We've talked about this before on here and I am currently a bull to two couples and have been to another good 5 over the years all of which have been VERY different and some haven't been enjoyable.
At this point i do wish to point out to HungShyMan that NO it doesn't mean her man taking it up the arse at all unless I've been doing it wrong all these years.
It also doesn't have to be a small dicked guy. Examples :
A couple I'm no longer seeing he was the typical small guy, he'd been chastised for years and it was a full time life for them. We had sex while he was in a dog cage in the corner with his cock locked up. He's watch me fuck her taking abuse from the pair of us and then he'd be let out to see how a "real man" fucks his girlfriend for him to then clean me out of her.
A current couple i see in Scotland are a little different. He's an "OK" size i guess but can't get an erection. He's not got a lot of confidence and likes me to dominate the whole evening from start to finish. It's more than about the sex it's about the event. I chose the restaurant and he pays, they pay for the nice hotel room and while he is normally settling the bills i take his wife upstairs and start fucking her. She's not overly confident but loves to have a big cock and have a confident man having her. He'll normally arrive in the room well after I've got my head between her legs and just stand there till i say he can wank and wank he does but never gets hard or cums. When it comes to fucking his wife she lays on her back and he holds her legs open for me to "present" his wife to me while i then fuck her. He has had the pleasure of guiding my cock into her and has asked if he can suck me off and I'm not allowing that, it's not my scene. He also cleans her out if i cum inside her or normally it's off her chest as she likes to see him do that.
The last couple its all about cock size. They are a couple early 30's like myself and he's go a big cock. He is the biggest she'd had until me. For him it's about seeing her fucked by a big cock. He's very successful at his job and has the house, car etc etc but this is one area he isn't "top dog" as she refers to it. She's an air hostess and isn't short of offers but it's not about just having more cock it's about him watching and her being filled right up. He likes to film everything and i never get a copy. I expect this is his way of excerpting some control of the event after i have left.
As for how it all started i was 21 at the time dating a 3 year old and she basically shot her mouth off at the school gates about me being hung etc etc and another mum basically approached her and she fundamentally pimped me out. From then till now its been on off and while i have a profile on some swingers sites i have only initiated contact with one couple in the last few years. Believe it or not if people are in "the scene" and have a "good bull" you'll get known and it's the most bizarre thing when you're at work and you check your "bull email account" and you have an email saying
Dear xxx , we are yyy. You don't know us but zzz gave us your info. Can we meet up for a drink, you name the time and the place
When that happens then you're screwed, kiss your work day good bye as you can't think of anything else.. Especially when they come with pictures
Hope that helps. If you have more questions and wanted to ask privately then just contact me
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