly spent all of it. Anyway, AID's hit in the 80's and he decided to leave shortly thereafter, got checked into rehab, moved and is now working in an advertising/graphics agency, and bookkeeping on the side. I've lost contact with him.
After he told me he did porn I thought he was bullshiting me and I did some research and sure enough he was on the cover of some movies, albeit younger. I watched one of them, felt inadequate and our relationship was never the same. Power bottom he was, but couldn't give head for shit. Double anal penetration was a speciality.
He told me that he never really discusses what he did with friends, and is not proud of it, said he needed the money. I respect his privacy and won't drop his name.

 

[BiggerInTexas8]

In a former life, when I was a Castro Clone bartender in the 1970's, I met Richard Locke at the Rich Street Tubs and had a month-long (maybe five weeks) fuck, suck, cuddle, fuck, suck, fuck, suck, cuddle, fuck, suck, cuddle, let's try some kink, cuddle, fuck, suck, cuddle, fuck, suck, cuddle, orgy, fuck, suck, cuddle, fuck, foursome, suck, cuddle, fuck, suck, cuddle, fuck, suck, cruise Buena Vista Park restrooms, cuddle, fuck, suck, cuddle, fuck, suck, cuddle, fuck, suck, cuddle, fuck, suck, cuddle, fuck, suck, cuddle, fuck, suck, cuddle, -- now for some leather and light S&M -- fuck, suck, cuddle, fuck, suck, cuddle, fuck, suck, cuddle, fuck, suck, cuddle, fuck, suck, cuddle, light S&M, orgy, threesome, orgy, fuck, suck, cuddle, light leather, cluster fuck (pant, pant, pant pant) affair. After this marathon of non-stop sex we remained good friends until he became semi famous appearing in the Joe Gage films as the lanky, goofy, bearded red-neck cock sucker that he was. He was almost twice my age. And a was a major sexy daddy before daddies were even invented. I would have the occasional hookup with him until about 1978. In 1980 he discovered he had become infected with HIV and I never had the opportunity to see him before he died.

He was always sort of a gay political activist and wrote interesting erotic poetry. It wasn't exactly T.S. Eliot, but it was interesting. Regardless, he was one Hell of a nice guy and at least I have the old Joe Gage Triology videos where he was pared up with Jack Wrangler as a road buddy. Heat Stroke, about a bunch of ranch hands going into town for the weekend shows him off doing what he did best in his prime (if you can find an intact copy). However, one of those talents was NOT acting. But he sure as Hell had no problem fucking and getting fucked on film. And as I mentioned earlier he was a genuinely nice guy appreciative of all cocks, regardless of their size.

I still jack off thinking about him.

And that's why men of our generation died off like flies from HIV/AIDS. I'm thankful that I was always more into sex in a relationship and not into anal sex which is an easy way to get it if you are not using condoms. Did Richard Locke know that you are bisexual? Was it a turn on for him like it can be for lots of gay men? He probably did like bisexual men to some extent since Jack Wrangler was bisexual. I do not know any porn stars.

 

[mitchymo]

I have Jakub Stefano (former bel ami) on my myspace friends and chat to him on Gaydar.

He has sent me numerous pictures and i asked his permission before i posted them on my blog!

 

[tallblondviking]

An ex b/f of mine was a well known "actor" in the adult film industry. We spent nearly 3 years together, the only reason for separation was my accepting a transfer out of the area. For him (and me) his fucking other guys in front of the camera was just a job. Outside work neither of us strayed....except together. I got to meet/know a lot of the other actors and they truly are just like you and me.

 

[D_CountdeGrandePinja]

Remember Dick Masters? Was great friends for awhile, some time ago - really super person - very gentle and kind.

Also had a few encounters at a great bar in Ft L. - The Stud - wish it were still open!!!

 

[thirdknee63]

Yes..growing up in the San fernando valley and being as horny as i was all the time..it had 2 happen

 

[Bajan]

I went to university with a guy that did gay porn while he was in school, he was in a movie called "Addicted/Adickted".

 

[BigDallasDick8x6]

Not really friends, but I've had sex with 3 porn stars. Or maybe two porn stars and one porn actor. I think the term porn star gets over used. Not everyone who makes a living in porn is a "star" in my opinion. "Star" has to be a standout.