ever been to a bathhouse?

KuronoB

Cherished Member
Joined
Jun 10, 2012
Posts
456
Media
0
Likes
273
Points
148
Location
Chicago (Illinois, United States)
Sexuality
99% Gay, 1% Straight
Gender
Male
One funny note - Chinese guys often travel and cruise in groups. Hmmm - I thought cruising was a solo pursuit.

My friends and I, all American, also travel and cruise in groups, including at bathhouses. :cool: We've also met groups of other friends. I think younger guys (under 30?) who are unfamiliar with the bathhouse scene go with friends to make the experience more palatable.
 

Novaboy

Superior Member
Joined
Dec 3, 2005
Posts
6,252
Media
5
Likes
8,562
Points
343
Location
Canada
Sexuality
100% Gay, 0% Straight
Gender
Male
Met my partner of almost 22 years in a bath house. Toronto has 3 currently. There used to be a couple more but they have closed. The busiest is Steam Works. A wide range go ages and types. Hit and miss as far as action goes. It's a very sexual atmosphere. I find it enjoyable even if I don't do anything but watch. It's fun to have permission to look without feeling like you shouldn't. You hear guys going at it and sometimes while watching you can join in and little group action gets started. Toronto has had lesbian bath house nights. As a solo event they were successful but long term I've heard they don't' seem to work. Women in general seem less comfortable to just fool around for fun. I've met very nice people there. The idea that they are sleazy is really just a judgement about having sex purely for fun.