Ex gf's current boyfriend is bigger than me, and it's stirring something inside me

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I don’t know how true OP’s particular tale is, but I don’t think interest in the cock size of someone who is now with your ex is that unusual if you see your cock size as a big part of your identity (either because you think you’re big, or because you are ashamed at being small). But usually it’s the sort of interest that only comes out when you’ve had a lot to drink – I can’t imagine sending messages to an ex about it!

One of the dudes on my rugby team (who has a pretty small dick by any standards) got cheated on by his gf with a guy on another team – and she then dumped him and moved in with this guy. When we were having a drunken conversation one time and I mentioned I had been at uni with this guy, he got pretty obsessed with getting me to tell him whether he was hung or not. Eventually I confirmed that, yeah, he was, really quite hung. My teammate was definitely a weird combo of deflated and turned on at hearing that. Turned out his gf had been telling him she was absolutely fine with his wee knob and that it was the perfect size for her – and then ditched him the minute a guy with a massive log came along :joy: Made me laugh, but I absolutely reckon my teammate knocked one out thinking about his ex getting railed by a beast of a cock the minute he got home.
A girlfriend I had a relationship with for about 4 years or so had admitted that I had a smaller penis than any guy She had been with. She also said that size didnt matter. Turned out that it actually did because she was having casual sex with other ( better endowed) guys for sometime while we were together. She confessed that she very much enjoyed our relationship in general but was disatisfied with the sex part. This actually kick started my sph fetish as I found it strangely arousing along with the deflation and disappointment of her infidelity and disatisfaction.
 

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More is made of size than it is in reality. I used to have 8.5. A perfect porn dick. I got injured 15 years ago and lost down to around 5". I had some of the best sex of my life with my smaller penis. I've learned to live with it even as a sex worker. Good looks don't make people happier. Look at the porn stars and models who kill themselves. Having a big dick doesn't make your sex that much better.
 

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I know Men have a tendency of digging their own graves with this line of questioning, but you hit the center of the earth and burned slow like the Terminator in the lava

I can't help but think of the thumbs up gesture and ask if that's really his thumb?!?
 
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This is super hot to me. I would have done the same thing re milk the chat as long as possible on that topic and cum while in the process of it all. Just awesome. This is coming from a guy that enjoys watching his wife with other men and imagines her sucking and fucking other men every day. We are not a true cuckhold couple at all, at least not in the true definition of a cuck situation. While we do bring other men and women into the bedroom, there is no humiliation, degradation, or anything like that at all. We just like sharing and watching each other. But, for me, there is nothing hotter than watching Mrs. Random in action. And regarding the size thing, I do not have the biggest cock in the world, nor the smallest, and I have never had any complaints, but it is a real big turn-on to watch Mrs. Random enjoy a bigger one. As I have posted on other forums here on this site, I recently bought Mrs. Random an exact replica dildo of Alberto Blanco's cock, and it is huge, and she loved it, and watching her take it inside of her was the utmost turn-on for me. What was the hottest, was her enthusiasm to get it inside of her after I surprised her with it. Even before buying her the big toy, I loved watching videos of Alberto and imagining that my wife was the woman in the scenes. And it's even hotter to do that now because I have seen her take an actual mold of his massive cock inside of her. In fact, that is what I am going to do right now...turn on a video of Alberto fucking some hot babe and I'm going imagine her being my wife. Thanks for the great post and sharing your experience.
 

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A girlfriend I had a relationship with for about 4 years or so had admitted that I had a smaller penis than any guy She had been with. She also said that size didnt matter. Turned out that it actually did because she was having casual sex with other ( better endowed) guys for sometime while we were together. She confessed that she very much enjoyed our relationship in general but was disatisfied with the sex part. This actually kick started my sph fetish as I found it strangely arousing along with the deflation and disappointment of her infidelity and disatisfaction.
I think its quite a common reaction to be honest – few men don’t fantasise about having a bigger dick (especially those who are small) and so the thought of a bigger man fucking your gf is arousing from a couple of perspectives: from from imagining her being fucked by a big cock, and secondly from imagining yourself being that stud with the massive beast of a penis.

A SPH fetish is just sort of the next natural step on from that, as a way of psychologically coping with your deficiencies, and the realisation that few women don’t enjoy large cocks to at least some extent, no matter what they might claim.
 

