And you have a wife? Whole ass fucking weirdo.Hey, not sure if this is the right forum for this, but I wanted to share because it's an unfamiliar feeling for me and I was curious if anyone else has had a similar experience.
I'm pretty hung (about 8" and thick), and I'm used to being the biggest whoever my partner has had. Until recently, no woman has told me that they had been with a bigger guy, so it's been a source of pride for me. I consider myself pretty dominant and alpha and often fantasize about being the bull for couples. After catching up with my recent ex girlfriend though and hearing about her current man, that's all starting to change. The TLDR is that he is bigger than me and she admitted the sex is amazing, better than with me. No one has ever said that to me, and now it's giving me very strong cuckold feelings.
This ex (let's call her Lauren) and I dated for about 2 years. She's great, but we had opposite schedules and she ended up moving away for work, so we decided to split. We ended things on good terms and have kept in touch. Recently she brought up her boyfriend and I asked how things were going, and she said everything was great. I made a joking comment, hoping he wasn't another "Daniel" (an ex she had before me who she said had a small penis and came almost instantly). She replied and said "no, quite the opposite!!". So that piqued my interest. Here's how the convo went, but let me preface that she is not some sexual freak: she literally grew up on a farm and has the ultimate girl-next-door look. She got straight As in school and is super sweet and pretty shy. Kinda nerdy in a great way, but has a bangin body and an amazing bubble butt for a white girl. I was obsessed with it. Her current boyfriend is this ripped black guy that I think she met on a dating app. Anyways, here's how the convo went after she said "no, quite the opposite!!":
Me: "Oh, that's good! So he's big then?"
Lauren: "Ummm.... yes LOL"
Me: "Good for you! Not bigger than me I hope?? lol"
Lauren: <monkey covering mouth emoji>
Me: "Wow, good for you!"
Lauren: "Sorry, you asked!"
Me: "No, it's all good! You know I'm not the jealous type. Happy to hear you're getting the good stuff lol. So it sounds like the sex is good then?"
Lauren: "Its really good."
Me: "Awesome, I'm glad for you. I'm surprised you can take him if he's bigger than me!"
Lauren: "I know right?!"
Me: "How much bigger is he than me? Just curious"
Lauren: "Lol, why do you want to know?"
Me: "I dunno, it's kinda hot to think about"
Lauren: "Really? Why is that?"
(it took me a bit to figure out the best reply for this bc I didn't want to weird her out and I wanted her to keep talking)
Me: "Hard to explain! But it's hot to imagine you taking a really huge dick. That's probably weird for me to say lol. But part of it is also that I know you enjoyed mine, so you must really enjoy his, so it makes me happy that you're happy and having good sex."
Lauren: "Aww! That's not weird. It's actually pretty sweet!"
Lauren: "Yes, I do enjoy his. He's probably an inch or so bigger than you and maybe thicker too. And it curves in a way that feels amazing. It's also really pretty to look at (like yours!)"
Me: "Nice! Sounds like you hit the dick jackpot lol"
Lauren: "LOL I really did. And he really knows how to use it. I can't get enough lol"
Me: "That's so hot"
Lauren: "LOL you're funny. Are you sure you're OK with me saying things like that? I don't want to hurt feelings or make you jealous, you know I'm not like that. I'm only saying these things bc you asked!"
Me: "No, it's good, keep going! It's really hot to hear"
Lauren: "Lol are you getting turned on?"
Me: "Kinda, yeah!"
Lauren: "Really? You're so funny"
Me: <shrugging emoji>
Lauren: "but yeah, everything is good in the sex department."
Me: "Sounds like it, that's awesome. Sounds like some epic sex. Hope he gives it to you often!"
Lauren: "Almost every day, unless I'm too sore LOL. But even if I can't have sex, I at least will give him a BJ."
Lauren: "He tole me he wants a blowjob ever day and I think I've done it every day since. I actually really enjoy it. I like the challenge LOL"
Me: "Hot!! He's a lucky man..."
Lauren: "I'm lucky too though, for real. Sometimes I think I enjoy giving him head more than he does lol. Not that he doesn't like it, it's just that it turns me on to do it."
