Ex girl friend pregnant but still in love

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So my ex girl friend got pregnant with a douche bag after we broke up. I still have feelings for her and we might be able to work things out. Although I have second thoughts about starting things up with her again with her having a child by someone else. What are you're guys thoughts on this??
 

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Sorry, I agree with the earlier comments, move on.
You can be friends if you want, but don't sleep with her again.
The baby was probably "your punishment" for moving on the first time.
Start fresh with someone you can trust and believe in.
Have children later when you know that this is your soul-mate.
 

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I'd have her take a paternity test....not sure as to the timing as you didn't get into that, but how does she know it isn't yours? At the same time, if it's his baby, I agree with someone else above that said HE will be in your life also. It's a tough spot to be in and I wouldn't tell you one way or the other what to do. Only YOU know what YOU want to do.