everyone look dick in lockers!

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No, London, you're not a perv, your just a good looking normal guy.

At my gym, however ( southern, Fla), I sense a timidness about it all.
No one gives any eye contact (God for bid) in the small, two-shower
locker room. But I DO notice many guys, mostly the younger ones,
look at you when you turn your back and begin to walk away. (I've
caught this in the mirror or from the corner of my eye).

I've come to the conclusion that most guys are genuinely interested
for various reasons (mostly comparison) in the bodies/cocks of other guys- especially those who, like them, work out.
The tension in the shower room at my gym is palpable.
Most guys, unless they're older and inevitably out of shape ,
do not undress by their lockers. The reason, I believe, is obvious.
Everyone is afraid of "appearing gay" if they're caught glancing over at
another dude, and afraid of wanting to be looked at if they do undress
thereby again appearing "gay".
Ridiculous.
I don't believe all gyms are like this so it would seem that alot of
us still have the "pack" mentality and we all follow the herd. Especially
when dealing with a bunch of strangers.
I believe all this victorianism is ultimately unhealthy and keeps guys
separated out of unnecessary fear. Great friendships, and great
bonding could develop if the opposite were the case.
 

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If you are too shy for another guy to see your dick when you are young and physically active I cannot imagine the torment your elder self will have to deal with.

All guys check each other out. It is primal instinct. Just deal with it. And if you can't go home and shower. It would be one thing if a guy stares or pulls his cock or even worse pulls out his iPhone and snaps a pic. But a glance is nothing.
 

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i live in a residence of students and there are 2 showers available, with doors. 2 weeks ago i forgot to lock the door, and when i was already drying, a chinese collegue opened the door, and i was obviously naked. It was so funny to see how embaraced HE came. i thing the culture is very importance in this things of nudity
Yes, yes it is.
 

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If working out is the main event in a sports club, showing off at the locker room is the after party...... Members only! Cmon guys enjoy what you have and show it off while you can. At least that's what i do and yes i sooo much enjoy it...
 

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And what about dudes getting hard in the showers next to you? Specially when the gaydar says he's probably straight!

I found that people react surprisingly naturally to that.
Once, very recently, in 5 ou 6 young guys in the showers, 2 of them were hard and no one seemed to care. I would be terribly embarassed, and I'm gay!

I'm really not used to open showers and I'm always very afraid that inadvertedly I'll get hard (which actually happens naturally when I'm showering).. Any opinions? Experiences? Advices?

Hugz!
 

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Today I shaved my pubes (penis and balls) in the gym. There are many people doing that. And you, are you comfortable with that?


I depends on the type of gym locker room- if the locker room is populated by men - no kids - sure why not. But if the gym is like mine (Lifetime) it is family friendly so there are not just men in the locker room but kids with their dads as well, then no the action might not be adviseable from the stand point that it will cause the kids to ask their dads or you too many questions.
 

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i am a member at LifeTime as well- but my clubs all have family locker rooms, so we don't have that many young boys in any of our locker rooms...

my question would be the shower stalls- if your club has a private shower stall you basically can do anything you want- piss, jack and cum, or shave- and it's not like people can really say anything about it. If you have open gang showers your actions are much more open to inspection by all- and in that situation I think you have to 'go with the flow' and do as others do (or don't) in your particular area.