Ever Caught An Acquaintance Cruising Or Being Inappropriate?

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Today I went to a glory hole and saw a guy from my gym come in. Imagine the shock when I stole a glance and saw him. He didn't see me. He pleasured me and he came.

Have you ever seen a friend or acquaintance, straight or gay, doing something of a sexual nature such as cruising, searching online for hookups? Were you shocked? Were they?
My biggest fear is being caught checking guys out in the shower or steam room by someone who knows me. The judgement would be hard to take.
 
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I’m also in Oklahoma but am 100% gay and out.
Worrying about what others think or may think is futile. Give it up and move on. You can’t spend your life seeking the approval of others.
 

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I’m also in Oklahoma but am 100% gay and out.
Worrying about what others think or may think is futile. Give it up and move on. You can’t spend your life seeking the approval of others.
So I have to ask...

I live in NYC area and their are homophobic people here just like anywhere else in the world. But people here don’t really give it a second thought for the most part. It must be very different in the Midwest.
 

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I had retired from teaching and one day I was on a M4M site and there was my principal. I always wondered if he was light in his loafers - now I know for sure. Also, a teacher I had worked with who was married with 2 children suddenly turned up on this same site. Shortly after he was on he did kind of come out but was staying married but had a boyfriend (As long as he is happy and they have it worked out it is none of my business).
 
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So I have to ask...

I live in NYC area and their are homophobic people here just like anywhere else in the world. But people here don’t really give it a second thought for the most part. It must be very different in the Midwest.

Honestly I don’t think it’s as different as you might think. Oklahoma is one of the reddest states in the nation and very much Trump country. However, as a married couple we have rarely received negative attention or service. We used to meet (pre-COVID) a bunch of guys for a weekly dinner at a local restaurant. Some weeks there were 30 guys in attendance. No one gave us a second look and we were well attended by staff, none of whom was gay.
We recently did a bathroom and porch tile project and called several companies for bids. Only once did our relationship come up and the guy was surprised to learn that we were married. He knew it had once been an issue but didn’t know it had passed. He congratulated us.
We’ve traveled the country and the world. Negative interactions have been exceedingly rare.
 

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Honestly I don’t think it’s as different as you might think. Oklahoma is one of the reddest states in the nation and very much Trump country. However, as a married couple we have rarely received negative attention or service. We used to meet (pre-COVID) a bunch of guys for a weekly dinner at a local restaurant. Some weeks there were 30 guys in attendance. No one gave us a second look and we were well attended by staff, none of whom was gay.
We recently did a bathroom and porch tile project and called several companies for bids. Only once did our relationship come up and the guy was surprised to learn that we were married. He knew it had once been an issue but didn’t know it had passed. He congratulated us.
We’ve traveled the country and the world. Negative interactions have been exceedingly rare.
Happy to hear this!
 
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About 20 years ago I was coupled with another reporter from New York. We traveled all across the country doing research on this one huge story. For six months we were like cuffed with leg irons, so to speak. When I'm in work mode I pretty much have blinders on and am pretty focused.

We found ourselves in Denver wrapping up everything, and we had planned to go out to a celebratory dinner with some of the reporters there. They had been so helpful to us, and they really thought we'd win a Pulitzer for our work. I kind of knew better, but I was anxious to celebrate.

I went down to the lobby to meet the group, and they were all there. I said "Let's go," and they said "We're waiting for Jerry," meaning my partner. I called up to his room but no answer.

One of the guys went looking for him thinking he's in another part of the hotel. Pretty soon he comes back and says "Let's go. Jerry's not coming." I looked at him puzzled.

We walked to the restaurant, and the guy came up to me and said "I didn't know Jerry was gay."

I said what? Jerry's gay? How do you know?

He nodded back at the hotel and there was Jerry with a young guy, nice looking but a stranger to me. I asked who?

The guy told me that he's a well known gay escort.

OK, so now I know Jerry is gay. The story is put to bed. Jerry and I are going our separate ways probably never to see each other again.

No, I did not take advantage of my new found knowledge. I was not in a gay mood during that period, so I had no interest in him.

But it just goes to show you never know somebody as well as you think.
 
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I worked with a guy who was very built but not very attractive and a bit of an ass to boot! Came off as a tough guy. But the other guys at the job always ranked on him. I never gave him a second thought other than he was ass and I know why he was such an ass and very combative. He was gay and didn’t want people to know so he acted the tough guy!

