This is a topic I'm planning to address in my
blog, but no, I haven't jacked myself off during a massage.
On the other hand (literally), I've gotten many a handjob from private masseurs over the years. Gay, straight and "not saying". And I agree with posts above about legitimate (regulated) versus not-so-legitimate (unregulated). And I also agree that the genitals
are part of the body and
should be included in massages.
In fact yesterday I was seeing my regular physical therapist, who I have been seeing for nearly a decade now. Great guy and straight as they come. (I had to laugh when our conversation turned to bi-curious some years ago and he thought the term was "gay-curious". I told him he didn't actually lose being straight if he tried sex with a guy.)
Some years ago I was diagnosed with both a vericocele (varicose vein in the testicle) as well as suffering post-operative pain and numbness from a hernia operation. This guy is a trained and licensed practitioner, but after some stretching and work on an arm muscle problem I was seeing him for, offered to see if he could do anything about the groin pain. Obviously I agreed, but warned him I might get an erection. He said he figured, but wanted to help out.
That first time, and probably five or six times subsequently (yes, he said it was definitely an unusual therapy, but he could tell from the tissue work it was necessary) it hurt enough I really didn't get hard. But after a while the pain started to give way and sure enough Lil Rambler (just now invented that nickname) came to attention. I reassured my guy I wasn't looking for any help, but boys being boys it ended up with him jacking me on me than a couple of occasions - ostensibly to see if that helped relieve some of the pressure.
Jump forward a couple of years to yesterday. I've continued to see him for therapy on the arm and general problems, but the jacking ended a few years ago. While he trusted me completely, he was worried about his license should anyone find out. I readily agreed and that was that.
However he still works on the groin issues, and yesterday I think I caught him in a randy mood. I was laying on the table on my back and he was working on my arm (addressing a pulled tendon in my bicep). Our conversation was sex-based since he is the only person in my "real world" who I have told about my blog and let them read it. Again, very trusted friend.
So he moved down to my right side and pulled up a chair as he usually does to sit while working my groin, flipping back the drape to expose my crotch. Only this time instead of keeping my penis covered the drape is definitely off to the far side side. This is unusual. He starts his usual ministrations, which involve fingertips pressing into the area just to the upper left of the penis and working down through the hernia scar into the area where the spermatic cord exits the scrotum. Sensitive area. (I have post-hernia scarring and a severe bruising sensation, plus a half-dollar-sized numb area where the nerves seem to have been cut by the surgery.)
So he's working the area and he mentioned my blog entry discussing my
urologist's hand on my dick for an extended period. As he talks he continues pressing into the scar tissue, but his other hand pushes my dick - exposed and already a little swollen - "out of the way".
It wasn't, to my knowledge, "in" the way.
So we keep talking about this and other topics as he is really getting deep into dick territory with his work, including full hand rubs across my pubes and around the base of my cock. I am serious concentrating on images of puppies, but Lil Rambler is enjoying the attention. (Been a little dry with the wife lately, for medical reasons.) And while I've been fully erect in front of this guy I don't want to risk his license (one of the reasons the earlier sessions stopped).
Then he starts this rhythmical shaking, obviously causing my dick to flop back and forth. So he grabs it and presses it down over my testicles (this is getting a LOT more detailed than intended), holding his hand in place, a la my urologist but without the sheet over me, cupping my cock and balls completely. As he does this, of course I'm getting hard. And he knows it. Both hands are now fully on my groin, yet he's sitting next to me acting as if nothing's happening. Finally, after enough attention to the scar tissue that I'm feeling really bruised today, he lets go, stands up and says "I guess it's customary to offer release at this point".
I have no idea why, but I thanked him and said I'd take care of it later since I knew he had another patient waiting outside. %$#@!
But the next session ought to be a lot of fun...I'll write about it on the blog if he gives me permission.
So, long answer to a short question: No, never jacked off in front of a masseuse/masseur, but
been jacked by quite a few. Including a good friend.