Ever had a missed an opportunity in your past ...? (18+ only)

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Ever have a missed opportunity in your past when it comes to a gay or bi encounter? thinking about it now saying ''if only i had said yes...''

i feel so stupid for missing those opportunities thinking about it now.

one of them was my school bully, he was popular athletic very masculine and sexy. he was a nightmare when i met him at school cause he would make my life so hard some days and i was always trying to avoid him.
one cold winter evening i was returning home and i run into him with his friend. tried to avoid him but he wanted to come tease me again. he did come close to me started being annoying and a bit violent when what i only wanted was to leave and go home. also his friend was with him, watching the whole scene. at some point we were in a dark small side-road and he said ''come on suck my dick now'' while he was touching his dick with his hand inside his pants. i'm pretty sure he would let me suck him if only i had said yes, but stupid me i said no. i was a virgin back then and i don't think i felt ready sucking a dick at that point even though i wanted to, plus the fact that his friend was there watching made me feel very embarrassed and he was my school bully, which i was afraid of and i wasn't sure if he actually meant it or just wanted to humiliate me back then and go tell everyone at school. i know he wanted it though. i still think about it sometimes and feel horny. if only i had said yes...

another time while i was in class a buff sexy guy we were in the same class with, totally randomly came to me and said ''would you like to give me a blowjob?'' but other students were also in the class and i felt very embarrassed so i just left. of course he was a horny teenager and i'm pretty sure he meant what he said but i could not say ''yeah come on i'll suck you no problem'' in front of my other classmates. if only he had asked me somewhere more privately i probably would have said yes.
 

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had a cousin visit two years ago , roughly my age . After a few too many beers we decided to call it a night and head to bed . I came out of the bathroom , walked past his bedroom . The door was open , he was standing with sweat pants around his ankles , hands at his hips . After he knew I had seen him he slowly pulled up the sweats. Still don't know if he was looking for some action or just wanted to show off .
 

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Ever have a missed opportunity in your past when it comes to a gay or bi encounter? thinking about it now saying ''if only i had said yes...''

i feel so stupid for missing those opportunities thinking about it now.

one of them was my school bully, he was popular athletic very masculine and sexy. he was a nightmare when i met him at school cause he would make my life so hard some days and i was always trying to avoid him.
one cold winter evening i was returning home and i run into him with his friend. tried to avoid him but he wanted to come tease me again. he did come close to me started being annoying and a bit violent when what i only wanted was to leave and go home. also his friend was with him, watching the whole scene. at some point we were in a dark small side-road and he said ''come on suck my dick now'' while he was touching his dick with his hand inside his pants. i'm pretty sure he would let me suck him if only i had said yes, but stupid me i said no. i was a virgin back then and i don't think i felt ready sucking a dick at that point even though i wanted to, plus the fact that his friend was there watching made me feel very embarrassed and he was my school bully, which i was afraid of and i wasn't sure if he actually meant it or just wanted to humiliate me back then and go tell everyone at school. i know he wanted it though. i still think about it sometimes and feel horny. if only i had said yes...

another time while i was in class a buff sexy guy we were in the same class with, totally randomly came to me and said ''would you like to give me a blowjob?'' but other students were also in the class and i felt very embarrassed so i just left. of course he was a horny teenager and i'm pretty sure he meant what he said but i could not say ''yeah come on i'll suck you no problem'' in front of my other classmates. if only he had asked me somewhere more privately i probably would have said yes.

Both situations sounds frightening to me.. Sounds like you took the right decision.
 
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Ever have a missed opportunity in your past when it comes to a gay or bi encounter? thinking about it now saying ''if only i had said yes...''

i feel so stupid for missing those opportunities thinking about it now.

one of them was my school bully, he was popular athletic very masculine and sexy. he was a nightmare when i met him at school cause he would make my life so hard some days and i was always trying to avoid him.
one cold winter evening i was returning home and i run into him with his friend. tried to avoid him but he wanted to come tease me again. he did come close to me started being annoying and a bit violent when what i only wanted was to leave and go home. also his friend was with him, watching the whole scene. at some point we were in a dark small side-road and he said ''come on suck my dick now'' while he was touching his dick with his hand inside his pants. i'm pretty sure he would let me suck him if only i had said yes, but stupid me i said no. i was a virgin back then and i don't think i felt ready sucking a dick at that point even though i wanted to, plus the fact that his friend was there watching made me feel very embarrassed and he was my school bully, which i was afraid of and i wasn't sure if he actually meant it or just wanted to humiliate me back then and go tell everyone at school. i know he wanted it though. i still think about it sometimes and feel horny. if only i had said yes...

another time while i was in class a buff sexy guy we were in the same class with, totally randomly came to me and said ''would you like to give me a blowjob?'' but other students were also in the class and i felt very embarrassed so i just left. of course he was a horny teenager and i'm pretty sure he meant what he said but i could not say ''yeah come on i'll suck you no problem'' in front of my other classmates. if only he had asked me somewhere more privately i probably would have said yes.