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Hey, not sure if this is the right forum for this, but I wanted to share because it's an unfamiliar feeling for me and I was curious if anyone else has had a similar experience.

I'm pretty hung (about 8" and thick), and I'm used to being the biggest whoever my partner has had. Until recently, no woman has told me that they had been with a bigger guy, so it's been a source of pride for me. I consider myself pretty dominant and alpha and often fantasize about being the bull for couples. After catching up with my recent ex girlfriend though and hearing about her current man, that's all starting to change. The TLDR is that he is bigger than me and she admitted the sex is amazing, better than with me. No one has ever said that to me, and now it's giving me very strong cuckold feelings.

This ex (let's call her Lauren) and I dated for about 2 years. She's great, but we had opposite schedules and she ended up moving away for work, so we decided to split. We ended things on good terms and have kept in touch. Recently she brought up her boyfriend and I asked how things were going, and she said everything was great. I made a joking comment, hoping he wasn't another "Daniel" (an ex she had before me who she said had a small penis and came almost instantly). She replied and said "no, quite the opposite!!". So that piqued my interest. Here's how the convo went, but let me preface that she is not some sexual freak: she literally grew up on a farm and has the ultimate girl-next-door look. She got straight As in school and is super sweet and pretty shy. Kinda nerdy in a great way, but has a bangin body and an amazing bubble butt for a white girl. I was obsessed with it. Her current boyfriend is this ripped black guy that I think she met on a dating app. Anyways, here's how the convo went after she said "no, quite the opposite!!":

