Ever feel not big at all?

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I think it might well be a case of the grass is always greener. Rather than being disappointed with your own and thinking it's 'too small' (8x6.25 is what most would consider massive), you still think it could be better. It's essentially just semantics, but I think it's key in this case and once you manage to differentiate between 'not big enough' and 'not the biggest' everything'll be ok.

And as mentioned, porn almost certainly does play a part in things. Not just in the other sizes on display, but the level of reaction to them.
 

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I think it might well be a case of the grass is always greener. Rather than being disappointed with your own and thinking it's 'too small' (8x6.25 is what most would consider massive), you still think it could be better. It's essentially just semantics, but I think it's key in this case and once you manage to differentiate between 'not big enough' and 'not the biggest' everything'll be ok.

And as mentioned, porn almost certainly does play a part in things. Not just in the other sizes on display, but the level of reaction to them.

Porn, and you. God damn man, I'd die happy with your size.
 

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No matter how big or small your dick is, how great your body is, how good looking you are, anything---all men still carry that shy, scared little 5 year old in them that got made fun of, beat up, etc. Society places certain expectations on us, most of them bullshit, regarding what is good or bad. When you have a day when that 5 year old comes out, no matter what you have or are NOW, your self image feels inadequae and bad about yourself, that you don't "measure up" in whatever form. Many guys out of fear or losing masculinity points won;t admit it, but we ALL have our days when we don't feel good enough. Some days, no matter what you are told you won't believe reality, and those days you just have to get through. Other days, your mind can be strong enough to let reason rule the day. On those days, look at the numbers. About 85% of ALL men in the world fall between 5-7" long, and 4-5 in circumference. The curve falls off pretty sharply on either side of those ranges. From all I have read and heard discussed, pretty much everybody considers you hung lengthwise if you have 8 or above, and definately hung thickness-wise if you have above about 5.5-6 around. Those are the hard numbers, so if you pretty much can't be in denial, if your brain will allow it. You are definately above the bell curve, so you DO have a big dick by anybody's perceptions. Try and remember that when you have a down day. Good Luck!
 

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No matter how big or small your dick is, how great your body is, how good looking you are, anything---all men still carry that shy, scared little 5 year old in them that got made fun of, beat up, etc. Society places certain expectations on us, most of them bullshit, regarding what is good or bad.........................About 85% of ALL men in the world fall between 5-7" long, and 4-5 in circumference. The curve falls off pretty sharply on either side of those ranges. From all I have read and heard discussed, pretty much everybody considers you hung lengthwise if you have 8 or above, and definately hung thickness-wise if you have above about 5.5-6 around. Those are the hard numbers, so if you pretty much can't be in denial, if your brain will allow it. You are definately above the bell curve, so you DO have a big dick by anybody's perceptions. Try and remember that when you have a down day. Good Luck!

Really well reasoned posting , david!:cool:
 
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since I am a grower and not a shower for the most part, I sometimes feel small especially if I know I'm being checked out, and the pants bulge is just inadequate. I know this is true because in the past when some gals actually see what I got, and what they are about to get its, "you're biiiiggg, I had no idea" or something similiar. I know there are guys bigger than me, but I am longer than average and my girth makes my cock exceptional. the proof is when they come back for more.
 

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an_acidic_base, dude mine is small and its thin like spaghetti, I dont know why but in the photos is looks nice. I bet yours is huge when its good and hard. I see the monsters, shlongs, fatties and bum stuffers on here and think wow I need to get off this site before I get a complex. I have been called the perfect size, not tot big not too small, isnt that just great.
 

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I'm a grower too, and I have allways bee teased of my size in showers. I dont have the habbit of going around with a boner to get the guys to shut up but I allways say: shut the fuck up, when it get hard I beat every one of you fuckers!! But they dont belive me! Once I fucked one of the guys ex'es and told her to brag about it to him! That shut his piehole! And I have got respect from the guys and their girlfriends are curious! So I belive u man!!!
 
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Guys Im only 5 1/2, so if anyone should think they are small its me. But guess what I dont, Im happy with it and can fuck all the way down to the base. They come back for more so I must be doing it right.

That's the spirit! And if it is huge it can't get it in my ass! 5 1/2 sounds just right for that kind of activity! Haha
 

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I remember a few years ago when I had my vasectomy (in case I play with that occasional female) how the doctor was telling me about a guy who came in for the same procedure and he said he literally had a 6-7 inch cock flaccid. I guess during his procedure he was talking about how he could make it bigger and the doctor said to me that secretly all men wish they were bigger even if they are already pretty damn big. He went on to say when this guy that was talking is hard, he would imagine it's ten or more inches. And he wanted a LARGER one. So I think it's more common than we all think.
 

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At 6.7x5.7 I feel small all the time. It really makes me depressed sometimes. I just don't feel like I have enough for a woman to really enjoy. I always end up with girls who can handle so much more than I have to offer.