Me: "That's awesome. You think it turns you on because he's so big?"
Lauren: "Yeah, that's a big part of it. It's big but also beautiful. I get wet when I do it"
Lauren: "Sorry if that is TMI!! We can talk about something else if you want lol"
Me: "No, I appreciate you sharing this with me and love hearing about it! Thank you for being so open"
Lauren: "Thanks for being cool about it! You know I really enjoyed the sex we had too, right?"
Me: "I do, and I enjoyed it too, and you saying these things doesn't make me feel any different about anything, so we're all good."
Lauren: "OK cool. I'm happy to answer questions bc you seem to be enjoying it lol but let me know if I say something that hurts your feelings. I don't want that at all."
Me: "I know, and you're not at all, seriously. I'm really enjoying the convo."
Lauren: OK cool
Me: "So he asked to get a BJ every day and you get wet doing it, that is so hot."
Lauren: "Yeah, I often wake him up with one, first thing in the morning
Me: "What a way to start the day!!"
Lauren; "LOL, right?? But sometimes I stop before he cums because I want to have sex."
Me: "If you don't have sex, where does he cum?"
Lauren: "... I swallow it <monkey closing mouth emoji>"
Me: "Damn girl!! Amazing!! He is living the best life!"
(At this point I'm feeling some jealousy because she never swallowed me, ever, and she blew me maybe 2 times a month...But I'm not going to bring that up)
Lauren: LOL yup
Me: "Does he ask you to swallow it?"
Lauren: "No, actually. I just do it. I just kinda have an urge to do it and just go with it. I actually enjoy it."
Me: "That is so hot. I'm glad you are both benefiting from it and enjoying it."
Lauren:
Me: "Do you try to deepthroat it?"
Lauren: "I do, but I am not coming close lol. I practice though. He said he wants to train me lol."
Me: "Practice makes perfect!"
Lauren: "Lol yep! It's fun trying"
Me: "Damn, must be a hot sight. And the sex doesn't hurt?"
Lauren: "No, it feels amazing. He's gentle with me at first and then gets pretty dominant which I've found that I enjoy. Not like pain stuff, but he's strong and can toss me around lol"
Me: "Sounds like orgasms galore lol"
Lauren: "Seriously! I climax every time, and you know that is hard for me to do!"
(My jaw was on the ground at this point because her thing was that she had never cum from penetration - not with me, or with any guy before me. She would tell me she thought it was impossible for her. And now I'm hearing that she cums EVERY TIME with this guy....)
Me: "Amazing!! That is awesome, I'm so happy for you!!"
Lauren: "Thank you!! I'm happy too, you know I thought it would never happen."
Me: "What do you think it is that did it, the size?"
Lauren: "The size is a big part. The shape, how he uses it, I dunno... whatever it is, it works lol"
Me: "That's awesome, I'm glad to hear it!"
Lauren: "I even squirt sometimes!"
Me: "Woah!!"
(I am floored)
Lauren: "I know! I was so embarrassed when it happened the first time, I didn't know what was happening lol. Then it happened again and it would always coincide with a really big orgasm and I now can feel it coming. Crazy!!"
Me: "That is so hot. You must need to change your sheets often lol"
Lauren: "I do! We put an extra sheet down now LOL"
Me: "Lol amazing"
Me: "So this sounds like some best-ever type sex here. Is he a porn star or something??"
Lauren: "It really is. Nope, just a regular guy!"
(Hearing it's the best sex ever for her gave me a feeling in the pit of my stomach, but I was also rock hard)
Me: "Well you better not let him go, it sounds like you picked a winner there"
Lauren: "Oh, he's not going anywhere lol. I want to have sex with him for the rest of my life, I literally can't get enough lol. It's insane."
Lauren: ""That's another part of why I suck him every day, I want to keep him happy lol"
Me: "Damn, that's hot. I bet you guys look insanely hot having sex"
Lauren: "I think we do
Me: "He must love your ass. Is he obsessed with it like I was?"
Lauren: "Oh yeah lol. He's always grabbing it or smacking it. He wants me to wear booty shorts in the house all the time lol"
Me: "I don't blame him! Do you wear them?"