Me: "Oh, that's good! So he's big then?"
Lauren: "Ummm.... yes LOL"
Me: "Good for you! Not bigger than me I hope?? lol"
Lauren: <monkey covering mouth emoji>
Me: "Wow, good for you!"
Lauren: "Sorry, you asked!"
Me: "No, it's all good! You know I'm not the jealous type. Happy to hear you're getting the good stuff lol. So it sounds like the sex is good then?"
Lauren: "Its really good."
Me: "Awesome, I'm glad for you. I'm surprised you can take him if he's bigger than me!"
Lauren: "I know right?!"
Me: "How much bigger is he than me? Just curious"
Lauren: "Lol, why do you want to know?"
Me: "I dunno, it's kinda hot to think about"
Lauren: "Really? Why is that?"
(it took me a bit to figure out the best reply for this bc I didn't want to weird her out and I wanted her to keep talking)
Me: "Hard to explain! But it's hot to imagine you taking a really huge dick. That's probably weird for me to say lol. But part of it is also that I know you enjoyed mine, so you must really enjoy his, so it makes me happy that you're happy and having good sex."
Lauren: "Aww! That's not weird. It's actually pretty sweet!"
Lauren: "Yes, I do enjoy his. He's probably an inch or so bigger than you and maybe thicker too. And it curves in a way that feels amazing. It's also really pretty to look at (like yours!)"
Me: "Nice! Sounds like you hit the dick jackpot lol"
Lauren: "LOL I really did. And he really knows how to use it. I can't get enough lol"
Me: "That's so hot"
Lauren: "LOL you're funny. Are you sure you're OK with me saying things like that? I don't want to hurt feelings or make you jealous, you know I'm not like that. I'm only saying these things bc you asked!"
Me: "No, it's good, keep going! It's really hot to hear"
Lauren: "Lol are you getting turned on?"
Me: "Kinda, yeah!"
Lauren: "Really? You're so funny"
Me: <shrugging emoji>
Lauren: "but yeah, everything is good in the sex department."
Me: "Sounds like it, that's awesome. Sounds like some epic sex. Hope he gives it to you often!"
Lauren: "Almost every day, unless I'm too sore LOL. But even if I can't have sex, I at least will give him a BJ."
Lauren: "He tole me he wants a blowjob ever day and I think I've done it every day since. I actually really enjoy it. I like the challenge LOL"
Me: "Hot!! He's a lucky man..."
Lauren: "I'm lucky too though, for real. Sometimes I think I enjoy giving him head more than he does lol. Not that he doesn't like it, it's just that it turns me on to do it."
Me: "That's awesome. You think it turns you on because he's so big?"
Lauren: "Yeah, that's a big part of it. It's big but also beautiful. I get wet when I do it"
Lauren: "Sorry if that is TMI!! We can talk about something else if you want lol"
Me: "No, I appreciate you sharing this with me and love hearing about it! Thank you for being so open"
Lauren: "Thanks for being cool about it! You know I really enjoyed the sex we had too, right?"
Me: "I do, and I enjoyed it too, and you saying these things doesn't make me feel any different about anything, so we're all good."
Lauren: "OK cool. I'm happy to answer questions bc you seem to be enjoying it lol but let me know if I say something that hurts your feelings. I don't want that at all."
Me: "I know, and you're not at all, seriously. I'm really enjoying the convo."
Lauren: OK cool :)
Me: "So he asked to get a BJ every day and you get wet doing it, that is so hot."
Lauren: "Yeah, I often wake him up with one, first thing in the morning :)
Me: "What a way to start the day!!"
Lauren; "LOL, right?? But sometimes I stop before he cums because I want to have sex."
Me: "If you don't have sex, where does he cum?"
Lauren: "... I swallow it <monkey closing mouth emoji>"
Me: "Damn girl!! Amazing!! He is living the best life!"
(At this point I'm feeling some jealousy because she never swallowed me, ever, and she blew me maybe 2 times a month...But I'm not going to bring that up)
Lauren: LOL yup
Me: "Does he ask you to swallow it?"
Lauren: "No, actually. I just do it. I just kinda have an urge to do it and just go with it. I actually enjoy it."
Me: "That is so hot. I'm glad you are both benefiting from it and enjoying it."
Lauren: :)
Me: "Do you try to deepthroat it?"
Lauren: "I do, but I am not coming close lol. I practice though. He said he wants to train me lol."
Me: "Practice makes perfect!"
Lauren: "Lol yep! It's fun trying"
Me: "Damn, must be a hot sight. And the sex doesn't hurt?"
Lauren: "No, it feels amazing. He's gentle with me at first and then gets pretty dominant which I've found that I enjoy. Not like pain stuff, but he's strong and can toss me around lol"
Me: "Sounds like orgasms galore lol"
Lauren: "Seriously! I climax every time, and you know that is hard for me to do!"
(My jaw was on the ground at this point because her thing was that she had never cum from penetration - not with me, or with any guy before me. She would tell me she thought it was impossible for her. And now I'm hearing that she cums EVERY TIME with this guy....)
Me: "Amazing!! That is awesome, I'm so happy for you!!"
Lauren: "Thank you!! I'm happy too, you know I thought it would never happen."
Me: "What do you think it is that did it, the size?"
Lauren: "The size is a big part. The shape, how he uses it, I dunno... whatever it is, it works lol"
Me: "That's awesome, I'm glad to hear it!"
Lauren: "I even squirt sometimes!"
Me: "Woah!!"
(I am floored)
Lauren: "I know! I was so embarrassed when it happened the first time, I didn't know what was happening lol. Then it happened again and it would always coincide with a really big orgasm and I now can feel it coming. Crazy!!"
Me: "That is so hot. You must need to change your sheets often lol"
Lauren: "I do! We put an extra sheet down now LOL"
Me: "Lol amazing"
Me: "So this sounds like some best-ever type sex here. Is he a porn star or something??"
Lauren: "It really is. Nope, just a regular guy!"
(Hearing it's the best sex ever for her gave me a feeling in the pit of my stomach, but I was also rock hard)
Me: "Well you better not let him go, it sounds like you picked a winner there"
Lauren: "Oh, he's not going anywhere lol. I want to have sex with him for the rest of my life, I literally can't get enough lol. It's insane."
Lauren: ""That's another part of why I suck him every day, I want to keep him happy lol"
Me: "Damn, that's hot. I bet you guys look insanely hot having sex"
Lauren: "I think we do ;)
Me: "He must love your ass. Is he obsessed with it like I was?"
Lauren: "Oh yeah lol. He's always grabbing it or smacking it. He wants me to wear booty shorts in the house all the time lol"
Me: "I don't blame him! Do you wear them?"
Lauren: "Yup :) Or just revealing underwear or a thong"
Me: "Holy fuck this is so hot"
Lauren: "lol"

( actually came at this point. I was so hard and was stroking in between texts, and the thought of my sweet, dorky ex walking around in booty shorts for this ripped black guy with a huge cock was too much. I busted an enormous load. Then I started coming down and the I felt a little awkward for asking all those questions, so I felt I should wrap it up. I basically told her that I should go, and thanks for sharing, and she said thanks for being cool and she asked me things about my life and my wife and we chatted a little longer about normal stuff.