I think you made the right decision both times. Based on what you said, I don't think they were genuine offers. It sounds like they were testing you. If you had agreed, they wouldn't have let you do it anyways and would have outed you to further humiliate you. You have nothing to regret here.

I have had missed opportunities when younger with other guys that I kick myself for daily. I have posted about my bromance and our encounter on many other threads.
 

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Yes, so many, and I regret every one that in retrospect I recognise as a missed opportunity. If only I'd known then what I know now.

There was the guy who stopped to give me a lift when I was walking home late and heartbroken after breaking up with my girlfriend. I was 18. Don't know why he did, I wasn't trying to hitch a ride, but I was glad he did as I was facing a 3 mile walk. Nice-looking black dude, not much older than me. "Hi, I'm Greg". He was cool, kind and conversed easily. I was wary, awkward and uncomfortable -- not for any particular reason, that's just the way I was at 18 -- and had him drop me a couple of blocks from my house, because that's what you did when strangers gave you a lift. After the event I was sure he'd have been up for some fun, if only I hadn't been so tied up in my teen misery.

I wish I could have a quiet word with my younger self...
 

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it was around 1980, I was around twenty, a work buddy and I stopped at a house party near campus on Basset Street. We only stopped for the cheap beer and hit on the girls who were out of our league. I was between girlfriends and he was married, but only a couple of years older than me. It was warm out but not sweltering. I was wearing jeans and a tank top that in retrospect was too big for me. We had a few beers and he went to take a piss. I went to get another beer. I am quite shy and just standing by the wall drinking, people watching.

All of a sudden this guy walks over by me, leans back against the wall and starts up a conversation. At that time, I was 5' 10, about 130 lbs, blondish brown hair, with my bangs swept across my forehead and the rest just over my ears, a little longer in the back, but not a mullet. This guy, who was around my age, a little shorter, good muscle definition, maybe 150 lbs at the most. He had shorter blond hair with a killer smile. We talked about a few things, and he stood a little closer than I am used to but, it was loud, so it seemed, logical. I couldn't help but notice how good he looked in his jeans and tank top. I had been working out at the YMCA, but was still skinny and wanted to put on some muscle, so I was a little envious.

It wasn't long, but it felt like we were friends. He would get close to my ear when he talked and I could feel his breath, it was hot and moist. Smelled like beer, but so did mine. He starts complimenting me on my clothes, my hair, and my arms. My arms? I laughed, and returned the compliments. He says you have a hairy chest, I blush and say something stupid I am sure. Then he reaches over and touches my nipple and asked what's with this? At that time, I had a pierced nipple with a half inch gold ring. The ring showed when I my tank top would flop around. I just shrugged and said I don't know, seemed like a cool thing to do. He said it was sexy and asked if I wanted to go back to his dorm. I stammered, and said oh are you're gay? I was an dork, still am.

I am strangely into this guy, but had not done anything with another guy since jr high and high school. He says your not gay are you? I am like, no, but I really like you. I am chubbing up, my head is spinning, more from the though of getting naked with this guy than the alcohol. Oh, fuck. What should I do, and then my buddy shows up, and wants to leave, I try to explain without explaining, I show him my nipple he laughs and says you'll grow out of that. My new friend says, come on lets go. I said I can't and left with my buddy...

When ever I drive by that area I think fondly of him, and chub up a bit at the thought that some hot blond guy wanted to take me home.
 

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Two incidents immediately spring to mind from when I was 22 and gaysex was still illegal.

I was in my final undergrad year and was tutoring 16 other students. One had been turning in Ill-prepared essays and had to re-submit a couple and improve his grades or he would be failed for the year. We were in the same dorm building and on the day before I was due to receive the 2 revised essays, I saw him with his girlfriend coming back from the beach. I called from my window to remind him that I was waiting for the essays.
Minutes later, he came to my room wearing speedos and a towel over his shoulder. "I think everyone in our tutorial group has sussed out that you're probably into guys. I was in boarding school and I've had sex with other boys before. I'll have sex with you, here and now, if you give me 2 B+ grades tomorrow."
I threw him out of my room and when I didn't receive his revised essays I submitted 2 better grades so he wouldn't flunk the course. He came to my room later to thank me and said, "I know that you wanted me. I saw how you kept glancing at the bulge in my speedos. Well, it's too late now. I got my grades anyway."

