Ever been told your big but find it aint true?

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ive been with a girl for almost 2 years she would always say how big i was called me big boy etc! I have a 3.75-4" erect penis size. I always believed what she told me as i had nothing to compare to. We both had never watched porn but thought it would be exciting. She got hold of some and we watched. The men on it were over twice my size and some more i was gutted as i could see her eyes popping out staring at big men.she still calls me big when im clearly not now looking at porn and this website. I feel like rubbish what do i say to her? This kind of thing happen to anybody else
 

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You have been enough for her so far. Why should that change. I am "porn" big and I dont have anyone. Stop worrying about it and just enjoy your relationship with her. A big cock is not the only thing, or even the most important thing. Be confident and learn new ways to please her.
 

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Hmm...well, I have to put it like this:

I may have a bigger penis than you, but I'm almost positive you've had more sex, and you are in a relationship and I am not. So, again, it all comes down to what you do with it, not what you have.

Women are attracted to confidence. Even if your penis isn't the largest, as long as you give great head (and be enthusiastic about it, offer it often!) and always look for experimental ways to please her you'll be fine.

Don't worry about matching up. We all wish we were bigger, no matter our size. I bet even the 10 inch dudes wish they were 12. It's just part of being a man.
 

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What does sph mean?

To answer the question (even if I am taking the bait)

Yes I feel average or even small and was told I am big.
Don't know what is true.
 

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People say I'm above average, but I keep thinking I'm small. One day my cock seems so big and "perky" (I can't believe I just said that) and the other day it seems so small I can barely handle it. I feel ashamed every time I see it that small. I have no idea why it's like that way sometime, but if I ended up going to have sex and it were that small I'd just worry too much about it.

So yes, I've also been told I'm big, but I don't see it anywhere.
 

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People say I'm above average, but I keep thinking I'm small. One day my cock seems so big and "perky" (I can't believe I just said that) and the other day it seems so small I can barely handle it. I feel ashamed every time I see it that small. I have no idea why it's like that way sometime, but if I ended up going to have sex and it were that small I'd just worry too much about it.

So yes, I've also been told I'm big, but I don't see it anywhere.

check out the "cremaster muscle"
it is most likely what you are experiencing,
 

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as far as the OP,

i think every woman does it to every man...

"OH MY GOD IT IS SOOOOO BIG"
then you hear them snicker or roll the eyes.
i think sometimes women need a handful and then 6-7 hanging out
from the hand to be fully satisfied emotionally/psychologically.

so that is near 12 inches. lol.
 

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check out the "cremaster muscle"
it is most likely what you are experiencing,
Wow, I've never heard of that muscle before. This might just be the explanation.

It's amazing how much I keep learning on this forum.
 
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The only girl I have been with said, Wow thats a big one, again it was her first one too! The dude I have been with said, well, your for sure not a top!!!! SO, based on my experience, I cannot escape the insults LOL
 

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I've found women to be completely off when it comes to how big they think a dick is. They think average is eight inches and that a big one is ten. Ten inches is big, don't get me wrong, but I've heard girls talk about my friend having a ten inch dick that i measured myself at 7. Women rarely know what they are talking about in this regard. So, if a girl tells me I'm huge, I smile and nod and know they're full of crap.
 

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Girls do estimate wrong. I'm 7.5 and girl guessed I was 10.

Every girl I have been with has said I am big, most say I'm the biggest. I find it so hard to believe I'm the biggest - but I guess deep down the only reason a girl should be honest and tell you you are not the biggest is if it IS an issue. If is NOT an issue to her, she may as well be saying 1) A lie to please you or 2) The truth and you are the biggest to her. And you may as well believe 2) for your confidence!
 

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Ever been told your big but find it aint true?
No, I've never been told my big. I've been told my fortune, but not my big.
Well, you're 90% gay, so why are you with a chick?
Among other things hokey about the OP -- like why the fuck would anyone with a four-inch penis be posting on this site?
I think this is a sph thread. Just my suspicion.
What does sph mean?
SPH = small-penis humiliation.

This thread is bullshit.