Ever have an experience with a curious straight guy?

6

645918

Guest
Back in highschool, I've had a threesome with one of my classmates and his broth, both very straight, but nevertheless very curious. I can't really remember how I ended up with both of them in bed, but I do remember that at first it was both a little awkward and incredibly hot at the same time. The guys obviously never had touched each other before, since they didn't really dare to do anything else than caressing each others backs and butts a bit. I took turns sucking them, which they really enjoyed, but they never once touched each others cocks.
One brother, though, got as far as actually fucking me, which was awesome since he must have been around 20 cm. the other brother stroked my cock til I came while I was being fucked, but other than just brushing his fingers through my cum, he didn't really dared to do anything else. I suppose it really must have been a nervous experience, especially with his brother present on the spot.
after the older brother came into me, I sucked my classmate til he came on my mouth and that was the end of that. Though they both told me they'd enjoyed it tremendously, I've never have done something else with either of them. I guess they just wanted they experience and thought best to leave it at that.
 

lowellstud

Superior Member
Verified
Gold
Joined
Apr 7, 2009
Posts
218
Media
39
Likes
3,010
Points
773
Location
Stamford, Connecticut, United States of America
Verification
View
Sexuality
90% Gay, 10% Straight
Gender
Male
I've had a couple experiences with straight friends that came onto me, and afterwards, I never heard from them again. I guess they couldn't handle the thought that they actually went through with the experience?
Then, I've had a couple of experiences with some straight friends, and everything was fine afterwards, and we are still friends to this day. You never know how it's going to turn out.
 
  • Like
Reactions: [ under review ]

orgelman

Sexy Member
Joined
Jan 19, 2008
Posts
111
Media
0
Likes
35
Points
173
Location
North West Louisiana
Sexuality
100% Gay, 0% Straight
Gender
Male
Have had a lot of pleasant experiences with "straight" guys.

Two were odd. One was my upstairs neighbor. Fine looking, late 20's, athletic and frequently heard him fucking his girlfriend. (sounded like he was killing her.) He used to come down to my place and we would sit on the floor watching TV. He wore cut-offs or jogging shorts with no underwear and had a good sized dick and balls peeking out the leg of his shorts. He was very physical in a straight guy way and over time would sit very close to me - body and legs touching. One night I put my hand on his leg and when he didn't react I moved upward. After a few minutes he said he was uncomfortable and I stopped. He came back a number of times until he moved. Interesting that he started to wear underwear.

The other was a aquaintance of mine. Saw him out at a cruising spot and invited him home. He was wild like he was sex starved. Gave great head and didn't want to stop so I could do him. Nice body and thick dick and balls. He was very vocal, but wouldn't let me touch him above the waist. When he came he suddenly went crazy. Jumped up threw on his clothes saying "oh God, Jesus help me, what am I going to do, oh God forgive me, etc...... This continued until he ran out the door. Always avoided me after that. To Bad.
 

Tense0000

Cherished Member
Joined
May 24, 2006
Posts
684
Media
23
Likes
314
Points
533
Location
Miami (Florida, United States)
Sexuality
50% Straight, 50% Gay
Gender
Male
Just once , but the opposite effect happened. Instead of running away , he wanted more. It was my first experimental situation and it sucked because here is this amazing jock on my sofa that is fondling me while I had fallen asleep..... I wake up and we start massively making out. He had the smoothest amazing arms, chest, etc... but as I reach for his cock, it never got hard. He was sucking me off for 45 mins... I came and he kept at it. I tried jerking him off but nothing. He just kept sucking me. I came again mins later and he said his lips were tired but loved my cock. I guess my ego got a little bigger but I really wanted to suck a nice thick cock and maybe fuck. Don't know what his deal was but he had an incredible body. He tried calling me a couple times and showing up with another guy friend I never knew but got creeped out and just avoided the subject with him again.
 

seekingpeace

1st Like
Joined
Oct 31, 2011
Posts
58
Media
1
Likes
1
Points
41
Location
Chester County, PA
Sexuality
99% Gay, 1% Straight
Gender
Male
I like this thread. I've had straight guys "come on" to me, but I don't think I've ever fooled around with one. I was probably afraid he would get off and then bash my head in with a wrench.

Personally I don't understand what all the fear is about. Could any straight/curious men speak to that? I genuinely want to know.
 