Ever since, all I've been fantasizing about it the two of them together. Her cumming, squirting, swallowing his cum, worshipping his cock. I even think about this guy fucking my wife. Like, I have an urge to hand her over to him and let him make my wife's pussy his. Like he deserves her. I picture my wife and my ex sucking his cock together. I picture my wife walking around in booty shorts for him. Her sitting on his lap and kissing him while she strokes his cock. I've been watching more cuckold porn and I never used to. It's like I've gone from a "bull" to a "cuckold" after a single text conversation. I'm feeling submissive, especially towards this guy who I've never met. It's a wild feeling that I'm not used to. Has anyone else experienced something like this? Am I crazy for feeling this way? Is this a phase, or do you think this was something that's been inside me that just got unlocked?

Thanks for reading this wall of text!
Well... Lets be honest. If you have to think about how alpha you are than probably you are not, just a little boy with big dick. You have a big cock, so? This is only what you are proud of? As a woman i can buy a meter long dildo... Yes, you are pretty crazy if thats that big issue for you and maybe you should get therapy because something else behind of that not just the size. This story is just pitty and akward.
 

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I think its quite a common reaction to be honest – few men don’t fantasise about having a bigger dick (especially those who are small) and so the thought of a bigger man fucking your gf is arousing from a couple of perspectives: from from imagining her being fucked by a big cock, and secondly from imagining yourself being that stud with the massive beast of a penis.

A SPH fetish is just sort of the next natural step on from that, as a way of psychologically coping with your deficiencies, and the realisation that few women don’t enjoy large cocks to at least some extent, no matter what they might claim.
I am certain (from my own perspective at least) that sph is a compensatory thing that developed from feelings and experiences of inadequacy turning a perceived negative into a positive. Despite my underendowment I have actually had relations with a fair number of women albeit most short term rather than longer term ( measured in days or weeks rather than months or years including a plethora of one night stands) I believe you are bang on when you suggest most women to some extent when it comes to size are a little more aroused by the allure of a larger rather than small penis.
Most women I have actually been with directly or indirectly espoused the 'size doesnt matter' theory but they just had never been with any guy who wasnt at least average ( girth is almost always the more important factor)
When women gossip with each other or engage in mixed company sex banter they never express a sexual desire for tiny dick guy nor boast that some guy or other has a small cock. I had one woman I was in a longish term relationship who regularily lied about my size to her female friends, relatives or acquaintances whilst others were bragging about the endowments of their significant others ( of course any of them could be overating as well. )
Anyway when all is said and done I have found unexpected benefits from having a tiny cock so the sph thing has been a blessing in disguise. Besides my longer term relationships have primarily been based on the non sexual compatibility.
 

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More is made of size than it is in reality. I used to have 8.5. A perfect porn dick. I got injured 15 years ago and lost down to around 5". I had some of the best sex of my life with my smaller penis. I've learned to live with it even as a sex worker. Good looks don't make people happier. Look at the porn stars and models who kill themselves. Having a big dick doesn't make your sex that much better.
With this you are right. I had a bout with Peyronie's Disease on 2006. I was measuring wrong from the side I was 7.25" because balls deep my skinny as could feel all the way to the back of her. Across the top almost six inches. 4.5" to mid shaft then a quick taper to almost 7 at the base. Gradual Upward curve to a drastic downward curve. It took a few years and some bag balm and lots of manipulation to straighten the curve out but was with 5" this was a devastating blow to the male pschycy. Over the years of not having sex due to the depression, it got down to smaller.... 4".... Well I've been slowly working it back up in length. It's due to the fact hardening was coming back due to not using it. good needs is that it's thicker than it was! I've tried to date but long hair and being short in stature are what makes it hard not penis size. In that I have gotten over the bullshit in my head. After all when I was six I was out performing the bigger guys. What most men don't realize is women don't a penis to get off. I've always had excellent skills with my fingers and tongue. The penis is just the bonus and there are lots of big guys out there who are big disappointments in the sack.

