Ever not been taken as serious relationship material because the sex was too "porno"?

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An honest word of advice JR7.. when people stop posting it's because the subject is dead, and people aren't really interested/have nothing to add to the conversation. Your bumps don't really make us feel differently, most of us are regulars round these parts, and we've seen the thread, and let it pass because we're over it. Let the threads die when people stop posting.

Edit: If you wanted a reply, and he didn't give you one in the thread, rather than bumping the thread (again) just leave a message on his profile or PM him and ask. Just some advice so you can get an answer, and so the thread can just take it's course as it would without the repeated bump-age. I know how you feel, I've started threads I thought were rather interesting and others didn't seem to respond the way I'd have liked, but I just let it go because I assume if more people were interested, they'd have posted. Tis what it is.
 
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With all due respect, Tight N Juicy, I have resurrected threads that had not received posts in years due to a simple "bump." There may always be a new member or existing member who now has a story to contribute. Putting the thread front and center in the "New" category has worked wonders to create second and third waves of lively discourse over once-dead threads.
 

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Honestly, if a women didnt fuck like crazed animal the first time that would be the last time for her. I'm an animal in bed and I need a good match. If someone can't follow my lead then we won't be compatible in the long run.
 
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Fuck yeah, Spoiler! Now that's the kind of response I can appreciate. I also agree 100%. The only times I think maybe I went too far and jeopardized future awesome sexual sessions were when I was with an animal of a woman and I got too greedy in terms of cumming. I could usually get two blow jobs in one night or fuck twice in one evening and still get a second date, but there was just something about stealing that third cumshot! NIghts where I didn't even have sex with the woman but say we 69'ed three times, I rarely got to hook up again.
 
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And yes, ironically enough the Julia of the original post from January 2012 is a different Julia than the subject of my 4/1/12 post. There's something to look into - maybe it's the name "Julia!"
 
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What do the ladies think on this thread? If you blow a guy three or more times on the evening of the first date are you less inclined to go out with him again had you only gone down once or twice. I've often found the difference between two and three blow jobs is three you're one-and-done; two you get a second date.
 

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I guess this might fall into the category of doing too much too soon, but I was wondering if any of you lost out on a potential long term relationship because sex came too soon or was too quickly got on the 'kinky' or 'porno' side?

Like most of you, I'd imagine, when I was single I tended to go fairly far on the first date if the opportunity was there. I did not discriminate. I was this way with females I wanted to be in a long term relationship with as well as ones I didn't necessarily see myself dating exclusively. I did not necessarily have intercourse on the first date, but I was always interested in cunnilingus, so typically all of my first dates (where there was a mutual attraction) resulted in oral sex or 69-ing.

I remember one woman who I really wanted to date exclusively, Julia. She was gorgeous and had a beautiful pink pussy covered in a thick triangle of black hair. Really pretty face too! We went out on a first date, she came back to my apartment and we 69-ed all night. And by that, let me just say we did it 3 times before the sun came up. I came hard the first tie, harder the second, and even the third time her lips and tongue coaxed out a smaller yet healthy load.

When I called to set up a second date, surprise surprise - she said she couldn't get into a relationship with a guy she blew three times in one night. "So why did you do it," I inquired. She didn't really know, but she said that sometime between the 2nd and 3rd 69 session she just figured this would just be for fun and not a relationship. Lesson learned - only two 69's in one evening from then on.


Well...maybe in the future...you should give first-timers half a session (no whole and definitely never twice).

 

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I guess I wouldn't worry about it. In other words I probably wouldn't be interested in any sort of intimate relationship with anyone, female or male, who was capable of thinking that I was "too porno". In other words sexual relations are all about sex (truism). I don't see that the numeric count of blow jobs, 69s or coital couplings on the first tryst has anything to do with it.