Chungster

Admired Member
Verified
Gold
Joined
Jun 12, 2008
Posts
137
Media
10
Likes
882
Points
523
Location
Toronto (Ontario, Canada)
Verification
View
Sexuality
50% Straight, 50% Gay
Gender
Male
Personally I don't understand what all the fear is about. Could any straight/curious men speak to that? I genuinely want to know.

I can't speak for other men, but for me. What keeps me from pursuing physical interaction with other men? Nerves, for one. As dumb as that may sound. Two? Is fear, of some sort. Not scared of being with another man, but scared of the possible repercussions. Will I like it? Or Won't I? I'll never know until I try, this I understand.

After much consideration, I realized I lust for the physical with men, not interested in any emotional connection or relationship for the time-being. There's nothing wrong with it, I'm not saying I never would, I'm just saying, at this point in my life. I'm not interested in men for that purpose.

Labels are irrelevant to me, I don't like to put myself in a box as such. I just say, I am who I am.

Which leads me to question myself, is it wrong for myself to lust for men just for their physique, and the purpose of fulfilling my curiosity?

The main thing that has kept me from experimenting, is I've never had someone come on to me, or had any instances in my life where me and another guy have even fooled around in the slightest. As much as I yearn and would like to experiment. I haven't the slightest idea where or how to start, I've gone as far as signing up here, and a few other sights to open up, and talk to people about this exact issue. Every-time I come close to connecting or planned something, I backed-out last minute. Due to nerves, fear, anxiety ... call it whatever you'd like.

@Deno, I do know what I want. Approaching men for sex, or sexual favors isn't something I'm familiar with :wink: ... but you're right, I am not going to force something to happen.

As for regrets, we live once. I've done, and regretted many a thing in my past. Not to say that I'll regret experimenting once it does happen, but if it does happen to turn out that way, I'll at least be able to live with myself knowing that I went through with it.

With that being said, I feel that I would regret NOT experimenting with another man, because like I said. I know what I want.

At times, the curiosity and lust reaches unimaginable levels. I'm not going to fight urges and feelings that occur naturally.

- chungster
 

seekingpeace

1st Like
Joined
Oct 31, 2011
Posts
58
Media
1
Likes
1
Points
41
Location
Chester County, PA
Sexuality
99% Gay, 1% Straight
Gender
Male
That's a very interesting response, Chungster. Thank you for offering that.

My understanding then is that you'd be afraid you'd "like" the guy for more than his penis (or butt, or belly button or earlobes, or whichever physical parts you speak of). Is that correct? Would you be willing to talk with me about this over skype?

This option of course is open to anyone who would be willing to share their thoughts with me. Send me a message if you'd like to do so.
 
Last edited:

SR_Jherkin_McGherkin

Experimental Member
Joined
May 1, 2011
Posts
60
Media
0
Likes
8
Points
43
I can't be the only one that when you're horny as hell, everything and anyone becomes an option, but once I've released that feeling totally goes away.

THIS

i call them "cum goggles": when you're full of cum and needing to get off, it's as bad as being 12 beers into the night. Chubby girl, hot guy, eventually it doesn't make a difference when you're horny and/or drunk enough.
 
  • Like
Reactions: Wine0

Deno

Cherished Member
Joined
Apr 19, 2006
Posts
4,631
Media
1
Likes
410
Points
303
Sexuality
No Response
Back in highschool, I've had a threesome with one of my classmates and his broth, both very straight, but nevertheless very curious. I can't really remember how I ended up with both of them in bed, but I do remember that at first it was both a little awkward and incredibly hot at the same time. The guys obviously never had touched each other before, since they didn't really dare to do anything else than caressing each others backs and butts a bit. I took turns sucking them, which they really enjoyed, but they never once touched each others cocks.
One brother, though, got as far as actually fucking me, which was awesome since he must have been around 20 cm. the other brother stroked my cock til I came while I was being fucked, but other than just brushing his fingers through my cum, he didn't really dared to do anything else. I suppose it really must have been a nervous experience, especially with his brother present on the spot.
after the older brother came into me, I sucked my classmate til he came on my mouth and that was the end of that. Though they both told me they'd enjoyed it tremendously, I've never have done something else with either of them. I guess they just wanted they experience and thought best to leave it at that.

this will probably get removed,just saying
 

Chungster

Admired Member
Verified
Gold
Joined
Jun 12, 2008
Posts
137
Media
10
Likes
882
Points
523
Location
Toronto (Ontario, Canada)
Verification
View
Sexuality
50% Straight, 50% Gay
Gender
Male
That's a very interesting response, Chungster. Thank you for offering that.