Size really isn't as important as sp e on here want to believe. You know who helped me realize this? The ladies right here on this sight. I tried the Peyronie's support forums. I tried a small penis support group these were like 15 years ago. It was just a bunch of tiny peckered people two pump chumps complaining about their perceived deficiencies. I found this place in 2010-11 I believe. This place helped me heal.

My marriage fell apart but it wasn't the fact of my penis. It was mi ex's mental and emotional abuse of all 4 of our kids. I I had stopped sleeping with her for a few years so my because I hated her. I still treated her way better than she did me, or our kids. I was already posting here and she found out and tried to cyber bully me here on penis size. Those who responded to her posts put her in her place right off the bat and she left here. I raised our two youngest on my own I own until they grew up.

Thank you, everyone who helped
 

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More is made of size than it is in reality. I used to have 8.5. A perfect porn dick. I got injured 15 years ago and lost down to around 5". I had some of the best sex of my life with my smaller penis. I've learned to live with it even as a sex worker. Good looks don't make people happier. Look at the porn stars and models who kill themselves. Having a big dick doesn't make your sex that much better.
With this you are right. I had a bout with Peyronie's Disease on 2006. I was measuring wrong from the side I was 7.25" because balls deep my skinny as could feel all the way to the back of her. Across the top almost six inches. 4.5" to mid shaft then a quick taper to almost 7 at the base. Gradual Upward curve to a drastic downward curve. It took a few years and some bag balm and lots of manipulation to straighten the curve out but was with 5" this was a devastating blow to the male pschycy. Over the years of not having sex due to the depression, it got down to smaller.... 4".... Well I've been slowly working it back up in length. It's due to the fact hardening was coming back due to not using it. good needs is that it's thicker than it was! I've tried to date but long hair and being short in stature are what makes it hard not penis size. In that I have gotten over the bullshit in my head. After all when I was six I was out performing the bigger guys. What most men don't realize is women don't a penis to get off. I've always had excellent skills with my fingers and tongue. The penis is just the bonus and there are lots of big guys out there who are big disappointments in the sack.

Size really isn't as important as sp e on here want to believe. You know who helped me realize this? The ladies right here on this sight. I tried the Peyronie's support forums. I tried a small penis support group these were like 15 years ago. It was just a bunch of tiny peckered people two pump chumps complaining about their perceived deficiencies. I found this place in 2010-11 I believe. This place helped me heal.

My marriage fell apart but it wasn't the fact of my penis. It was mi ex's mental and emotional abuse of all 4 of our kids. I I had stopped sleeping with her for a few years so my because I hated her. I still treated her way better than she did me, or our kids. I was already posting here and she found out and tried to cyber bully me here on penis size. Those who responded to her posts put her in her place right off the bat and she left here. I raised our two youngest on my own I own until they grew up.

Thank you, everyone who
 

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I should correct some of the above. I did stop having sex for a while out of the depression of Peyronie's effects on my body. Once I got over it the last three years I broke off intimacy again. She got us evicted from a place we had lived 14.5 years. We had nowhere to. I broke up with her but it took three years for to go away.... I'm too tolerant in the end I left her with the new apartment and got a different one with to two youngest kids get after her actions got CPS involved. Lime I said, a lot of people here helped me through a very hard part of my life.
 
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Her conversation with you reads like someone who knows your buttons and enjoys gently pressing them. You would do well to examine
(A) how your dick size is tied to your feeling of worth enough that someone can use that as a manipulation tool
(B) why you are talking about sex with an ex when you are married (this doesn't apply if this is a normal thing for your marriage, i.e. she does the same with her exes)
(C) You sound like you have some submission fantasies. Find a safe place to explore those.
 

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Hey, not sure if this is the right forum for this, but I wanted to share because it's an unfamiliar feeling for me and I was curious if anyone else has had a similar experience.

I'm pretty hung (about 8" and thick), and I'm used to being the biggest whoever my partner has had. Until recently, no woman has told me that they had been with a bigger guy, so it's been a source of pride for me. I consider myself pretty dominant and alpha and often fantasize about being the bull for couples. After catching up with my recent ex girlfriend though and hearing about her current man, that's all starting to change. The TLDR is that he is bigger than me and she admitted the sex is amazing, better than with me. No one has ever said that to me, and now it's giving me very strong cuckold feelings.

