D_Hammond Happydipper
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I'm very much drawn to shy, timid types of men because I am the exact opposite, and I enjoy drawing them out of their shells ^_^
You can de-shell me any time. :redface:
I'm very much drawn to shy, timid types of men because I am the exact opposite, and I enjoy drawing them out of their shells ^_^
I think you're married to my boyfriend!My husband is extremely reluctant to approach new people. He isn't particularly comfortable talking to people he's already met, for that matter.
Once you get to know him though, you discover:
He has accomplished many things for himself, and he's extremely proud of each and every one. In fact, he will tell you in great detail how each and every achievement was won, if you'll let him.
He is incredibly observant. He knows his observational kills are well-above average. He loves to show this off. He loves to point out things he notices that no one else notices.
He has lightning-fast reflexes. He brags a lot about this, but he can also back up his arrogant claims.
He's brilliant. He knows he's really smart, and is very disdainful and very unforgiving of stupidity. Sometimes he is way too arrogant about being more intelligent than others. The things that come out of his mouth in that regard shock me at times.
Sometimes, I'm convinced he believes he can never do any wrong. That's cultural though. His mother treats him like the third-best thing since Jesus. (She and her husband are things one and two, their daughter is thing four.)
He is as stealthy as a ninja and he knows it. When he was assigned to a ship, there was a guy who outranked him, a chief I believe who had a security clearance even higher than his. My husband had a set of keys very few had high enough clearances to also have. I believe three others on the whole ship had those keys, including this chief. This chief had a security clearance even higher than that of the ship's commander, and there was one key on his ring that no one else had. My husband used to take a lot of glee from stealing this key, and then asking the chief for access to the closet it opened, and returning the key only after the chief lost his mind looking for it. Sometimes, he'd just take them, and put them back in his hands, reminding him that his own possession of the keys was a security breach that needed prevention. If that's not arrogance, I don't know what is. A third does not do that to a chief (or to a second, for that matter)
He is full of righteous indignation regarding the behavior of others in contrast to his own code of honor and ethics.
His is very full of pride. Most of it is justified. Some of it is pure arrogance.
how presumptive of you to assume it's because she's snooty.
There is a difference between "feel" and "believe", FYI. I know what the probable reasons are.
I'm guessing you don't "exchange looks" because what you're doing is staring. All the time. At one single lady, because you hope she'll turn around and then happens to meet your eye. That's not making eyecontact. It's being a creep.
Of course women will get uncomfortable if that's what you're doing.
Women notice when you keep staring at them. When it comes to that, we have eyes on our back.
Scan the room and just let your eyes rest on her one nano-second longer than on everyone else just at the time she's turning around. Look AWAY after. She'll have registered your interest.
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after she registers my interest, what happens next? lol.
I am, however, done buying drinks for women... if you're not interested then don't effing mooch off my wallet... have the damn decency to blow me off, call me ugly, yell rape, whatever... I just spent an entire night last week buying drinks for a girl, everything was GREAT... end of the night "can I get your number? 'oh I have a boyfriend, bye!'"... b.i.t.c.h.m.o.v.e.
This is a bitchmove indeed. It's taking advantage of someone. Unfortunately... selfish indecent people do exist. But... would have been easily solved by just asking if she was seeing someone. I mean if you were talking for long enough to have been buying her multiple drinks, why didn't you just ask her? Obviously, you were interested in knowing
awww i love the shy guys
the quiet ones usually end up not being so quiet after all