years ago my wife confessed to being attracted to a neighbor. he was 22, she was 38. we worked it out where i would hide and watch, he didnt know. we've always had a problem about me being over 6 thick, but only 6 1/2 long. it causes her pain, and sex became very infrequent. combined with me being 6'3" tall, and over 250, it looks small on me. (im a grower, not a shower). this guy had a greek god body, and was about 8 inches long, and fairly thin. i must admit jealously....she went wild with him. he could pound her as hard as she wanted, had no problem blowing him, even did anal...something we never even talked about. i was glad she had the chance, and had a few more times with him where i wasnt there. she broke it off when i told her of my feelings. still, it was pretty hot for me...my own porno film. just thought you might like to know it isnt all like in Penthouse Forum.