Anyone ever catch your ex girlfriend in the act lf cheating right on the spot? How did you react? How long ago was it? Are you traumatized?
I'm not talking about a cuck fetish. I'm talking about being in love with a women, thinking you're the only one, then out of nowhere you see her in bed with another man. It happened to me a year ago...on Halloween. So I'm still a bit distraught from it...its hard to shake the images in my mind. Just wanted to talk with other men who've experienced traumatic heartbreak.And did anyone tell the guy to nut on her face and let you watch? And did he?
I'm sorry to hearI'm not talking about a cuck fetish. I'm talking about being in love with a women, thinking you're the only one, then out of nowhere you see her in bed with another man. It happened to me a year ago...on Halloween. So I'm still a bit distraught from it...its hard to shake the images in my mind. Just wanted to talk with other men who've experienced traumatic heartbreak.
I'm not talking about a cuck fetish. I'm talking about being in love with a women, thinking you're the only one, then out of nowhere you see her in bed with another man. It happened to me a year ago...on Halloween. So I'm still a bit distraught from it...its hard to shake the images in my mind. Just wanted to talk with other men who've experienced traumatic heartbreak.
No offense to gay guys but he wants the ladies to let him know what they think.Well it sure wasn't because you didn't have enough dick! Damn you're long
Me saying no offense to gay guys is a bad thing? Youve quoted that for the 2nd time now lolNo offense to gay guys but he wants the ladies to let him know what they think.
Not me, I gave you a pointer to AaW.Me saying no offense to gay guys is a bad thing? Youve quoted that for the 2nd time now lol
Let's see if it's possible for snarkers to stalk others and get this thread on topic.Anyone ever catch your ex girlfriend in the act lf cheating right on the spot? How did you react? How long ago was it? Are you traumatized?
Wow man that sucks, she was your wife. I don't understand why lie? Just be truthful and end it instead of going behind someone's back. How long ago did this happen and are you over it or still dealing with it emotionally? Have you found happiness and ability to trust another woman again?Let's see if it's possible for snarkers to stalk others and get this thread on topic.
I don't know if this counts, but during my train wreck first marriage, my wife was on a business trip. She called me in the morning from her hotel room, and after a brief conversation we said goodbye, but she failed to hang up the phone (it was a hotel land line, not cell), and I immediately heard another voice.
The next five minutes was her having sex with what I learned was a coworker. It was shocking and extremely traumatic. As this wasn't her first affair, I knew this was the end for me. I left her and we eventually divorced.
The only bright spot is that this at least ended her gas lighting campaign. I'd long suspected another affair, but it's relatively difficult to reveal a long-distance affair conducted under the guise of business trips. She insisted I was being paranoid. This straight up proved I wasn't wrong.
Not cheating, because we were on an unofficial 'break' at the time - quite close to the end of our relationship - but still living together in the same house. She had a few of her friends round in the evening, two Italian brothers and a woman. I'd not met any of them before. After a while she went off upstairs with one of the Italian guys to 'show him round the house'. They didn’t reappear. So I was left to entertain her other friends for a couple of hours. It was odd and uncomfortable because everyone had a good idea what was going on. After the others left, I went upstairs and could hear them fucking in what had been our bedroom. I was now in the 'guest' bedroom nearby. They had left the door open which seemed to me inconsiderate or borderline hostile. I could hear everything. It was traumatising in a way, because as well as being jealous and angry at this behaviour, I was also very turned on and actually masturbated. So add self-disgust to the mix. But hey ho, we got over it and can even laugh about it now.
Anyone ever catch your ex girlfriend in the act lf cheating right on the spot? How did you react? How long ago was it? Are you traumatized?
My ex wife had the most cheating pussy that ever existed.
I was right in the same bed when the cheating happened and I saw the whole thing.
I was dominating her in scrabble and that fuckin cat swished all the letters right off the board with his paw just before I was about to win.
Believe it or not, this story is 100% true.
It was 20+ years ago. I rarely think about it. But this thread triggered the memory, and it still sends a chill. I'm well over her, and very happily remarried .Wow man that sucks, she was your wife. I don't understand why lie? Just be truthful and end it instead of going behind someone's back. How long ago did this happen and are you over it or still dealing with it emotionally? Have you found happiness and ability to trust another woman again?
Well that was pretty shitty for her to do that blatantly. For you to masturbate during that is odd but who am I to judge?
Good move, don't go back to a tainted relationship. Some shit can't be talked out. I tried. Wasted too many years.Well that was pretty shitty for her to do that blatantly. For you to masturbate during that is odd but who am I to judge? I'm sure the pain was still there, sorry man.
When I caught my ex in bed with another man I froze in shock, so did they. I didn't get violent, I just turned around and walked away. I couldn't even speak or bear to hang around for more than like 40 seconds. It was a quick scenario. I sat in my car silently, still in shock and minutes later the dude comes out fully clothed with a remorseful look on his face. I was able to read his lips as he said "sorry, I didn't know" while he walked to his car and drove away. I went back in, started yelling and asking her how could she do that to me. She told me she wasn't happy because we were arguing a lot lately and things weren't good. She said that he made her feel "valued". I helped her pack all of her shit and kicked her out the same night. She still reaches out to me, begging to come back, saying she made a huge mistake, regrets doing what she did and misses me. I wont take her back though. Seeing her in bed with another man is a burned image in my mind that I can't get over. I do miss her too but now that I know she's capable of lying and sneaking there's no way I will trust her ever again.