What i mean is that have any of you had an erection while youve been around men, not specifically for them, but just while your around them... what did you do in the situation?
Fully clothed, I've had many erections with other men around, back in the old days where the only place to see dirty movies was in a tporn theater! I was erect due to what shown on screen, and all the guys were well spread out in the theater. I've also been completely hard while getting lap dances at strip clubs, and the old Harmony theaters in NYC, where their only business was lap dances. I was concentrating on what was going on in my lap or up on screen, so any other guys around were irrelevant. Same thing for the few times a group of friends watched some porn on VHS. I'm sure we all had erections, but we were concentrating on the action, not each other.
Erections while nude around other men? Only 1 1/2 times in my life. One was a potential MFM 3-way with a FWB, but it was spur of the moment and we didn't have condoms. We were on very remote beach, completely alone, and nude, and our mutual FWB (who got me hard when I looked at her fully clothed) teased us about who was getting harder, faster, judging us by using a hand on each of us. If we were able to play safe, that would have been my first MFM experience. I think the reason I got hard was her, and my lust for her. There would have been no sexual contact with the other guy, as we were both very straight.
The 1/2 time was the one-and-only time I attended a gang bang. I enjoyed playing with a woman, but with 2 other guys also giving her attention, I found that I really wasn't getting erect. A while later I did get a hard-on while watching another woman give a guy an amazing blowjob to completion, but at that point there wasn't a woman readily available that I could play with.