Lauren: "YupOr just revealing underwear or a thong"
Me: "Holy fuck this is so hot"
Lauren: "lol"
( actually came at this point. I was so hard and was stroking in between texts, and the thought of my sweet, dorky ex walking around in booty shorts for this ripped black guy with a huge cock was too much. I busted an enormous load. Then I started coming down and the I felt a little awkward for asking all those questions, so I felt I should wrap it up. I basically told her that I should go, and thanks for sharing, and she said thanks for being cool and she asked me things about my life and my wife and we chatted a little longer about normal stuff.
Ever since, all I've been fantasizing about it the two of them together. Her cumming, squirting, swallowing his cum, worshipping his cock. I even think about this guy fucking my wife. Like, I have an urge to hand her over to him and let him make my wife's pussy his. Like he deserves her. I picture my wife and my ex sucking his cock together. I picture my wife walking around in booty shorts for him. Her sitting on his lap and kissing him while she strokes his cock. I've been watching more cuckold porn and I never used to. It's like I've gone from a "bull" to a "cuckold" after a single text conversation. I'm feeling submissive, especially towards this guy who I've never met. It's a wild feeling that I'm not used to. Has anyone else experienced something like this? Am I crazy for feeling this way? Is this a phase, or do you think this was something that's been inside me that just got unlocked?
Thanks for reading this wall of text!
Ex gf's current boyfriend is bigger than me, and it's stirring something inside me
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longstroke7
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Glad i wasn't the only one who thought this
longstroke7
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You have a wife and you're worried about your ex being pounded by a man with a bigger cock?
You should be ashamed of yourself. I hope your wife finds out.
You should be ashamed of yourself. I hope your wife finds out.
i don't know about ashamed
but clearly if he has a partner he should speak to her and care about her only
for exemple i have my lover (future wife) she forbids me to have contact with my ex but i clearly understand it now. when you love someone you don't go around your ex and care
past is past and yes he should put his energy to please his partner and make his wife happy
but that could be seen as morale or love
i guess the person here having more a need for sexual insurance he is big and exceptional
this is very man issue
Yeah, no way for you to know for sure, and really really no way for us to know, but it kinda seems like she was making up a big story.
Because I'm too lazy to read the whole conversation, let me ask you this:
did you personally see the dick to say he is bigger than yours? did she use a measuring tape side by side your dick and his dick?
And why does it matter to you if your ex ended up with a bigger dick guy? Your relationship is over, what she does has nothing to do with you.
did you personally see the dick to say he is bigger than yours? did she use a measuring tape side by side your dick and his dick?
And why does it matter to you if your ex ended up with a bigger dick guy? Your relationship is over, what she does has nothing to do with you.
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I think that's pretty natural - we can all recap on memories when they're triggered...
Without knowing you, I think it is - you comments on "ripped black guy" and "amazing bubble butt for a white girl". I might be painting with a too wide brush now, but this is weird for those of us living outside the US. You guys always sees colour instead of personality.
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My story is similar, yet opposite in ways and I'm going to share it anyway. I was married to the same woman for a long time, and we had a family. After years of not getting along we finally split and went separate ways. A while after the divorce she began seeing a local guy at my place of employment. I knew of him but didn't know him personally. After they dated a while, he started calling me to talk about her, believe it or not- (she was crazy to say the least and had began messing with his mind.) One particular night he called and was quite drunk. We talked about all kinds of things then he asked about me- rather, why I seemed to be having trouble dating. In his slightly comical drunken state he said man, you are so good-looking and shouldn't have any trouble finding a woman to date. He didn't know the truth about me, lol. But, I was flattered to hear my ex's man tell me I was good looking. Later in the conversation that was somewhat filled with compliments about me, he revealed that she had told him once that my dick was a lot bigger than his. Ha.. this made my day, even though I wasn't putting him down in my mind. I'm thinking, here's my ex-wife's lover drunk on the phone telling me she told him my dick as a lot bigger than his. What a mind trip, lol.
What would have been hotter was if he'd ended up being bi and he and I had hooked up later. I had a slightly different situation like that come my way once and it was a true mind trip, even though the hook up never happened.
