Every Man Is Gay

[Gisella]

The title of this thread is cruel. It caused novice to have to dial 911 with hyperventilation. :wink:

I don't label myself much. I am a man, I have a penis, I wank, I peek at photos on here and compare sizes. I talk dirty to two guys on here. I talk dirty to women too. I am me and that is how I classify myself.

:lmao: Poor Novice...the 'bode expiatorio" dont know how to translate to english...

Well, what I have to say is based on my female personal experience...when I felt for the first time desire for another woman few weeks ago as a surprise of my own reaction , it went as fast it arrives.

In the end I would want to have her as a man with a penis and for me to have some pleasure in that too she could not deliver because she lack the penis...than to me was a dead end street an could not realy fly high even through fantasy..it lack the mechanical tools of manhood that goes with it, plus how could not fit as a male in my fantasy because I'm petit and etc and she was big tall etc. It must start first in the mind and than go on if not it will not happen. I tried to explore, express, etc but it died.

Than who knows what male feels they may get and erection looking another male, craving, appreciating etc but it does not get fluid ...and than we just agree that we are really what we are...:shrug:

There are any male here that felt/feel like I did?

Thanks...

 

[joyboytoy79]

No silly. You're in INDIVIDUAL.

Silly, INDIVIDUALs do not exist. All men are gay. All black men have huge cocks. All asian men have micropenii. All women love big cocks. There simply is NO variance in the world!!! Haven't you learned by now?

The "a" stands for anal I take it?

Only for your babe. And lex. And Jeffie. And Alex. And Mme Zora. And... (...)

Or Absolutely perhaps?

Anonymously

Abandonedly

?

Amorphously

 

[B_Think_Kink]

I guess i'm not gay.

I don't like watching str8 porn with a guy in it.

Maybe... i'm asexual?

I cannot stand watch straight porn either... it just seems to fake to me.. but toss me gay porn and you have me where you want me.. I also don't watch girl on girl, it's gay or nothing.

 

[rob_just_rob]

I'll throw this out there.

If you're a man and have sex with women, and don't have sex with men or think about having sex with men, you're straight.

If you are a man and have sex with other men and with women, you are bisexual.

If you are a man and have sex with other men, and think about about having sex with women as well, you might be bisexual.

If you are a man and have sex with other men, but never think about having sex with women, you're gay.

If you're a man and don't have sex with anyone, but think about having sex with men, you might be gay.

If you're a man and don't have sex with anyone, but think about having sex with women, you're married.

 

[Gisella]

I'll throw this out there.

If you're a man and have sex with women, and don't have sex with men or think about having sex with men, you're straight.

If you are a man and have sex with other men and with women, you are bisexual.

If you are a man and have sex with other men, and think about about having sex with women as well, you might be bisexual.

If you are a man and have sex with other men, but never think about having sex with women, you're gay.

If you're a man and don't have sex with anyone, but think about having sex with men, you might be gay.

If you're a man and don't have sex with anyone, but think about having sex with women, you're married.

Yeh, it does apply the other way around too... :wink:

But still seems many married people have more sex going on than some singles...

Well, having sex is very very good...I like it. :biggrin1:

 

[Wyldgusechaz]

Would you be bi if you wanted to hit every one in this pic as long as it was a group session? :biggrin1:


Tom Ford - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

 

[rob_just_rob]

Yeh, it does apply the other way around too... :wink:

But still seems many married people have more sex going on than some singles...

Well, having sex is very very good...I like it. :biggrin1:

There's a statement I can get behind. :smile:

The last line was meant as a surprise twist in an otherwise serious response. But then again, I have heard stories about the marriage "penny jar" (during the first year of marriage, you put a penny in a jar every time you have sex. After the first year, you take a penny out each time you have sex. Supposedly, the jar is never fully emptied in most marriages).

 

[Matthew]

These threads annoy me because I know I myself hate having my sexuality constantly questioned, picked at and denied. Sorry Virginia, there are 100% straight guys. Not all straight guys like or even care about big-cock straight porn. Joke or not, the premise is false.

I know because I am 100% gay. The 1% straight is a token symbol I put in to show open-mindedness, for the same reason many straight guys put 1% gay. I know a lot of gay members here get pissed off at the "why don't you fags like pussy" threads - why should we expect the double-standard to be OK?

I know a lot of people say labels suck, they're constraining and misleading, etc. But I agree with DC Deep. That might be true for you, but for some of us the "labels" are accurate. When you talk about sexual flexibility, fluidity, etc., that may accurately describe you and many people; but to universalize that to everyone is just as incorrect as saying everyone is either all straight or all gay.

