Ever feel not big at all?

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  1. dkong8x625

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    Hello everyone,

    I stumbled upon this site yesterday while either googling average penis size or looking at porn and masturbating last night. Kind of hazy lol. After reading a few posts I found this site and the people on here to be rather interesting. A place to discuss penises? sign me up!

    As soon as I came across this site I knew I had to ask something that has been bugging me for a while....There are tons of big cocks on here but do you ever feel like your not really all that big?

    I need the jaws of life to fit into standard condom (read: impossible), I usually use magnums large because I like it a little tight. I have friends that brag about their sizes and Im easily bigger than they are but I refrain from saying anything. I've been told by numerous girls that I'm big with their trademark initial sighting comments but I feel like they probably say that to everyone to boot their confidence. I have never been with a woman who could DT it all or take it all in while doing doggy or the bunny ears position. I have a extremely noticeable cock bulge when wearing jeans. Despite all that I still feel depressingly inadequate in that department. Do any of you feel like this? I wonder if this is a known physiological problem.
     
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    your huge be happy with what u have
     
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    u r big man!!!!!
     
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    I think you mean psychological problem? If so, yes, and it's apparently a very common obsession.
    As is exaggerating.
     
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    I have that problem all the time...I think it's a perception issue. I seriously sometimes think that I have like a 5 or 6 inch dick.....
     
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    come on man you're packing heat between those legs
     
  7. dkong8x625

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    Yes max, I meant psychological my bad.

    I don't mean to sound like one of those unappreciative dicks or someone just looking for comments (although they are certainly appreciated, thanks :biggrin1:) to boost his esteem. I want to discuss this and see if anyone else feels similar.

    EXACTLY. A friend once held up a ruler and asked "how big are you, tell me when to stop" as he slid his finger across the ruler. I said stop at around 5 inches...I think its like anorexic girls who are all bones and still think they are fat.
     
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    yes! exactly. I think we all have small dick days and big dick days. Some days I look down and I'm like goodness he's really big today and some days I'm like 'are you even trying?' lol not mean to be funny. I also feel that way when I'm hard too. Some days it's like I'm half assed hard and some days where I'm full blown hard and it's like wholly crap!!!

    I know exactly what you're talking about :)
     
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    I feel that way sometimes, especially when I see my own penis on cam etc. I think it's a proportion issue. Having an extremely wide penis makes even a decent length look short. For exanple when flaccid my penis has a 5 inch girth, it's 1 3/4" wide, which is girthier than most guys are hard. But it makes the 5 inch flaccid length look "stubby". Same when hard I've got a 6.5" girth (2 3/8 wide) Which when someone assumes it's of average girth they assume it's shorter than the 7.5" it is. It's not until I hold it with both hands wrapped around it, and the head still sticking out they realize how big it is.
     
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    Been there. It's a pretty common psych. problem and if I'm right, probably not specific to just the dick but other areas of life as well.
     
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    oh cry me a FUCKING river.
     
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    You described me in a nutshell. It all started when I was in college, and lived in a men's dorm, able to see tons of cocks over and over again every single day, and not just in the showers, since guys really like showing their cocks (any of u who've lived in a dorm or the military know what I mean). Anyway, at the time, I didn't know what a "grower" was, but I definitely was one, as my penis soft was 2 1/2 inches long (pretty stubby) but when erect it grew to over 2x that! So all that time, when my length was what has now become the new "average" (approx 5 3/4"), i felt like I had one of the smallest cocks in the dorm, and you know how our minds f us over, I started thinking i was one of the smallest hung dudes on campus! I'm serious. Anyway, my cock kept growing into my 20's and even though a tape measure tells me I'm NUTS if I even think I'm small, I STILL have that feeling. I never let my wife see me soft, although when I look in the mirror now, I'm probably one of the larger ones soft in a lockerroom setting.

    Irrational, crazy, stupid, all of the above -- yeah dude, I know what ur talkin' 'bout, believe me!
     
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    do a search on body dismorphic disorder. Its basically when one precieves themselves to be inadequate,fat, etc. despite the reality that they are not.
     
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    I seriously think you just posted this to have everyone tell you how big your cock is. If you don't look at that and see it as being big, you're blind. And I'm not saying that as a compliment. You gave all the reasons why you should think its big, girls love it, they can't take it, etc. so what's the problem? Try being a guy who has a micropenis or something that's below average, and then you could complain about what you've got.
     
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    Wow that was funny but, yea I go through the exact same thing
     
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    I'm glad I wasn't the only one who felt that way.

    The op obviously has a big dick, but instead of just posting some pics in the show off section, he started a thread that did nothing but show his false modesty.
     
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    Exactly what I thought
     
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    someone should dickslap some sense into you.

     
  19. dkong8x625

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    to summerstud and an_acidic_base: I didn't post this for compliments or pity points. From the posts alone its obvious I'm not the only one that this effects. It's been something I've been wanting to talk about for a while but never had the platform to.


    I posted those examples to show that despite them I still feel inadequate and it's not something a few comments on a forum will fix. I thought people on this site were mature enough to handle a discussion of this nature, after all this is a penis forum. To prevent this thread from deviating and for the benefit of these two gentlemen lets not comment regarding MY size in this post and lets leave the discussion solely to this "disorder" (for lack of a better word).
     
  20. unabear09

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    so what are you, a moderator now? You started the thread, but you don't control it. Sorry, but you put it out there....now brace for the good and bad comments.
     
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