I use to frequent this bar in NYC, very hot gay spot in the 90’s. Anyway one day I had to pee really bad and I knew I could use the bathroom at the bar. I went in and took my piss and on my out I spot the ass! He was crushing on this one guy big time. No one on my job knew I liked the occasional cock or two and wanted to keep it that way! So I had to escape the bar without the ass seeing me! I made it out but every time at work when I saw him I just smirked like I know your secret bud! I never said a word to anyone!
 

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I saw a former student of mine on a dating website. Didnt see dick pics or anything but it was still awkward.

A friend of mine who I knew was gay had his dic pics on a dating website and I saw them but never told him I did lol.

The brother of my ex was talking to his gf one time and I caught him with an erection. He didnt care lol. It was kind of hot.

I caught a guy at my gyn masturbating once... it was awkward. Another time, at the same gym on two separate occasions I saw two guys with erect penises in the shower. Both were kind of effeminate so I knew they were gay so it wasn't a complete surprise but it was kind of hot.
 

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Gloryholes are awesome and the thing is never know whose dick you’re sucking on or whose sucking you’re sick .. one night three guys got in one stall and wanted whoever on other side .. which was me .. suck their dicks and so I sucked them each for a while one guy put his asshole at the hole told me to lick it and I did best I could .. and then others tried as well to get me to lick their holes which I did taste them just wasn’t able to rim them like I always wanted to.. so then they let me finish sucking them off .. one fellow says he’s going to cum and he shoots his load in my mouth and I swallowed it and swallowed and he was telling the other two I was swallowing his cum
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So when they came I swallowed them as well .. as they left one was like dude I wanna fuck this guy in other stall but they said have to keep it anonymous that’s why people come here .. I sucked off couple more and decided it was time to go home so I go to leave and guys are looking at me as I walked out ..
When I got outside I heard those guys voices talking that one said he wa going to figure out who sucked his dick And wanted to fuck him.. the other two walked off and said they were going home he said he will head home later .. after they walked away he looked back at the building entrance started walking back toward the entrance and I sneaked up behind him and whispered In his ear .. did me swallowing his cum upset him .. he said no that no one ever swallowed his cum before they’d either spit it out or take it out of their mouth and jerk him off until he came ..

I found out he just turned 18 couple weeks prior and his buddy’s told him where he can get his dick sucked and no one would know who was who so he figured maybe whoever’s on the other side would swallow and he said the guy did .. I said I swallowed all three of your guys he turned and looks and says yes you did .. I was 35 at this time And that didn’t bother him .. I did tell him he had a nice cock and if he still wanted to fuck me id let him .. told him my place was couple blocks away and we can do whatever even rimm his ass more and better since get to it alone easier .. so we went to my place and he stayed the night and part of next smash with me .. I was sack d guy he screwed other than that he screwed few women
 

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I grew up “very active”. There wasn’t nothing I wouldn’t do and not much I have t done.. so when people ask about inappropriate contact and stuff . I never thought as anything inappropriate I just did what had to do to get what I wanted
 

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I did t have anyone tell me about the birds and the bees growing up.. I was a curious boy and when I was curious about something I’d just do it.. I never even heard of condoms until I was 16 by then bareback was so addicting I’m a bottom so it’s awesome to feel a dick release itself into me

I’ve looked at people inappropriately myself sometimes they just kept walking others they would either moon me or flash their dixks at me and keep on walking
 
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Just come across this.
I worked at a bank in the business retail banking centre. A lot of small business owners came in for help with variety of things.
This Indian guy came in with his wife one time to get a small loan. I didn’t suspect anything nor I thought of him in anyways. He was kinda hot, but a little fresh of the boat.
Long story short, I went to his business area one time just by chance, and we chatted on Grindr. I sent him a photo, and he recognized it was me. He said hi and sent one back. We ended up blowing each other at his warehouse. He had a small bed there so we had sex a few times together. I moved away from my hometown, but we still chatted. Hopefully, I got to see him again soon!
 
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My home town had a public park that was known to be cruisey. I went there one day looking for some fun and happened to see my aunt's ex husband in the bathroom. He was a little embarrassed at first but we ended up having a good time.
 
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