Ever feel not big at all?

[goodwood]

yes. actually, i feel small. on a regular basis.
but the when pants are off and i am hard, it seems
i have a nice, big cock that most men don't have.
i wish mine was bigger.
when women see it and figure out how they can take
it, they are not quite sure. so i guess i am not unfortunate
in the cock dept. but its always nice to think bigger is better.

 

[maxcok]

I think it may be comments like these that cause people to be a little suspect of your motives:

I need the jaws of life to fit into standard condom (read: impossible), I usually use magnums large because I like it a little tight. I have friends that brag about their sizes and Im easily bigger than they are but I refrain from saying anything. I've been told by numerous girls that I'm big with their trademark initial sighting comments but I feel like they probably say that to everyone to boot their confidence. I have never been with a woman who could DT it all or take it all in while doing doggy or the bunny ears position. I have a extremely noticeable cock bulge when wearing jeans.

 

[abnormalunit]

yeah- i have days like that... it's called being down on yourself- sad but tru

 

[B_bi_mmf]

I have very little patience for guys who are way above average and whine about not being big enough.

It is also annoying to have members called immature because they choose not to conform to the OP's made-up ground rules.

 

[dkong8x625]

so what are you, a moderator now? You started the thread, but you don't control it. Sorry, but you put it out there....now brace for the good and bad comments.

who are you to condescend? I just wanted to speak about something that has effected me since puberty and wanted to see if other people felt the same. I described experiences and how I felt, I didn't ask the forum if I had a big dick or not.

I'm not ungrateful for what I was blessed with and it doesn't hinder my life. I'm not on the Tobias "have to wear cutoff jeans all the time" level. It doesn't interfere with my sexual relations with females but does prevent me from going say skinny dipping with males involved or being in a locker room naked.

I though Baloo was supposed to be nice

 

[unabear09]

who are you to condescend? I just wanted to speak about something that has effected me since puberty and wanted to see if other people felt the same. I described experiences and how I felt, I didn't ask the forum if I had a big dick or not.

I'm not ungrateful for what I was blessed with and it doesn't hinder my life. I'm not on the Tobias "have to wear cutoff jeans all the time" level. It doesn't interfere with my sexual relations with females but does prevent me from going say skinny dipping with males involved or being in a locker room naked.

I though Baloo was supposed to be nice

normally, I am, but I have a low tolerance for bullshit. oh and, all bears are nice until you start poking them and prodding them. Then, we get pissy and kick ass

 

[unzipped]

oh come on now men... haven't we all seen those sad pictures of micro penis guys... now that's small... I think alot of us are so used to seeing the monsters in porn for so many years we do get a body dysmorphic effect... also, from our vantage point of looking down at our dicks the angle makes us seem smaller... so lets enjoy what we have...bigger or smaller.... if it gets nice and hard he/she will be satisfied with your hot dick..

 

[Mickactual]

someone should dickslap some sense into you.

"Dickslap" {snort} I love it!

oh cry me a FUCKING river.

Not to be rude....and I'm never one to do anything less than worship men with big cocks...
But seriously.
Those of You who who have big cocks and bemoan Your odd insecure moments should really live one day in a body that has an average sized cock. The absence of confidence, swagger, and insecurity You guys are used to (that the rest of us never enjoy) would probably do You in. Ann Landers would've said: wake up, smell the coffee, and drop to Your knees in gratitude for the gift nature gave You!

 

[Krusader]

i blame porn for skewering our perception on big pee-pee

 

[chatterbox2010]

Just post a picture or two so we can see for ourselves

 

[dkong8x625]

"Dickslap" {snort} I love it!
Not to be rude....and I'm never one to do anything less than worship men with big cocks...
But seriously.
Those of You who who have big cocks and bemoan Your odd insecure moments should really live one day in a body that has an average sized cock. The absence of confidence, swagger, and insecurity You guys are used to (that the rest of us never enjoy) would probably do You in. Ann Landers would've said: wake up, smell the coffee, and drop to Your knees in gratitude for the gift nature gave You!