My understanding then is that you'd be afraid you'd "like" the guy for more than his penis (or butt, or belly button or earlobes, or whichever physical parts you speak of). Is that correct? Would you be willing to talk with me about this over skype?

This option of course is open to anyone who would be willing to share their thoughts with me. Send me a message if you'd like to do so.

an honest response was all it was :biggrin1:
*feels as if a bit of weight has been cast off my shoulders* :tongue:
I shot you a private message, kind sir. to avoid broadcasting our conversation in this thread.
 

ShyGuy7

Sexy Member
Joined
Aug 23, 2010
Posts
360
Media
4
Likes
53
Points
63
Location
Central NC
Sexuality
80% Straight, 20% Gay
Gender
Male
I am one of those curious "straight" guys.
never been with another man .....


yet. :wink:

without going into much detail, as curious, and eager as I am to experiment.
I always find myself changing my mind last minute, to be frank, I believe it has a lot to do with me over-thinking.

the temptation is there, yet I resist to go forth with urge. it frustrates me at times to be honest. being nervous doesn't help. I wish it were easy to just let go, and just do it. but for me, it's more complicated than that obviously.

First and foremost, I wanted to applaud you for your honesty. I know, particularly within this forum, it is not easy to confess your true thoughts or feelings, due to the "opinions" of some. So again, major kudos, Dude

I feel silly pretending to be some sort of bi-curious coach, but I will say of my experiences, it ALWAYS happened with someone who I was intrigued by and trusted. Experimentation is scary and exciting, so I am never an advocate of the just do it mentality. But I as I stated in my earlier post, my experiences were never based on me making the initial move or seeking the opportunity, despite the fact that I knew, deep down, I wanted it badly. I was extremely fortunate to be approached and never had to initiate or I would still be frustrated as hell. I consider myself pretty open and being reserved made me approachable or so Ive been told. And despite being in the military, a frat and playing sports, I have heard on more than one occasion, guys not being sure "what my deal is".

Bottom line is DO NOT rush your urges or desires. Life has an amazing way of paving the way to exploring who you are. Not in the gay, straight sense, but allowing you to define simply, what you like, as well as what you dont like.

My own example of this is, I've learned (over time) that I do enjoy intimacy with guys. My first experiences were beyond scary and I was the "freaked out, grabbed his clothes and ran out of the place almost naked, after cumming type guy" more than a few times. However, I had an experience with a buddy, who I was very close to. I had no idea about his curiosities, as we double dated and had hung out for years. But he was the one that made it safe. I cant say how I knew. I just knew. I think because he had a bit more experience, I was comforted that my inexperience wouldnt be a turn off. We are still great friends, but do not mess around or really talk about our past (as he is married w/kids). But it did help me embrace being bi-curious and later accepting my physical interest in guys. To be honest, I feel its the very reason I played sports, joined a frat and so on.

Again, I think the best means is to allow the opportunity to present itself, but DO NOT compromise yourself in any way, just to have the experience.

Hang in there buddy.....and I wanted to say thanks to everyone for being so cool abt this topic. This forum has been great for me.
 
  • Like
Reactions: Mtlbidude

jayphillips1980

Expert Member
Joined
Dec 24, 2010
Posts
52
Media
4
Likes
104
Points
178
Location
Novi, MI, USA
Sexuality
90% Gay, 10% Straight
Gender
Male
Yes to all the above........"I can't believe I'm doing this." "Why am I doin this." "My wife is gonna kill me." Please shut up and cum already. That's how I felt.

Just enjoy it to the fullest, and realize that you made the decision to do it well before yu did it. Enjoy the moment and don't fuck it up for anyone. If youwanna regret it....do it well after the guy is gone. But my suggestion is to let it sit in your head for a few days or at leats til the next time yu get horny. Then decide if it was a bad ideal.


Yup this was pretty much me the first time, and the second time. Until the 3rd time I just was completely relaxed and went with it. Had a great time and have been having a great time ever since!
 

slee89

Experimental Member
Joined
Feb 1, 2012
Posts
14
Media
1
Likes
9
Points
38
Location
USA
Sexuality
90% Straight, 10% Gay
Gender
Male
I'm a straight guy but I do fantasize/get really turned on by big dicks (porn).

