Everlasting Blowjob

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by boblickin, Jun 21, 2008.

  1. boblickin

    boblickin New Member

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    So, the story is basically that my friend and I were chilling over his house and he began to give me a blowjob (a normal occurance). This time, like all the other times, he's left sucking my cock for like 2 hours and I still don't cum. Then I usually have to leave, feeling unfulfilled. He's left pondering if he's good or not.


    The question is:


    Is it his fault that I can't cum, or is it just my longevity?
     
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    Sounds like you need variety my friend, Bruce
     
  3. boblickin

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    He's basically my only same-gender sexual outlet at the moment. I'm kinda scared to meet other gay people.
     
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    I think it's you.

    Tell him it is good.

    Jerk yourself off and finish next time.
     
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    Have him use his hands. I can't get off either unless the girl strokes and twists along with the sucking and licking.
     
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    Not much of an outlet if you're not cumming. :rolleyes:

    I'd say it could be both you and him. Some guys have a hard time cumming from blowjobs, and some people don't know how to give them. He definitely should be using some hand action. Try stopping and jerking yourself off to get near, then let him continue maybe. Sometimes you have to get used to the sensation. Have you been able to cum from other people giving you blowjobs before?
     
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    It may be nerves, inexperience, that his technique isn't working for you or you could be one of those guys who will never cum from a blow job.
    Show him how you jack off and let him mimic your style, and most importantly be vocal in letting him know what you do and don't enjoy. More ball play, more suction, faster, slower. it all makes a big difference
     
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    go further, NO? so you can have more than a really LONG suck day without pay off...
     
  9. boblickin

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    I've asked him if he'd be willing to give me anal. He doesn't. He said he's more of a pitcher.
     
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    definitely tell him to jerk u while suckin
     
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    It is not his fault bob. Not everyone can come from a BJ. Bring yourself close to climaxing before he starts fellating you. And you can finish the job yourself by hand.
     
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    Well from a womans perspective, It is your comunication first, technic second and least of all longivity.

    I know from my own personal experience that my hubby took alot of time to talk me thru what feels good for a bj. My only problem was that even though I understood what he wanted I had a bad habit of loosing control become over excited and technic goes thru the window.
     
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    I don't always cum from a BJ either. As a youngster I concentrated really hard on building up longevity that I think I did too good a job. It's great for sex, but for a blowjob it's not an ideal thing.

    I think, like everyone else says, let him know the techniques that get you off and see if that helps. If not, you might just be a marathoner when it comes to ejaculation.
     
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    I used to have the same problem, Now "marathon bj's" are like my signature thing. Guys that are really into giving head love working on me. I stay hard forever and can keep going over n over, but that always wasnt the case, when I wanna cum I give my cocksucker instructions how i like it, and in my mind im imagining my ultimate turn on. For me, I like a guy to start off deepthroating and when hes ready for the first load I have him work on my big head the change of pace and intensity sends me over the edge....
     
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    I have never been able to cum from a blw job :frown1: nlt even with simultaneous hand movement: it already takes me long to cum during full intercourse.
     
  16. D_Bob_Crotchitch

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    You aren't alone. I've talked to more than one dude on here that has the same problem we do. It takes us a long time to reach that point. A longer period of foreplay might get your pump primed better. I know a lot of lovers appreciate it too.
     
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