Ever got a interesting PM from a member and was happy?

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  1. SouthernGirl

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    I never have. :frown1:

    Everytime I see a new notification I cringe. It's always something stupid or super weird. It would be awesome is a fine, middle aged, thick cocked Italian in my city sent me a line....I might bite. But these PMs I get are ridiculous.

    The one time a fine middle aged thick cocked Italian in my city did contact me he turned out to be coo-coo for coco puffs. This fool sent me a video of him PISSING IN A CONDOM and PLAYING WITH IT. That sh*t ain't sexy fool!:hypnotized:
     
  2. Daisy

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    LOL!!!

    Patience? You might have better luck with a site like plentyoffish.com.
     
  3. SouthernGirl

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    All the men on plenty of fish are homeless, jobless, married, or weird (Remember the guy that choose to play WOW instead of fuck me, i met him on POF).
     
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    A pm from a member here? And was happy? Almost every day! Not hook up pms - just nice pms from some great people here that I really really like. Smart, cool people. Sure I get weird ones too, and ones from guys who want to hook up, but for the most part - pms that make me smile.
     
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    Sometimes I get a PM from a member who'd like to meet up, and I politely decline and they're cool about it.

    Sometimes I get a PM complimenting my dick, which while completely vain is nice, considering ... you know, the other guys here.

    And other than that, I have had very deep conversations with a handful of users who have been very encouraging and deep with me. I appreciate it so much, sometimes I log on to this site just to check if they've responded and how their days are going.

    I don't know. The best PMs are the non-pervy ones.
     
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    the PMs from the regulars i post with always make me smile.

    it's the multitude of faceless randoms that bug me.

    but then, i'm not looking for sex.
    if i were looking for a relationship? i would pretend i wasn't, to see who would still talk to me like a human being instead of just seeing me as a potential shag.
     
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    Ive gotten some message from some gay men that have kinda disturbed me. As to be expected most woman dont care lol.
     
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    The weird/disturbing/unpleasant PMs stand out for me because I mostly get really awesome ones from people who like pastries, people I go back and forth with on the boards or in the social groups, or people who are shy but want to discuss something they saw on the boards with me. Ugly PMs are a stark minority. Then again, there are no racy pictures in my public album, my profile does not list me as female, and I am not looking for sex.
     
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    Luckily for me I only get PMs from people I like;)))
     
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    Interesting, all the time. Uncalled for, sometimes. Pleasant, occasionally.
     
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    Yes, plenty of them. :smile: I make sure to send some myself as well, the more you put out there, the more comes back to you. :)



    OMG! YOU'RE NOT A FEMALE! :O *GASPS* :tongue:
     
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    "Interesting" pm's I've gotten whether here or at other sites. Hmmmm, I guess the one where the husband practically begged me to have sex with his wife while he watched. That was "interesting".

    I get pm's from gay men mostly. Those are just hilarious.

    Simba
     
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    I have met a handful of wonderful people here whom I look forward to chatting with and who play on my mind IRL. I have also had a lot of PMs that made me smile and brightened my day. The odd one or two that are a bit too lewd for my taste, but I'm aware that this site serves different functions for different people, so I just let it go *shrug*

    Then again, I'm not looking to hook up either...maybe it alters the dynamic?
     
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    damn! it's that bad out there for women? and here i thought it was tough finding single emotinally available women to date.i guess things are tough all over.
     
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    Got a couple of weird PMs but mostly they're nice. even the ones looking to hook-up. :)

    Just cause they wanna hook-up doesn't mean YOU have to do it, ya know.
     
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    Nice mamma jamma's there!

    I've pm'd a few people on here. Several insightful messages from the women of LPSG. Nothing in lines of hooking up. Just talking about sex, marriage, and relationship stuff..

    I've never gotten a weird PM from anyone. Just comments about my cock from other men here.

    Do any women use POF or AFF? Thought about checking out AFF for a month and see what it's all about..
     
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    I am the lucky recipient of 'thank you' PMs :blush:
     
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    I sometimes get messages from friends here, but most of the friends I had here have left...
     
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    When I used to be interested in hookups I used AFF and found a couple of great FBs....POF is awful, but that's just my own opinion. Currenty I have zero interest in hookups, so I don't really know what those sites are like now.
     
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    Sure have but as the saying goes, all good things come to an end.
     
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