What would have been hotter was if he'd ended up being bi and he and I had hooked up later. I had a slightly different situation like that come my way once and it was a true mind trip, even though the hook up never happened.
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This makes me wish i wasn't American. Racial issues make everything awful, especially dating.
Yeah, except he’s clearly not even close to 8”. Far from a small dick or anything but going by some of his pics, not a chance. The bigger issue is he’s a race obsessed weirdo.
It may be unfamiliar to you, but he's looking for answers.
Any analysis by a layman or a therapist would require knowing details, no matter how tedious.
Cannot relate to your cuckold fantasy and sadly most cuck porn is MFM. Personally, I wish there was far more FMF cuck fantasies in porn, where the woman gets off on watching her man and her best friend, for example.
To your point about suddenly being open to a new kink in your own love life, I have a personal anecdote to support this, albeit from the woman's perspective, about the flexible nature of one's own sexual preferences and turn-ons.
Years ago I was involved with, and loved, a very jealous woman, her name was K. Back then i had been taking a introductory acting class. One day during class, one student was asked by the instructor to play out an improvised scene where she was to, among other emotions, get aroused by an ordinary a brick wall.
Afterwards, I was telling K about what happened, watching this silly yet steamy moment, and what a great a job my fellow student did, and how hot she had been able to make it, off the cuff, in front of a diverse group of students.
Then, as a joke, I wondered out loud, teasing K, about my having an opportunity of having a kissing scene with that classmate. Fully expecting K's jealous reaction, she surprised me and paused, and then shared that the thought of sitting back and watching me kiss another woman passionately, kind of turned her on.
We never explored those ideas further, but what I learned at that moment was that people's turn-ons are much more flexible and dynamic than one might think.
To your point about suddenly being open to a new kink in your own love life, I have a personal anecdote to support this, albeit from the woman's perspective, about the flexible nature of one's own sexual preferences and turn-ons.
Years ago I was involved with, and loved, a very jealous woman, her name was K. Back then i had been taking a introductory acting class. One day during class, one student was asked by the instructor to play out an improvised scene where she was to, among other emotions, get aroused by an ordinary a brick wall.
Afterwards, I was telling K about what happened, watching this silly yet steamy moment, and what a great a job my fellow student did, and how hot she had been able to make it, off the cuff, in front of a diverse group of students.
Then, as a joke, I wondered out loud, teasing K, about my having an opportunity of having a kissing scene with that classmate. Fully expecting K's jealous reaction, she surprised me and paused, and then shared that the thought of sitting back and watching me kiss another woman passionately, kind of turned her on.
We never explored those ideas further, but what I learned at that moment was that people's turn-ons are much more flexible and dynamic than one might think.
there is a treason she is your ex... you gay boss.Hey, not sure if this is the right forum for this, but I wanted to share because it's an unfamiliar feeling for me and I was curious if anyone else has had a similar experience.
I'm pretty hung (about 8" and thick), and I'm used to being the biggest whoever my partner has had. Until recently, no woman has told me that they had been with a bigger guy, so it's been a source of pride for me. I consider myself pretty dominant and alpha and often fantasize about being the bull for couples. After catching up with my recent ex girlfriend though and hearing about her current man, that's all starting to change. The TLDR is that he is bigger than me and she admitted the sex is amazing, better than with me. No one has ever said that to me, and now it's giving me very strong cuckold feelings.
This ex (let's call her Lauren) and I dated for about 2 years. She's great, but we had opposite schedules and she ended up moving away for work, so we decided to split. We ended things on good terms and have kept in touch. Recently she brought up her boyfriend and I asked how things were going, and she said everything was great. I made a joking comment, hoping he wasn't another "Daniel" (an ex she had before me who she said had a small penis and came almost instantly). She replied and said "no, quite the opposite!!". So that piqued my interest. Here's how the convo went, but let me preface that she is not some sexual freak: she literally grew up on a farm and has the ultimate girl-next-door look. She got straight As in school and is super sweet and pretty shy. Kinda nerdy in a great way, but has a bangin body and an amazing bubble butt for a white girl. I was obsessed with it. Her current boyfriend is this ripped black guy that I think she met on a dating app. Anyways, here's how the convo went after she said "no, quite the opposite!!":
Me: "Oh, that's good! So he's big then?"