 

[rob_just_rob]

Would you be bi if you wanted to hit every one in this pic as long as it was a group session? :biggrin1:


Tom Ford - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Yup.

 

[basque9]

Anyone have thoughts, reactions, opinions... I hope to get a quality thread out of this! :biggrin1:[/quote]

Fascinating thread:
When I was 18, I let men jack and suck my cock and I was straight?
When I was 20, I fucked gay men and I was straight?
When I was 22, I played with gay mens' asses before fucking them to enhance the quality of the fuck and I was straight?
When I was 24, I fucked and sucked gay guys on film for pay and I was straight?
When I was 26, I fucked and sucked attractive guys because I enjoyed it immensely ..... and I realized I was gay! :wink: :smile:

 

[ONB]

Would you be bi if you wanted to hit every one in this pic as long as it was a group session? :biggrin1:

Tom Ford - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

yes you would. i know this because i actually don't find scarlett all that appealing. clearly intriguing and sexy. but keira on the other hand... good lord. is it bad that i would only want to hit one person in that pic? :tongue:

 

[DC_DEEP]

I just had to come back to this post, there's so much tucked away in so few words...

I think you have to remember not to confuse sex with a lifestyle.

So, I know what the sex is. What, exactly, is the lifestyle? I get up in the morning, shave & shower, have a cup of coffee, commute to work, commute home, have dinner, watch a little TV, go to bed, get up and do the same thing the next day. I'm gay, and that's my lifestyle. Is it so different than a "straight" lifestyle?

If a man enjoys another man sucking his dick now and then, so be it. Doesn't necessarily make him gay. I've had many straight men say that the reason they like a man sucking their dick now and then is that we're so much better than most women.

Correct me if I'm wrong here, but could this possibly be part of the problem perpetuating rampant homophobia around the world? Saying it's fine for guys to suck each others' cocks, but not OK for two men to be in a stable relationship? As long as you SAY you are straight, you can engage in cock-sucking with no ill effects (you aren't gay, after all). But saying you are gay or bisexual is a horrible thing. The label becomes the stigma, not the behavior.

It's odd how we're quick to put a man into the gay category if he lets a guy suck his dick, but a woman can have sex with another woman and not be labeled a lesbian. By most accounts, she becomes MORE attractive to men.

Just my two cents.

perhaps by you; I'll stick with "if she has sex only with women, she's a lesbian; if she has sex with men and women, she's bisexual. If she has sex only with men, she's straight. Wow, the same criteria for men and women... what a fucked-up concept.

 

[Quinnster64]

So, I know what the sex is. What, exactly, is the lifestyle? I get up in the morning, shave & shower, have a cup of coffee, commute to work, commute home, have dinner, watch a little TV, go to bed, get up and do the same thing the next day. I'm gay, and that's my lifestyle. Is it so different than a "straight" lifestyle?

You're right, our lifestyle is no different than a straight lifestyle, except that we date men. I didn't infer that our lifestyle is that much different than a straight lifestyle. You did.

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If a man enjoys another man sucking his dick now and then, so be it. Doesn't necessarily make him gay. I've had many straight men say that the reason they like a man sucking their dick now and then is that we're so much better than most women.
Correct me if I'm wrong here, but could this possibly be part of the problem perpetuating rampant homophobia around the world? Saying it's fine for guys to suck each others' cocks, but not OK for two men to be in a stable relationship? As long as you SAY you are straight, you can engage in cock-sucking with no ill effects (you aren't gay, after all). But saying you are gay or bisexual is a horrible thing. The label becomes the stigma, not the behavior.

You're wrong. My comment only had to do with engaging in sex, not relationships. The label becomes the stigma if you let it. I've been in a stable GAY relationship for 13 years.
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It's odd how we're quick to put a man into the gay category if he lets a guy suck his dick, but a woman can have sex with another woman and not be labeled a lesbian. By most accounts, she becomes MORE attractive to men.

Just my two cents.
perhaps by you; I'll stick with "if she has sex only with women, she's a lesbian; if she has sex with men and women, she's bisexual. If she has sex only with men, she's straight. Wow, the same criteria for men and women... what a fucked-up concept.

I totally agree with you on that, but too often people are too quick to label men for having the occassional romp with men. I'd LOVE it if everyone had your views, but they don't. Too often a man is labeled gay rather than bisexual if he occassionaly has sex with men. That was my point.

 

[FreshOnTheScene]

Retarded.