This ex (let's call her Lauren) and I dated for about 2 years. She's great, but we had opposite schedules and she ended up moving away for work, so we decided to split. We ended things on good terms and have kept in touch. Recently she brought up her boyfriend and I asked how things were going, and she said everything was great. I made a joking comment, hoping he wasn't another "Daniel" (an ex she had before me who she said had a small penis and came almost instantly). She replied and said "no, quite the opposite!!". So that piqued my interest. Here's how the convo went, but let me preface that she is not some sexual freak: she literally grew up on a farm and has the ultimate girl-next-door look. She got straight As in school and is super sweet and pretty shy. Kinda nerdy in a great way, but has a bangin body and an amazing bubble butt for a white girl. I was obsessed with it. Her current boyfriend is this ripped black guy that I think she met on a dating app. Anyways, here's how the convo went after she said "no, quite the opposite!!":

Me: "Oh, that's good! So he's big then?"
Lauren: "Ummm.... yes LOL"
Me: "Good for you! Not bigger than me I hope?? lol"
Lauren: <monkey covering mouth emoji>
Me: "Wow, good for you!"
Lauren: "Sorry, you asked!"
Me: "No, it's all good! You know I'm not the jealous type. Happy to hear you're getting the good stuff lol. So it sounds like the sex is good then?"
Lauren: "Its really good."
Me: "Awesome, I'm glad for you. I'm surprised you can take him if he's bigger than me!"
Lauren: "I know right?!"
Me: "How much bigger is he than me? Just curious"
Lauren: "Lol, why do you want to know?"
Me: "I dunno, it's kinda hot to think about"
Lauren: "Really? Why is that?"
(it took me a bit to figure out the best reply for this bc I didn't want to weird her out and I wanted her to keep talking)
Me: "Hard to explain! But it's hot to imagine you taking a really huge dick. That's probably weird for me to say lol. But part of it is also that I know you enjoyed mine, so you must really enjoy his, so it makes me happy that you're happy and having good sex."
Lauren: "Aww! That's not weird. It's actually pretty sweet!"
Lauren: "Yes, I do enjoy his. He's probably an inch or so bigger than you and maybe thicker too. And it curves in a way that feels amazing. It's also really pretty to look at (like yours!)"
Me: "Nice! Sounds like you hit the dick jackpot lol"
Lauren: "LOL I really did. And he really knows how to use it. I can't get enough lol"
Me: "That's so hot"
Lauren: "LOL you're funny. Are you sure you're OK with me saying things like that? I don't want to hurt feelings or make you jealous, you know I'm not like that. I'm only saying these things bc you asked!"
Me: "No, it's good, keep going! It's really hot to hear"
Lauren: "Lol are you getting turned on?"
Me: "Kinda, yeah!"
Lauren: "Really? You're so funny"
Me: <shrugging emoji>
Lauren: "but yeah, everything is good in the sex department."
Me: "Sounds like it, that's awesome. Sounds like some epic sex. Hope he gives it to you often!"
Lauren: "Almost every day, unless I'm too sore LOL. But even if I can't have sex, I at least will give him a BJ."
Lauren: "He tole me he wants a blowjob ever day and I think I've done it every day since. I actually really enjoy it. I like the challenge LOL"
Me: "Hot!! He's a lucky man..."
Lauren: "I'm lucky too though, for real. Sometimes I think I enjoy giving him head more than he does lol. Not that he doesn't like it, it's just that it turns me on to do it."
Me: "That's awesome. You think it turns you on because he's so big?"
Lauren: "Yeah, that's a big part of it. It's big but also beautiful. I get wet when I do it"
Lauren: "Sorry if that is TMI!! We can talk about something else if you want lol"
Me: "No, I appreciate you sharing this with me and love hearing about it! Thank you for being so open"
