concupisys
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one thing that comes to mind while reading this thread is the fact that there are some out there who have a hard time separating sex and love.... that isn't a bad thing, but often times it can cause a person who can't separate the two to regret having a casual encounter because they think that it ultimately will lead in to a relationship.... in these casual experiences, the people involved are acting on impulse, and don't realize the personal ramifications of what they're doing until after the experience is over.... next thing you know: all kinds of bells and whistles are going off and the first impulse at that point is to break it off and get as far away from the situation as they can....
to the OP: if you don't regret having this experience, then simply learn from this experience and move on.... other people you hook up with won't react in this way, but if you are in to casual one-time sex on the first date then you simply have to understand that these after effects are going to be a possibility....
to the OP: if you don't regret having this experience, then simply learn from this experience and move on.... other people you hook up with won't react in this way, but if you are in to casual one-time sex on the first date then you simply have to understand that these after effects are going to be a possibility....