[quote author=Lovembig link=board=meetgreet;num=1042158978;start=15#18 date=01/17/03 at 14:00:38] I thought you shoot it into a tissue or something. [/quote]
Tissue!!? My goodness, no! It takes a least a couple of sheets of Brawny!
All kidding aside, most men like to see their (or someone else's) cum fly. Consider the "money shots" in porn films, where the guy always pulls out and cums for all to see. Seeing how much, and how far it goes, is somewhat of an affirmation of the quality of the orgasm for many. Particularly as one passes middle age, being able to shoot a big wad over you shoulder, or further, is a nice confirmation that the plumbing is still all working. Besides, at the height of that special moment, who wants to be bothered and distrcted with a towel!
As a gay may, I've found my partners often like being cummed on, and to some extent equate the degree to which they satisfy me by the volume and force of my orgasm. Recently, I had a trick that really turned me on. When he couldn't take me inside any longer (too thick), I ended up just jerking off while he cuddled next to me. He seemed very satisfied indeed when I splattered him from knees to neck.