Lauren: "Thanks for being cool about it! You know I really enjoyed the sex we had too, right?"
Me: "I do, and I enjoyed it too, and you saying these things doesn't make me feel any different about anything, so we're all good."
Lauren: "OK cool. I'm happy to answer questions bc you seem to be enjoying it lol but let me know if I say something that hurts your feelings. I don't want that at all."
Me: "I know, and you're not at all, seriously. I'm really enjoying the convo."
Lauren: OK cool :)
Me: "So he asked to get a BJ every day and you get wet doing it, that is so hot."
Lauren: "Yeah, I often wake him up with one, first thing in the morning :)
Me: "What a way to start the day!!"
Lauren; "LOL, right?? But sometimes I stop before he cums because I want to have sex."
Me: "If you don't have sex, where does he cum?"
Lauren: "... I swallow it <monkey closing mouth emoji>"
Me: "Damn girl!! Amazing!! He is living the best life!"
(At this point I'm feeling some jealousy because she never swallowed me, ever, and she blew me maybe 2 times a month...But I'm not going to bring that up)
Lauren: LOL yup
Me: "Does he ask you to swallow it?"
Lauren: "No, actually. I just do it. I just kinda have an urge to do it and just go with it. I actually enjoy it."
Me: "That is so hot. I'm glad you are both benefiting from it and enjoying it."
Lauren: :)
Me: "Do you try to deepthroat it?"
Lauren: "I do, but I am not coming close lol. I practice though. He said he wants to train me lol."
Me: "Practice makes perfect!"
Lauren: "Lol yep! It's fun trying"
Me: "Damn, must be a hot sight. And the sex doesn't hurt?"
Lauren: "No, it feels amazing. He's gentle with me at first and then gets pretty dominant which I've found that I enjoy. Not like pain stuff, but he's strong and can toss me around lol"
Me: "Sounds like orgasms galore lol"
Lauren: "Seriously! I climax every time, and you know that is hard for me to do!"
(My jaw was on the ground at this point because her thing was that she had never cum from penetration - not with me, or with any guy before me. She would tell me she thought it was impossible for her. And now I'm hearing that she cums EVERY TIME with this guy....)
Me: "Amazing!! That is awesome, I'm so happy for you!!"
Lauren: "Thank you!! I'm happy too, you know I thought it would never happen."
Me: "What do you think it is that did it, the size?"
Lauren: "The size is a big part. The shape, how he uses it, I dunno... whatever it is, it works lol"
Me: "That's awesome, I'm glad to hear it!"
Lauren: "I even squirt sometimes!"
Me: "Woah!!"
(I am floored)
Lauren: "I know! I was so embarrassed when it happened the first time, I didn't know what was happening lol. Then it happened again and it would always coincide with a really big orgasm and I now can feel it coming. Crazy!!"
Me: "That is so hot. You must need to change your sheets often lol"
Lauren: "I do! We put an extra sheet down now LOL"
Me: "Lol amazing"
Me: "So this sounds like some best-ever type sex here. Is he a porn star or something??"
Lauren: "It really is. Nope, just a regular guy!"
(Hearing it's the best sex ever for her gave me a feeling in the pit of my stomach, but I was also rock hard)
Me: "Well you better not let him go, it sounds like you picked a winner there"
Lauren: "Oh, he's not going anywhere lol. I want to have sex with him for the rest of my life, I literally can't get enough lol. It's insane."
Lauren: ""That's another part of why I suck him every day, I want to keep him happy lol"
Me: "Damn, that's hot. I bet you guys look insanely hot having sex"
Lauren: "I think we do ;)
Me: "He must love your ass. Is he obsessed with it like I was?"
Lauren: "Oh yeah lol. He's always grabbing it or smacking it. He wants me to wear booty shorts in the house all the time lol"
Me: "I don't blame him! Do you wear them?"
Lauren: "Yup :) Or just revealing underwear or a thong"
Me: "Holy fuck this is so hot"
Lauren: "lol"