That is what I'm trying to say I have the confidence, swagger, and insecurity of a man with a low end of average cock because that's what I perceive myself as for some reason. Its like telling someone suffering from anorexia that they're skinny. IRL when someone tell me I have a big dick I don't believe them. Once a girl went on about its size and I got upset because I thought she was mocking me.


maxcok thanks for pointing that out. Your absolutely right, I was trying to open with a joke only to make myself and the topic look insincere. I apologize, what is proper etiquette should I edit or leave it as is?

Baloo, I know bears aren't known for their sensitivity but thanks for calling bullshit on something thats has been bugging me for a while.

EDIT: Maybe Krusader is right, it could be the porn or maybe the fact that I've never seen another penis IRL

 

[unabear09]

That is what I'm trying to say I have the confidence, swagger, and insecurity of a man with a low end of average cock because that's what I perceive myself as for some reason. Its like telling someone suffering from anorexia that they're skinny. IRL when someone tell me I have a big dick I don't believe them. Once a girl went on about its size and I got upset because I thought she was mocking me.


maxcok thanks for pointing that out. Your absolutely right, I was trying to open with a joke only to make myself and the topic look insincere. I apologize, what is proper etiquette should I edit or leave it as is?

Baloo, I know bears aren't known for their sensitivity but thanks for calling bullshit on something thats has been bugging me for a while.

EDIT: Maybe Krusader is right, it could be the porn or maybe the fact that I've never seen another penis IRL

well, if you really think your dick is small, and having such a small dick causes you so much stress, upset, and frustration, then I sincerely apoligize. However, you shot yourself in the foot when you opened/named the title of this thread. I really have a hard time believing that you think/feel you have a small dick. Just saying....

 

[bigonepleaser]

cool topic, You should regularly spend more time nude and around other guys...like in a lockerroom. Once you see how you actually rank compared to other guys, I think it will help with your self perception. On those days you're feeling small...Just walk around till you run into a actual small guy...that should give you boost.

 

[basque9]

Only if someone makes a sarcastic remark alluding to that when I post a picture to a thread. Otherwise , I feel gratified with my length and girth!

 

[unabear09]

Only if someone makes a sarcastic remark alluding to that when I post a picture to a thread. Otherwise , I feel gratified with my length and girth!

and you, like the OP, have a wonderful cock! :biggrin1:

 

[D_GlennFeckless]

The only time I feel small is when cruising around the gallery here. I often will hook up with a guy who looks and feels enormous, then we rub out a little frot and I realize that perspective has a lot to do with everything.

OTOH, there are some guys that are slangin' a good 50% more volume than I, and it doesn't result in an insecurity thing or comparison, just another opportunity to excel as a bottom.

 

[maxcok]

maxcok thanks for pointing that out. Your absolutely right, I was trying to open with a joke only to make myself and the topic look insincere. I apologize, what is proper etiquette should I edit or leave it as is?

You can't edit it now, the window's closed. You'll to live with it for the rest of your life. :wink: Proper etiquette to me is to not change a post once people have responded to it, certainly not if they've quoted it. [Edit: You can always add to your post in brackets like this.] Usually it's better to just continue in a new post and correct anything you've said there.

I'm still not completely convinced of your motives, but no big deal (no pun intended). On the bigger (npi) issue, I really think a lot of you guys have waaay too much of your identity wrapped up in your cock and are waaay too obsessed with size. Just my 2ct.

 

[big_tits4big_dicks]

everyone feels inadequate sometimes. I have an hourglass figure so extreme it's hard to find clothes. But sometimes I think my waist could be smaller and my boobs bigger. At a DDD that is a stupid thought! I would look like a cartoon, but those thoughts still creep in. It's cuz you are human. Not me though I'm a robot hahaha

 

[basque9]

and you, like the OP, have a wonderful cock! :biggrin1:

Thanks, mate, if never hurts a guy to be reassured on that matter!:smile:

 

[MercyfulFate]

On this site? Sure, there's guys double my size it seems.

In real life? No. Anyone I know that talks about their cock size ends up smaller than me by a significant amount, and I never talk about mine.