Ever feel like life would be less complicated if u didn't deal with dudes?

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i love this topic, as a gay guy, i love the dudes, but it does not mean that I dont want to be bette davis either!

Ha ha, I bet you do a mean impression to.

having said that, I would not try and live a lie to myself or any girl if I had inclinations for a dude. Nor would I settle (although I have) for living with a dude if I was having my chickies on the side (I dont). That would be using him.
there is NO switch to turn off or on, you either "do or do not, there is no try"...yoda. get your priorities str8, devotion to wife and kids or cut it off.

It took a while to even respond to this and I still don't know what to say.

doesnt sound like you got the balls to handle a gay life anyway.

Probably not and I'm soo good with that. Don't feel the need to align my life to anyone else's world view but mine.

now if your question was "how do I balance my bi life style?" I would have offered up a different approach to it. very simple young but muscular grasshopper

lol...I hear you man and appreciate the comp. Appreciate the 'tough love' also..
 

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That's cute. You can create a circular discussion if you want to, but this isn't going down. It is obvious I hit a sore spot, otherwise you would have not said a word. Dude, I don't care, what date. I pointed out black women because you are black, so regardless if you date Martians exclusively it doesn't change the point what you are doing is inadvertently doing harm to whom/whatever you date. Hiding your sexuality shows you are ashamed, so....

Hit dogs ALWAYS hollar, 'RUFF'!

Oh ok...i get. You make a bunch of baseless assumptions, I challenge them and u accuse me of arguing in circles? Straw man much? Im sure u despise me for being "ashamed". You should know that I'm ok with that. And speaking of hollaring..I'm going to step out on a really long limb and assume that you do ALOT more of that than I do :smile:

DUECES
 
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Hhahahah....sorry for the confusion, Sweetheart but I'm a woman.

But, hey, if you want to call me "bro" then that's quite alright by me! :biggrin1:

DOH!!! That's what I get for responding to too many post to fast...lol. My apologies m'lady. How can I make it up to you? :cool:
 

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Oh ok...i get. You make a bunch of baseless assumptions, I challenge them and u accuse me of arguing in circles? Straw man much? Im sure u despise me for being "ashamed". You should know that I'm ok with that. And speaking of hollaring..I'm going to step out on a really long limb and assume that you do ALOT more of that than I do :smile:

DUECES

Oh, you were still talking? :sleeping:
 
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DOH!!! That's what I get for responding to too many post to fast...lol. My apologies m'lady. How can I make it up to you? :cool:


That's a rather dangerous question to ask a lady with my particular tastes but fortunately, I can think of several delicious possibilities.

Tell me, Oprime, what's your pain tolerance like? :newangel:
 

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That's a rather dangerous question to ask a lady with my particular tastes but fortunately, I can think of several delicious possibilities.

Tell me, Oprime, what's your pain tolerance like? :newangel:

Before I respond, did your angel turn to a devil?? lol
Pain tolerance huh? Hmmmm...I am startin find u to be inteerrresting voman...let's make have fun...no?

My pain tolerance is pretty high...what u got?
 

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Before I respond, did your angel turn to a devil?? lol
Pain tolerance huh? Hmmmm...I am startin find u to be inteerrresting voman...let's make have fun...no?

My pain tolerance is pretty high...what u got?

Me?
I'm 5'2 and as harmless as a new born kitten.

Honest. :wink:
 

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I have no problem owning that. It's all about delivery. Kinda like how YOU choose to get that point across to me. I don't have a problem with two dudes living together. I think people should be able to do whatever they what, that doesn't mean I would, be default, understand it (which i don't).

Oprime - I think what most of the members are trying to point out is that you said, "the idea of two dudes living together doesn't make sense to me," instead of something like, "I can't see myself living together with another dude." There is a difference. The way you word things is very important, and especially so on the internet, where communication is achieved through nothing more than text and misinterpretations can arise. Although, more often than not, it gives you a chance to discuss things further and get to know people that way.

I'm guessing that some members are offended by the fact that it appears that you don't "approve" of two men living together, whereas I think you simply don't want to live with another man. And that's fine. Like I said, there are other members on this very website who may look at another man as a sex toy for the night and nothing more. No dates, no relationships, no commitment or feelings. Just pleasure.

And then there's the point of calling it a lifestyle... Well, come on, your love life is at least part of your lifestyle. I didn't think that was a big deal.
I thought you misspoke, now I see you are just as clueless as your original post. You don't understand why men would live together, what rock did you climb out from under.
 

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I thought you misspoke, now I see you are just as clueless as your original post. You don't understand why men would live together, what rock did you climb out from under.
Was that to me or to him?

Either way - Oprime, you accept that two guys (or even two women) will live together, but you don't understand why they would? I mean... Why would you want to live with another woman? Take those feelings you have for her, and put them between two men or two women - and that's why they want to live together.
 

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I thought you misspoke, now I see you are just as clueless as your original post. You don't understand why men would live together, what rock did you climb out from under.

apparently, a pretty crowded one. *shrug* There are 7 billion people on this planet, you should probably manage your expectations. I do expect people to live and let live but I do not expect them to inherently understand the host of choices/desires/natural inclinations/dispositions that other's have. If that were the case, war, politics, religious dogma wouldn't exist. As a species we are not there yet. Capice? Good.
 
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Was that to me or to him?

Either way - Oprime, you accept that two guys (or even two women) will live together, but you don't understand why they would? I mean... Why would you want to live with another woman? Take those feelings you have for her, and put them between two men or two women - and that's why they want to live together.

I guess for me, the type of dudes that catch my attention tend to be alpha male types like me. While I have had fun times I can't image cohabiting with them, there would be to much conflict/not enough compromise...I just don't see it working at all, but that's just me.
 

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Was that to me or to him?

Either way - Oprime, you accept that two guys (or even two women) will live together, but you don't understand why they would? I mean... Why would you want to live with another woman? Take those feelings you have for her, and put them between two men or two women - and that's why they want to live together.
It was to him.
 

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I guess for me, the type of dudes that catch my attention tend to be alpha male types like me. While I have had fun times I can't image cohabiting with them, there would be to much conflict/not enough compromise...I just don't see it working at all, but that's just me.
You can have any relationship you want. The problem is you expanded it to any male-male relationship. It showed an ignorance that you might want to rethink
 

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You can have any relationship you want. The problem is you expanded it to any male-male relationship. It showed an ignorance that you might want to rethink

I wonder how many things there are in this big green world that people embrace that you don't understand. Nothing right? Everything? Guess that makes u ignorant too or not.