Lauren: "Ummm.... yes LOL"
Me: "Good for you! Not bigger than me I hope?? lol"
Lauren: <monkey covering mouth emoji>
Me: "Wow, good for you!"
Lauren: "Sorry, you asked!"
Me: "No, it's all good! You know I'm not the jealous type. Happy to hear you're getting the good stuff lol. So it sounds like the sex is good then?"
Lauren: "Its really good."
Me: "Awesome, I'm glad for you. I'm surprised you can take him if he's bigger than me!"
Lauren: "I know right?!"
Me: "How much bigger is he than me? Just curious"
Lauren: "Lol, why do you want to know?"
Me: "I dunno, it's kinda hot to think about"
Lauren: "Really? Why is that?"
(it took me a bit to figure out the best reply for this bc I didn't want to weird her out and I wanted her to keep talking)
Me: "Hard to explain! But it's hot to imagine you taking a really huge dick. That's probably weird for me to say lol. But part of it is also that I know you enjoyed mine, so you must really enjoy his, so it makes me happy that you're happy and having good sex."
Lauren: "Aww! That's not weird. It's actually pretty sweet!"
Lauren: "Yes, I do enjoy his. He's probably an inch or so bigger than you and maybe thicker too. And it curves in a way that feels amazing. It's also really pretty to look at (like yours!)"
Me: "Nice! Sounds like you hit the dick jackpot lol"
Lauren: "LOL I really did. And he really knows how to use it. I can't get enough lol"
Me: "That's so hot"
Lauren: "LOL you're funny. Are you sure you're OK with me saying things like that? I don't want to hurt feelings or make you jealous, you know I'm not like that. I'm only saying these things bc you asked!"
Me: "No, it's good, keep going! It's really hot to hear"
Lauren: "Lol are you getting turned on?"
Me: "Kinda, yeah!"
Lauren: "Really? You're so funny"
Me: <shrugging emoji>
Lauren: "but yeah, everything is good in the sex department."
Me: "Sounds like it, that's awesome. Sounds like some epic sex. Hope he gives it to you often!"
Lauren: "Almost every day, unless I'm too sore LOL. But even if I can't have sex, I at least will give him a BJ."
Lauren: "He tole me he wants a blowjob ever day and I think I've done it every day since. I actually really enjoy it. I like the challenge LOL"
Me: "Hot!! He's a lucky man..."
Lauren: "I'm lucky too though, for real. Sometimes I think I enjoy giving him head more than he does lol. Not that he doesn't like it, it's just that it turns me on to do it."
Me: "That's awesome. You think it turns you on because he's so big?"
Lauren: "Yeah, that's a big part of it. It's big but also beautiful. I get wet when I do it"
Lauren: "Sorry if that is TMI!! We can talk about something else if you want lol"
Me: "No, I appreciate you sharing this with me and love hearing about it! Thank you for being so open"
Lauren: "Thanks for being cool about it! You know I really enjoyed the sex we had too, right?"
Me: "I do, and I enjoyed it too, and you saying these things doesn't make me feel any different about anything, so we're all good."
Lauren: "OK cool. I'm happy to answer questions bc you seem to be enjoying it lol but let me know if I say something that hurts your feelings. I don't want that at all."
Me: "I know, and you're not at all, seriously. I'm really enjoying the convo."
Lauren: OK cool
Me: "So he asked to get a BJ every day and you get wet doing it, that is so hot."
Lauren: "Yeah, I often wake him up with one, first thing in the morning
Me: "What a way to start the day!!"
Lauren; "LOL, right?? But sometimes I stop before he cums because I want to have sex."
Me: "If you don't have sex, where does he cum?"
Lauren: "... I swallow it <monkey closing mouth emoji>"
Me: "Damn girl!! Amazing!! He is living the best life!"
(At this point I'm feeling some jealousy because she never swallowed me, ever, and she blew me maybe 2 times a month...But I'm not going to bring that up)
Lauren: LOL yup
Me: "Does he ask you to swallow it?"
Lauren: "No, actually. I just do it. I just kinda have an urge to do it and just go with it. I actually enjoy it."