Ethically, I was right not to have sex with him. I was possibly foolish to give him the grades but he was handsome, I liked him and wished that I had agreed to the bargain.

Two weeks later, another guy from the tutorial group came to my room to say goodbye. He was going home at the end of the year and I was staying at uni to attend the graduation ceremony. We small-talked with many awkward silences, in which he would frequently look at his watch and tell me how long it would be before he would have to go to catch his train home. As he finally left, he hugged me fiercely, welled with tears and said, "I expected you to have sex with me. Are scared, stupid or don't you like me?" He ran away.

Yes, I did like him. I was too scared and possibly stupid not to pick up on his hints and make the first move.

Fifty years later, I don't regret missing out on these opportunities but there is still lingering trace of "what if...?"
 

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There was a science fair thing in town, and I took the day off to do. One other person from my advanced biology class was there, so we hung out together and toured the exhibits. He was a wrestler. Large build, and wore tights clothes that showed off his body. At the end of the day, he asks if I want to go home with him for a little fun. I had already made arrangements for someone to pick me up and I didn't have a way to contact them, so I turned him down.

Another guy I knew asked if I wanted to go to a hotel with him that night, but I turned him down. His boyfriend was crazy, and even though their relationship was dying, his type of crazy (slashing someone who had pissed him off) wasn't something I wanted to deal with. He was pissed when I turned him down, but I explained my reason and he said he could respect that. He never made the offer again though.
 
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I never missed any opportunity cause there were not any. I only had sex with 2 ppl in my life. Noone cares me. Noone notices me. Im not good looking.
It was wise to let those chances go - cause they were no chances at all just bullies.
Head up and doesnt look back.
 

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I've missed, passed on hook ups before. Specially when they hadn't been on my sexual radar. I think it's broken most of the time, anyway.

One day a friend from school stopped by, wanted to show me the car he just got. I had been mowing the lawn, was a hot day, just had shorts an sneakers on. Was ready for a break.

While checking out the car, he deliberately brushed the bulge in my thin running shorts, said he could help me out with the nice bulge..... Don't know what I was thinking of, I just said something like, 'Thanks, but I'm good', an smiled.....

I had heard he liked cock, an was great at sucking... Just never thought he would hit on me. Must have been the hot day, I wasn't thinking at the time. Guess I should have been listening to my head that had a 'semi hard on' in my shorts......
 

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My experience is the opposite. I can think of countless opportunities I took and wished I had not.
When you are with "that one special person" who makes your toes curl it is complete - period.
Wish I could shrink my 60 to 70 "hot" times down to a few select people that I had a real
connection with,
Feel really blessed to have found my best of best. Celebrating 20 years together.
I could not even think of stepping out.
 

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Talking to a sexy mexican man at a phone selling booth thing at a mall.

“What are you thinking right now? Be honest.”

I didn’t think it would be polite to say I am thinking about fucking him so I made something up. He told me a number I could call that was a work line and my friend walked up and we left. He told me it was a come on. I was confused.

I went to a party once with a lot of members of the college gay club. There was a sexy mexican man there with a shaved head I assumed was straight. Ultra masculine. At one point he tells me he needs to “ask me something” and took me to an alley or whatever by the house. He pulls my pants down. No underwear since I’m not wearing any. Stares at my privates. Plays with my balls a little. At one point a guy calls out wondering if we are sucking dick there (jealous asshole guy, he wanted me but I thought he was a jerk and not interested some time back) and my guy says

“GO AWAY!!”

We walk away with my clothes back on.

“Can I see you again?”

In my confused drunk buzz:

“Ummm yeah... sure.”

Forgot to exchange numbers. Still mad at myself about it. Moved shortly after to a new boyfriend. I don’t know his name. My friend wasn’t sure who he was when I asked.
 

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One of the few times I hitchhiked when I was in my late teens, a good-looking guy picked me up in his car. I thanked him and we made small talk. When we got to my place to drop me off, he put his hand on my leg and rubbed my leg. I got hard right away and was really excited, but I was too scared to follow through and conflicted about the whole gay thing. It was a missed opportunity with a hot stud.
 