I don't get excited because I like looking at the guy, I get excited because I can empathize with the guy. This has been brought up before and it's COMPLETELY fucking different. Watching lesbian porn guys get off because they imagine they could be with both girls at the same time, watching straight porn straight men are NOT fantasizing about being with the girl and guy at the same time, but many find this kind of scene hotter because it is easier to put yourself in the scene. The man fucking the girl is your avatar in the fantasy, you don't have to use your imagination as much as the lesbian scenes.

This should be SO obvious I feel dumb having to say it.

I can understand that, but I figured this would be the place of open discussion. I cannot see why you must degrade what I've brought up in order to make a point, but perhaps my attempts at cultivating knowledge and other viewpoints is offensive to you? Oh well, I did get some information from these posts and I appreciate that. Besides, perhaps you missed the point that the statement made came from Ron White, a comedian...

I can empathize with you, I too feel dumb for saying the obvious.

 

[B_spiker067]

I thought this nugget of wisdom from Ron White could: a. inform b. make you think c. make you chuckle in embarassment as you think about what Ron said

I told him, "We're all gay, man. It's just to what extent are you gay." He says, "That's bullshit man, I ain't gay at all!" I said, "Yes you are and I'll prove it ...

BULLSHIT. I watch a stallion studed to a mare (and enjoy it at some level) does that make me a gay horse?

Do you know that the brain has an 'empathy' function that allows us to visualize ourselves in others. Hence, a retarded obsession with sports by men at a purely spectator level. They see Dwayne Wade dunk, they actually feel that they dunked the ball. This is a plaintive plea for men to get out and play ball.

 

[B_NineInchCock_160IQ]

I can understand that, but I figured this would be the place of open discussion. I cannot see why you must degrade what I've brought up in order to make a point, but perhaps my attempts at cultivating knowledge and other viewpoints is offensive to you? Oh well, I did get some information from these posts and I appreciate that. Besides, perhaps you missed the point that the statement made came from Ron White, a comedian...

I can empathize with you, I too feel dumb for saying the obvious.

and you would have cultivated knowledge if you read what I said and took it to heart.

Not everything comedians say is funny, and this "theory" gets floated around here so often that it doesn't bother me to put it down in the manner that I did.

This is a place for open discussion. I openly discussed the validity of your point. It's also a place with a search feature.

 

[cocoacutie]

I thought this nugget of wisdom from Ron White could: a. inform b. make you think c. make you chuckle in embarassment as you think about what Ron said

I told him, "We're all gay, man. It's just to what extent are you gay." He says, "That's bullshit man, I ain't gay at all!" I said, "Yes you are and I'll prove it." He says, "Fine, prove it." I said to him, "All right. Do you like porn?" He says, "Yeah, I love porn, you know that." I said, "Do you only watch two women doing it?" He said, "Naw, I'll watch a man and a woman make love." I said, "Oh, do you want the guy to have a tiny, half-flaccid penis?" He said, "Naw, man, I like big, hard, throbbing co.......I did not know that about myself..."

Anyone have thoughts, reactions, opinions... I hope to get a quality thread out of this! :biggrin1:

Oh MY Gosh. I was just telling that joke to friend of my the other day...I love Ron White. That's my favorite routine of his.

 

[FreshOnTheScene]

I'm done with this thread... it's not worth fighting for... it's all fucked up and I'm done trying to deal with it.

 

[mephistopheles]

I thought this nugget of wisdom from Ron White could: a. inform b. make you think c. make you chuckle in embarassment as you think about what Ron said

I told him, "We're all gay, man. It's just to what extent are you gay." He says, "That's bullshit man, I ain't gay at all!" I said, "Yes you are and I'll prove it." He says, "Fine, prove it." I said to him, "All right. Do you like porn?" He says, "Yeah, I love porn, you know that." I said, "Do you only watch two women doing it?" He said, "Naw, I'll watch a man and a woman make love." I said, "Oh, do you want the guy to have a tiny, half-flaccid penis?" He said, "Naw, man, I like big, hard, throbbing co.......I did not know that about myself..."

Anyone have thoughts, reactions, opinions... I hope to get a quality thread out of this! :biggrin1:

I hate Ron White and his other three blue-retard-collar-retard-comedy-retard friends...

I hate idiots and I hate rednecks; so those pricks coming together to talk is bound and determined to cause nothing for me but frustration and a devistating sense hatred for a large part of the human race.

I'm not saying I want those pricks to die, but if any one of them were to get hit by a car, I'd like to be the one driving it.

And I bet George Bush thinks those fucktards are a riot.

Fuck those redneck-collar prick-fucks, and fuck their jokes, and fuck anyone who likes them.

 

[Gillette]

Am I going to have to wash your mouth out with soap, young man?