I've only done this once when one of my old high school friend (hes gay) and i were talking about sex and me just asking stupid questions like "who's the guy" and what not. We were at his buddy's house party btw. he went on about saying how you can cum from anal sex, etc etc. I asked what was the biggest one he saw. He told me was from this black guy and how you could see his dick from behind b/c how low it hung. I was REALLY interested and asked a lot of questions (i didn't realize it). He said lets move this convo somewhere more private, i wanted to hear more so I agreed. We went into a room upstairs (no one was allowed to go upstairs) and started talking more. I was getting pretty turned on but when he talked about the anal sex part i was kind of ehh.. ahha.

Then he said how he has a pretty big dick..and I just nodded(maybe i smiled? I was def shy about it). He asked so what do you want to do? I asked if i could see it. He took it out and it wasn't that big..a little shorter than me (6x4.5) but a lot thicker. I was a bit disappointed to be honest but I realized this is kind of a now or never moment. I always wanted to know how it felt to have a dick in my mouth..like the texture, the hardness, etc so I went down on him. he said I was pretty good actually haha.

He then went down on my but I didn't really like a guy going down on me. I preferred the sucking. So yeahh there is my cock sucking fantasy that came true. that was the only time too..we actually dont talk anymore and if he asked me to suck him agian i'd say no.

I really want to try a HUGE one hahaah
 

earllogjam

Expert Member
Joined
Aug 15, 2006
Posts
4,917
Media
0
Likes
179
Points
193
Sexuality
No Response
I've had anonymous sex with guys with wedding bands. None very memorable. Most straight guys IME don't reciprocate or give lousy BJ's and just bolt after they get their rocks off. And many touch you like a woman would like to be touched, soft, tender and lightly, which is a huge turn off for me. Can't say it was very satisfying mutual sex regardless of the initial attraction.
 
  • Like
Reactions: [ under review ]

rbkwp

Mythical Member
Joined
Aug 21, 2007
Posts
79,266
Media
1
Likes
44,946
Points
608
Location
Auckland (New Zealand)
Sexuality
100% Gay, 0% Straight
Gender
Male
Then he said how he has a pretty big dick................
I asked if i could see it. He took it out and it wasn't that big..a little shorter than me (6x4.5) but a lot thicker. I was a bit disappointed to be honest but.............
.etc so I went down on him. he said I was pretty good actually haha.

I really want to try a HUGE one hahaah

aaawwww that was a lovely read slee, i was smiling thru it all, hope you get the chance, at some stage matey...............
 
  • Like
Reactions: [ under review ]

erratic

Loved Member
Joined
Nov 27, 2007
Posts
4,289
Media
0
Likes
508
Points
333
Sexuality
No Response
Did it go well?

Mostly no. If a guy was like "wanna suck my dick?" (which was frequent - like it's some sort of fucking privilege to suck a dick that's reputedly only been in women), he'd get "only if you suck mine." That usually ended things right there.

Other guys who called themselves "curious" would get all nervous or homophobic. No thanks.

With a couple of my friends it went okay. We fooled around a few times, no strings attached. It was okay, but gay guys are way better at it right-off-the-bat than straight guys. Not every dick is the same, and I found that newbies to gay sex would come at my dick like it was exactly the same as theirs. You have to explore what a guy likes just the same as you have to explore what a woman likes. So if there's anything they learned from our escapades, it's that. (They were way better the last time than the first time. Which, to be clear, is totally normal, and I'd expect nothing more or less.)

Were limits preset?

Absolutely. No asking for anything you're not willing to try reciprocating. You can back out of anything at any moment, no hard feelings. Just don't be a jerk about it.

I'm dying to try some stuff but have not a hint how to start at my own pace and not frustrate the gentleman involved.

As with any other relationship, it's communication, communication, communication. You'll want honesty from this guy, and have some level of trust with him, no? So, be honest with him and show you're trustworthy. Let him know where you're coming from and what you're looking for. If it goes well, you'll end up with a friend you can fool around with.

Remember, these are guys. I'm drawing broadly here, but it's much more reasonable with queer guys to say something like "I'm looking to fool around, are you interested?" and expect a positive response.

Just please, please, please don't end up being like this guy. I get a good laugh out of that, but I've met more than a few assholes just like him.

Also, don't be surprised if you get rejected because you're "straight-but-curious." For every gay guy who's into that, there's one who's not at all. Please do respect that.