Me: "That is so hot. I'm glad you are both benefiting from it and enjoying it."
Lauren:
Me: "Do you try to deepthroat it?"
Lauren: "I do, but I am not coming close lol. I practice though. He said he wants to train me lol."
Me: "Practice makes perfect!"
Lauren: "Lol yep! It's fun trying"
Me: "Damn, must be a hot sight. And the sex doesn't hurt?"
Lauren: "No, it feels amazing. He's gentle with me at first and then gets pretty dominant which I've found that I enjoy. Not like pain stuff, but he's strong and can toss me around lol"
Me: "Sounds like orgasms galore lol"
Lauren: "Seriously! I climax every time, and you know that is hard for me to do!"
(My jaw was on the ground at this point because her thing was that she had never cum from penetration - not with me, or with any guy before me. She would tell me she thought it was impossible for her. And now I'm hearing that she cums EVERY TIME with this guy....)
Me: "Amazing!! That is awesome, I'm so happy for you!!"
Lauren: "Thank you!! I'm happy too, you know I thought it would never happen."
Me: "What do you think it is that did it, the size?"
Lauren: "The size is a big part. The shape, how he uses it, I dunno... whatever it is, it works lol"
Me: "That's awesome, I'm glad to hear it!"
Lauren: "I even squirt sometimes!"
Me: "Woah!!"
(I am floored)
Lauren: "I know! I was so embarrassed when it happened the first time, I didn't know what was happening lol. Then it happened again and it would always coincide with a really big orgasm and I now can feel it coming. Crazy!!"
Me: "That is so hot. You must need to change your sheets often lol"
Lauren: "I do! We put an extra sheet down now LOL"
Me: "Lol amazing"
Me: "So this sounds like some best-ever type sex here. Is he a porn star or something??"
Lauren: "It really is. Nope, just a regular guy!"
(Hearing it's the best sex ever for her gave me a feeling in the pit of my stomach, but I was also rock hard)
Me: "Well you better not let him go, it sounds like you picked a winner there"
Lauren: "Oh, he's not going anywhere lol. I want to have sex with him for the rest of my life, I literally can't get enough lol. It's insane."
Lauren: ""That's another part of why I suck him every day, I want to keep him happy lol"
Me: "Damn, that's hot. I bet you guys look insanely hot having sex"
Lauren: "I think we do
Me: "He must love your ass. Is he obsessed with it like I was?"
Lauren: "Oh yeah lol. He's always grabbing it or smacking it. He wants me to wear booty shorts in the house all the time lol"
Me: "I don't blame him! Do you wear them?"
Lauren: "Yup
Me: "Holy fuck this is so hot"
Lauren: "lol"
( actually came at this point. I was so hard and was stroking in between texts, and the thought of my sweet, dorky ex walking around in booty shorts for this ripped black guy with a huge cock was too much. I busted an enormous load. Then I started coming down and the I felt a little awkward for asking all those questions, so I felt I should wrap it up. I basically told her that I should go, and thanks for sharing, and she said thanks for being cool and she asked me things about my life and my wife and we chatted a little longer about normal stuff.
Ever since, all I've been fantasizing about it the two of them together. Her cumming, squirting, swallowing his cum, worshipping his cock. I even think about this guy fucking my wife. Like, I have an urge to hand her over to him and let him make my wife's pussy his. Like he deserves her. I picture my wife and my ex sucking his cock together. I picture my wife walking around in booty shorts for him. Her sitting on his lap and kissing him while she strokes his cock. I've been watching more cuckold porn and I never used to. It's like I've gone from a "bull" to a "cuckold" after a single text conversation. I'm feeling submissive, especially towards this guy who I've never met. It's a wild feeling that I'm not used to. Has anyone else experienced something like this? Am I crazy for feeling this way? Is this a phase, or do you think this was something that's been inside me that just got unlocked?
Thanks for reading this wall of text!
I think large cocks are sexy in an sph related way. I recall the first time one of my girlfriends saw my tiny penis with another guy's massive one pushed up against it. I almost came from the high thrill level.
One thing I like about small cocks is how they stand at attention when erect. Bigger cocks can be at half mast or point down while hard
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