ever have a one night stand?

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No need for too much analysis. Casual fucking is good for both of you. Relieves all kinds of tensions without any 'commitment.' Falling in love, etc, is quite different. Like others, I've fucked a lot of pussy and continue to do so whenever the opportunity arises, but fallen in love only a few times.
 

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jeff black said:
So, does that mean you feel sex should be disconnected with an emotional bond?

I think what you just said, is a terrible comment. Regardless of how I sound... sex is supposed to be more than just a casual thing. It can't be all about just fucking. Adding love and emotion to it, is part of the reason it happens.

Maybe I am just an oldfashioned guy, but I can't do the one night stand. I have to know them, and have some connection with them.
Do I think sex should always have no emotion involved? No, absolutely not. Do I think that it can be enjoyed without involving emotion? Sure, absolutely. I wasn't making either of these points, though.

I was saying that people I know who ALWAYS equate one with the other, and are incapable of seeing sex as something in any way seperate, often have a lot of other serious problems prohibiting them from having a good sexlife or forming healthy relationships.

You might very well be an exception. I haven't performed any scientific surveys. Like most people on these boards, I'm speaking strictly from limited personal experience.

Rubirosa inferred my meaning correctly. and Jeff, your apology is unnecessary but I accept since you offered.
 

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Lex said:
I totally agree with NIC's assessment here, as implied by senor r. I spent a lot of my sexual life with the ability to totally separate the two. Hell, I fucked girls I didn't like personally because they were hot and I could. And as long as they were okay with that; it was alright with me.

"...but it was Saturday night, I guess that makes it alright..."

I'm guilty of this as well. In fact I was in a months-long sexual relationship with a girl who, on a personal level, I felt little else but contempt for. She was the most horrifically racist person I've ever known... ignorant, chain-smoking, drug-using, and other bad things I won't bother repeating here... but the sex was fun. I was using her in part for sex, and in part to get back at someone else. If I had actually liked her... I may have felt bad about this. Though... she definitely enjoyed the sex, too. I was actually the first guy who ever made her come, and she regularly referred to me as "sex god." So.... mutually beneficial sexual relationship without virtually any emotional bond whatsoever... and not even a one-night stand.
 

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dave2006 said:
have you ever had a one night stand? What were the circumstances?

For sure felt attraction at first sight for some men..but because i have a thing for "strangers" hand on me (dislike & dont fell good about it) i really do not rush anything...like to get to know the man to share my body.

I do enjoy the stages of knowing someone is very exciting much more than banging banging him on first night stand...sure does not have to lead to the "altar" but i like to like the person first.

I'm a natural flirter enjoy have fun and laugh but for the surprise of some i'm reserved in those situations but most guys for sure understand my ways...i think.:tongue: :biggrin1:
 

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4-500 of them. I know, I know, as Alex will surely say, I am a slow poke. I was saving myself for Mr. Right, and worked too many hours to get up into the thousands. And, I came out before AIDS was ever heard of, after that I really slowed down a lot. :eek:
 

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Do one morning stands count? During a particular randy period later in college I had a part-time job as a canvasser for the Polk City Directory. It's those guys that go door to door and count heads, a census, sort of. In a college town I was given the district that encompassed most of the college apartments. On more than one occassion I was invited in. Not very memorable, but a good reason to whistle while you work. I was fired for being slow, of course.
 

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I do but usually I get stalked for a few weeks. Or I get PHANTOM phone calls...how they found out my number is beyond me. I've tried to be a wham bam thank you ma'am kinda guy but it just don't work.
 

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Ah, and to address Spladle from the previous page, it is cool that you have not HAD to sleep with sombody you might otherwise not, but we cannot all be golden youth. I met very few people in my time that I felt superior to, that I would say no to because I deemed them unworthy of sex, if they were clean and halfway sane they are as good as me. Most of my partners I would have loved to spend many more nights/days with, but most were great till they came, and then they just vanished into their hedonism never to meet again.

I also want to point out, you turned 20 today, again happy birthday, but it also means you have decades of experience to come. Part of that, unless you marry, will be one night stands eventually. Though it is not nearly as common in straight men as with gay men like myself. And, it would probably not be so with us if we COULD marry. If we could we would and you would see faithfulness and domesticity replace promiscuity to at least the same degree as heterosuperior types enjoy.


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I know, I know, the thread has gone over into the 4th page without a smartass remark from Pecker.

I'm bigger than that.

No I'm not, my bedroom set only came with one nightstand.