( actually came at this point. I was so hard and was stroking in between texts, and the thought of my sweet, dorky ex walking around in booty shorts for this ripped black guy with a huge cock was too much. I busted an enormous load. Then I started coming down and the I felt a little awkward for asking all those questions, so I felt I should wrap it up. I basically told her that I should go, and thanks for sharing, and she said thanks for being cool and she asked me things about my life and my wife and we chatted a little longer about normal stuff.

Ever since, all I've been fantasizing about it the two of them together. Her cumming, squirting, swallowing his cum, worshipping his cock. I even think about this guy fucking my wife. Like, I have an urge to hand her over to him and let him make my wife's pussy his. Like he deserves her. I picture my wife and my ex sucking his cock together. I picture my wife walking around in booty shorts for him. Her sitting on his lap and kissing him while she strokes his cock. I've been watching more cuckold porn and I never used to. It's like I've gone from a "bull" to a "cuckold" after a single text conversation. I'm feeling submissive, especially towards this guy who I've never met. It's a wild feeling that I'm not used to. Has anyone else experienced something like this? Am I crazy for feeling this way? Is this a phase, or do you think this was something that's been inside me that just got unlocked?

Thanks for reading this wall of text!
Haha... she fucked u up... and btw, shes lying, she was doing it for the sense of kink and to get u a lil jealous
 
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Dicks come in all shape of size.
You should be proud having a small or big one, cut or uncut, thick or thin...
When you're fine with the person you love, the dick shouldn't be a problem because there's so much than just a dick in a relationship...
 
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I had an ex girlfriend who used to love to tell me about her past boyfriends, who all apparently had much larger dicks than mine.
One time she got very graphic and described how much she enjoyed and missed having a big thick cock filling her up. She never really went down on me very much, but she told me several instances of feasting on his huge cock, and getting blasted in the face of the powerful irruption of cum.
I could tell she was rubbing it in, but strangely it turned me on.
For weeks I fantasized about her ex-boyfriend’s big cock while I was fucking her. Thinking about how big it must have looked in her little hand and imagining the look on her face while she rides a cock, she can barely take.

I still think about his dick a lot lol
 

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7" is 15%
8" is 3%
9" is 0.07%.
10" is 0.0001%

In a moderately large city of 250,000 people, roughly 73% in the US are 18 to 40 years old. 49% are male. When you run the numbers that gives you...

13.4K men with 7"
2.6K men with 8"
62 with 9"
0 with 10"

Big penises are more common than people's think. The above is just in one mid-level city. In a large metropolitan area with millions of people, well...

Case in point, Miami metro area has 6.138M people. In an area of that size that gives you

329K men with 7"
65.8K men with 8"
1.5K with 9"
219 with 10"
I think you got your decimals wrong with the Miami example:
2,195,563 men between ages of 18-40.
10" would be 2 ---- 0.0001% is converted to 0.000001 to calculate.
 
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I don't understand when guys question exes about current and previous lovers. Are you gluttons for punishment?

For those of you who thought you were alpha and the biggest and you treated others like shit because of it either internally or outwardly, does this shake your perception? Wake you up to how mean you have been? You might be able to take on the humiliation but remember that's a kink that not everyone enjoys.
 
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I don't understand when guys question exes about current and previous lovers. Are you gluttons for punishment?

For those of you who thought you were alpha and the biggest and you treated others like shit because of it either internally or outwardly, does this shake your perception? Wake you up to how mean you have been? You might be able to take on the humiliation but remember that's a kink that not everyone enjoys.
I know about every one of my wife's exes and love it. Size-wise I am probably #5 on her all time list but it never bothered me a bit. I actually stole her from a guy who was "massively thick" but was also a control freak and an average fuck for her.

My wife and I have been together 22 years now and did some swinging for more than a decade so I got exposed to a lot a cock during that time. It only made me realize I was above average and that I have my own fetish for big dick.
 

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Trick...find someone that says you are the biggest, best, most hugest and ginormous monster cock she has ever had and at that point accept it. Don't ask about dudes where in all actuality may and probably are hung like the stuff sold at your local sex store. Unless you can truly find every single one of her past sex partners, ask them to compare dicks, not get arrested, and prove that you are bigger. Then and only then will you truly know. Or, is this really the complete and unabridged list of everyone from her sex life past and present? Moral of the story: like everyone else who has said it, yet in a different way, stop torturing yourself over stuff that you have abso-friggin-lutely no control over what so ever.

Frisian...out
 

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7" is 15%
8" is 3%
9" is 0.07%.
10" is 0.0001%

In a moderately large city of 250,000 people, roughly 73% in the US are 18 to 40 years old. 49% are male. When you run the numbers that gives you...

13.4K men with 7"
2.6K men with 8"
62 with 9"
0 with 10"

Big penises are more common than people's think. The above is just in one mid-level city. In a large metropolitan area with millions of people, well...

Case in point, Miami metro area has 6.138M people. In an area of that size that gives you

329K men with 7"
65.8K men with 8"
1.5K with 9"
219 with 10"
7" or more is in reality more like 1-2 %. The apparent minimum for a partner.... 8" or more is 3%? No... That ruler would have to be jammed into that fat pad pretty harshly...

Why do porn stars known for having a far from reality size not touch 9"? No big dick stars have 9 or more? Yet you claim it to be at least somewhat common?
 
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