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Ever been with an escort?
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Yes I had ,a 1986 Ford Escort,she was too small though.
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I've done the massage thing as well. I knew it was going to be an "erotic massage" beforehand.
I recommend checking out the major escort ad websites for whatever city you're looking in. Internet search + a little comparison of the sites should tell you where the legit ads are. Most women or massage parlors will have a website where you can see the rates, usually pics of the women. Pick someone who you're attracted to and fits your price range. Don't over complicate it and twist your brain in knots. Some tips:
- sex workers are not your plaything and they are not selling you their body. They are people just like everyone else, and they are selling you a service. Be polite and treat them with respect, and your kindness will almost always be repaid.
- be clean - clean clothes, showered, brush teeth, not smelling bad
- pay the rate the escort quotes. Attempting to low-ball her price or negotiate is very rude and not appreciated.
- relax and enjoy - that's what you're there for!
- sex workers are not your plaything and they are not selling you their body. They are people just like everyone else, and they are selling you a service. Be polite and treat them with respect, and your kindness will almost always be repaid.
- be clean - clean clothes, showered, brush teeth, not smelling bad
- pay the rate the escort quotes. Attempting to low-ball her price or negotiate is very rude and not appreciated.
- relax and enjoy - that's what you're there for!
I have never been with an escort....I'm not against it, I'm just too damm cheap (truth be told)--- If I was rich, I might try it. BUT I also find there are plenty of woman wanting to play if you do the work to find them. I mean, I understand,... you want a cookie when you want a cookie...even if you have to pay for it.
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Never. Makes for good fantasy from time to time, but it's not something I'd ever actually do.
The whole escort thing makes no sense to me. To me the whole point of relationships, dates, and one night stands is wanting to be with someone who wants to be with you. Paying someone for the privilege thoroughly undermines that. I have a strong capacity for suspension of disbelief, but not enough for that.
Then again, I also don't understand the point of strip clubs. Why would any grown man pay to get teased? Wasn't high school enough?
Then again, I also don't understand the point of strip clubs. Why would any grown man pay to get teased? Wasn't high school enough?
I have sex because I like it and to get off for the sake of my mental and physical health. Its not something I directly associate with a relationship.
Maybe I'm just different, but even during a one night stand wanting and being wanted is part of the appeal. Otherwise I would just masturbate.
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This, in a nutshell.
Plus, the whole aspect of engaging in an activity that is wholly illegal where I live is not an attraction.
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Was just recently a guest in Japan, and each member of our group was assigned an escort. They accompanied us to meals and events, but to my knowledge no one brought them back to the hotel.
I sent a picture to my wife who was amused. OK, amused might be stretching it, but she could tell I wasn't entirely comfortable with the situation. I did not want to disrespect my hosts. This was mostly PR for them as it was not requested in our contract (I think it asks for hookers, but I could be wrong. Just kidding, Babe).
I sent a picture to my wife who was amused. OK, amused might be stretching it, but she could tell I wasn't entirely comfortable with the situation. I did not want to disrespect my hosts. This was mostly PR for them as it was not requested in our contract (I think it asks for hookers, but I could be wrong. Just kidding, Babe).
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An old college classmate of mine mentioned a business trip to South Korea where ladies joined them at dinner and drinking after the business day was done. He said he was single, and she was very willing so ...
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First, with an escort, you are paying for the date. The sex is optional and at her discretion.
Second, I don't see how that changes my observation about wanting and being wanted. Whether you are paying her to show up or paying her to leave, you are still not dealing with the same kind of mutual attraction that drives a normal date or one night stand.
No, I never have, and not for reasons of ethics, morality, or sexual health.
For me, sex for money isn't sex.
For me, sex for money isn't sex.
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Having lived and worked in Japan, somehow I've never had this experience. I've definitely experienced the "hostess" thing, but never an escort. There's a healthy red light district in Tokyo, though.
Oh, and no, I've never been with an escort. I'm not clear on the point, honestly. It's not that hard to find a woman who wants no strings sex as much as you do, and you don't have to pay her for it. Plus it's much more fun, in my opinion. I can't imagine I'd be able to get off with someone I'm paying for it.
In other words, you didn't want to go through the hassle of finding someone with whom there was mutual attraction and just paid for companionship instead.
Not going to judge you for that, but I simply don't find it appealing.
