Ever fantasize about older men..ur mate's father??

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  1. Sportymike

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    I've been very aware of my sexuality from a very young age and even as young as 13 and 14 I used to fantasize about older middle aged men (Im talking men in their 30s and 40s,not older)..and I dont tink it did me any harm, didnt lose my virginity till i was 17. I had a mate who had such a sexy father, probly about 39-40 ish and whenever I'd go over to sleepovers I used to just fantasize about him walkin about naked with his fully developed floppy dick...even today, im 19, i still think about older men, i dunno why! In conclusion......one day my mate asked if I wanted to go swimming with him and his father and brother and I (obviously) said YES! It was the greatest thing ever...in the locker room he walked around freely with his nicely-sized penis flopping about and it was open showers so i got to see him soaping up his crown jewels and perfectly moulded ass cheeks!!Was such a brilliant experience and till this day he still looks A BIT like an older Brad Pitt...Was just wondering if anyone else has the same urges or experiences!!!!

    Spill the beans!
     
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    I think lusting after an older man is fine, as there are today many older men who are taking care of themselves and indeed look like men who could and should grace the covers of Men's Health or Fitness. Personally I can find older 'daddy' types attractive, but he has to indeed be fit and have a sort of happy go lucky personality to go with it. The only 'celebrity' type daddy that is along the lines of my ideal older bloke is a porn star called Derek Steel. He is definately in the much older range but he is very fit and has a HUGE dick.
     
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    My Master is quite a bit older than me but fit, healthy, and gorgeous.

    I have always been attracted to older men.

    And no, I don't think it's any kind of a "daddy" complex. I think I'm just drawn to the kind of strength, wisdom, and experience that usually only time can provide.
     
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    I'm definitely attracted to older men. I married a man only 2 years older than i am, but im always noticing the goodlooking men over 40 in public. I dont think its a daddy figure thing, even though my dad was pretty old when i was born. I think it has more to do with my mom always commenting on the older attractive, slightly greying, distinguished men when i was growing up. There is a pretty age gap between my parents. I think she passed it on to me.
     
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    Not to get into the unnecessary details, but my first few physical relationships were all with men who were significantly older than I was, and for a long time I never found myself even remotely attracted to anyone younger than me. So from that very early age *all* of my fantasies were of older, usually hairy, well-built men.

    Weirdly, I'm now married to a man who's eight years younger than I am. But he's very mature :)
     
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    I like the wisdom and calm older men have to offer, 2 very sexy attributes
     
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    Not older men in general, but definitely the shadowy "I wanna do my bf's dad." Very hot. Or, if you're dating an older male, it's the opposite - hot to do his son. There's that scene in An Officer and a Gentleman...the dad and son share the whore. Yeah, super hot. Longtime fantasy of mine to have the dad and son threesome.
     
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    Being attracted to your mate's Dad is one way to create issues.

    I'd think before i went further with either one of them.
     
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    I'm 47 and welcome the lust of anyone who wants to direct it in my direction..:cool:
     
  10. edonline

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    When I was in college, I had a friend with whom I always hung around. The first time I met his father, my jaw almost dropped because the man was so good looking and distinguished (gray hair, in excellent shape for an older guy, smart) and there seemed to be a spark, at least to me. After that, I met him a couple more times along with my friend and then the two of us started meetingeach other more and more (both being at my friend's place, him being home when I went to visit with my friend, etc). One summer, we went to their family's beach house and the father started "accidentally" running into me naked. (He would go naked for a short time after using the outdoor shower after returning from the beach, but soon I was seeing him naked when no one else was home, just the two of us.) We wound up getting together shortly after school started again. My friend eventually found out (no, we weren't caught "in the act" but he asked if we were seeing each other) but he was cool with it. We fooled around for a few months until his work transferred him overseas.
     
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