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Ever have a missed opportunity in your past when it comes to a gay or bi encounter? thinking about it now saying ''if only i had said yes...''

i feel so stupid for missing those opportunities thinking about it now.

one of them was my school bully, he was popular athletic very masculine and sexy. he was a nightmare when i met him at school cause he would make my life so hard some days and i was always trying to avoid him.
one cold winter evening i was returning home and i run into him with his friend. tried to avoid him but he wanted to come tease me again. he did come close to me started being annoying and a bit violent when what i only wanted was to leave and go home. also his friend was with him, watching the whole scene. at some point we were in a dark small side-road and he said ''come on suck my dick now'' while he was touching his dick with his hand inside his pants. i'm pretty sure he would let me suck him if only i had said yes, but stupid me i said no. i was a virgin back then and i don't think i felt ready sucking a dick at that point even though i wanted to, plus the fact that his friend was there watching made me feel very embarrassed and he was my school bully, which i was afraid of and i wasn't sure if he actually meant it or just wanted to humiliate me back then and go tell everyone at school. i know he wanted it though. i still think about it sometimes and feel horny. if only i had said yes...

another time while i was in class a buff sexy guy we were in the same class with, totally randomly came to me and said ''would you like to give me a blowjob?'' but other students were also in the class and i felt very embarrassed so i just left. of course he was a horny teenager and i'm pretty sure he meant what he said but i could not say ''yeah come on i'll suck you no problem'' in front of my other classmates. if only he had asked me somewhere more privately i probably would have said yes.




Reading your post make me want to tell my story especially because my story is not one missed opportunity but one exploited opportunity with a bully at my school. If I had read before this discussion probably this was the right place to write…

Yesterday I posted my story in Patrick Leblanc tread, the reason was explained at the end of the story (my classmate had the same dick of Patrick I cannot forget that dick) I never shared in my entire life with anyone that memories, but today my post was deleted with the reason that “LPSG rules do not allow for any mention of minors, no matter how innocent the context” I had simply said how we encountered each other for the first time to explain the dynamics between us (he was a bully at school) NOTHING of sexual was remotely mentioned even because the first time that we had the first sexual approach like I’ve said in the story I had a18 years almost 19 and he almost 20. In the discussion, someone made ironic post on the possibility that the story was not real but honestly, I made myself a laugh. No problem if someone can believe or not. I said even at the beginning of the story that if the story was considerate off-topic to erase it without problem for me. But hear me say that motivation of inappropriate reference made me shocked. What nonsense. I wonder where are the controls when I read MANY comments that mentioned guys in inappropriate age in many treads that make me CRINGE! Even in Parick tread!! Someone mentioned Patrick brother…I felt ASHAMED for those persons.

Reading many discussion on the site if the rule is that EVERY reference on the life of people before 18 years is not allow even when there are not sexual reference all the site should be deleted

What a bad choice share that intimate memory on that tread…. EXCUSE ME for the outburst
 

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Reading your post make me want to tell my story especially because my story is not one missed opportunity but one exploited opportunity with a bully at my school. If I had read before this discussion probably this was the right place to write…

Yesterday I posted my story in Patrick Leblanc tread, the reason was explained at the end of the story (my classmate had the same dick of Patrick I cannot forget that dick) I never shared in my entire life with anyone that memories, but today my post was deleted with the reason that “LPSG rules do not allow for any mention of minors, no matter how innocent the context” I had simply said how we encountered each other for the first time to explain the dynamics between us (he was a bully at school) NOTHING of sexual was remotely mentioned even because the first time that we had the first sexual approach like I’ve said in the story I had a18 years almost 19 and he almost 20. In the discussion, someone made ironic post on the possibility that the story was not real but honestly, I made myself a laugh. No problem if someone can believe or not. I said even at the beginning of the story that if the story was considerate off-topic to erase it without problem for me. But hear me say that motivation of inappropriate reference made me shocked. What nonsense. I wonder where are the controls when I read MANY comments that mentioned guys in inappropriate age in many treads that make me CRINGE! Even in Parick tread!! Someone mentioned Patrick brother…I felt ASHAMED for those persons.

Reading many discussion on the site if the rule is that EVERY reference on the life of people before 18 years is not allow even when there are not sexual reference all the site should be deleted

What a bad choice share that intimate memory on that tread…. EXCUSE ME for the outburst

it wasn't my fault your post got deleted but i'm sorry, i guess...?
 
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