Why though? I'm not remotely embarrassed to be here. I've spoken about this site to my sisters and some of my cousins, and many of my friends know. I don't publicize it, but nor do I hide it.
I will say this, people really don't give a damn. There's a laugh or a chuckle or some rolled eyes at first, but once the joke's over, nobody cares. It's just a website. I'm determined not to be held hostage to small minded people and I won't let them frighten or shame me for anything I do or say here. To them I say, "Grow up! I'm a sexual adult, I've got a dick, I like chatting here. If you don't like it or can't accept it then I'm sorry you can't respect my personal choices and goodbye!"
This is why I do not mind arranging the NYC meets or otherwise meeting people from LPSG. I have made some amazing friends on this website and I wouldn't trade them for anything.
I know there are people here who do have to worry about their professional and/or personal lives if they are discovered here. I'm not going to judge their situation. Someday nobody will have to hide enjoying a sex-oriented website. I'm fond of my ancestors but damn did they fuck-up this country but good.