Exhibitionism And Being Naked In Front Of Others

[deleted4931171]

Throughout most of my sex life, I've been pretty vanilla, but from time to time, I have this desire to be naked, and to be watched by someone attractive, especially within their presence, and having them enjoy what they see, even teasing them sometimes. I've purposely put myself in situations where I'd be naked in a place they could find, and see me, even ones where I'm in the shower, or masturbating. And I've done this either with boyfriends or guys I've hooked up with, within a private space of course.

I've been on LPSG for a while now, about a little over a year I believe, I've made a couple of threads here, and there, but I've never really talked or asked about this kind of thing before. So I was curious if anyone else enjoys this stuff, either as an exhibitionist or voyeurist, or what anyone's opinions on this are, what it is they like about it, and if anyone has any interesting stories they'd wanna share.

Thanks.

 

[aarondong9]

I've been an online exhibitionist for 25+ years. Posting pics and vids and being on cam sites and in vid chat rooms when they were any good. I love to be naked and I like being watched online, but in person for some reason I am really shy. I'm the kind of person who will wrap a towel around them to change underneath. Having said that I do sunbathe outdoor naked when I can, but again in a private area, but there is a slim chance a neighbour could see if they were really trying or just happened to look out of the right window at the right time. I guess ultimately, whilst I like to be naked, I am scared of what people might say in real life, or perhaps it is just that its harder to be casual about it, I mean when someone finds me online.... they were looking for dick haha

 

[Sfmusic]

While I’m sure this is a hot fantasy for a lot of guys, just make sure that the guy you are exhibiting for actually wants to see you jerking off.

I was on a cruise ship a few years back and had gone swimming in the pool and then sat in the sauna afterward strictly to sweat (I was by myself).

While in the sauna, this good looking guy came into the sauna and sat across from me. Both of us were fully nude, sitting on our towels. After about a minute the other guy starts slowly sliding his finger over his cock. It was so subtle that at first I wasn’t sure what he was doing, but then his cock started to pulse and his foreskin started sliding back from his cockhead and it was clear what was going on! Then he became more bold and started openly masturbating.

If I were single I would have joined in because he was exactly “my type” hairy, hung and very masculine, but in the moment all I could think of is “You are happily married to a wonderful man and you need to stay that way”, so I got up from the bench I was sitting on and walked to the showers to clean up and then to the locker room to get get dressed.

While I was in the locker room “my friend” joined me and we actually had a very nice conversation, including a discussion about his jerking off in public. He loves jerking in saunas, and told me I missed his big orgasm.

I explained to him that I was happily married and didn’t feel comfortable participating with him. He confided that he was also married and never touched anyone else but he loved to be watched! He was clearly a big time exhibitionist because the entire time we were talking he was sitting in front of his locker fully nude (I was dressed by that time)! Although to his credit he did not do anything else that made me feel uncomfortable. He did provide some amazing eye candy though

The next day I saw him and his wife walking down the same hallway as me and my husband and as luck would have it they were theee cabins away from us! . I didn’t tell my husband about this encounter because he gets very jealous and I didn’t want there to be any drama on that trip.

I had a similar experience about 30 years ago but I was also in a long term committed relationship at the time and didn’t feel comfortable participating in a public wank. Maybe I’m a sucker for being such a square but the satisfaction of having done the “right thing” outweighs any regrets for the “missed” adventure. Just my two cents.

 

[cnkckfil]

I love watching a bud jerk off or have sex, it's a turn on and I will jerk myself. I am not actually touching the other person and I would tell my partner about so I don't feel it is cheating. I have come across guys having sex or jerking in various places; forest preserves, bathrooms, restaurants, airports, colleges and of course bathhouse and adult arcades/bookstores. I am very happy to passively watch but have also participated in the past as well.

Hugs, tugs and rubs

 

[Brodie888]

I do wish public sex was more widely tolerated.

Having to go somewhere specific kinda kills the spontaneity that is half the fun.

 

[MuscledHorse]

I do wish public sex was more widely tolerated.

Having to go somewhere specific kinda kills the spontaneity that is half the fun.

I couldn't agree with you more. I have had sex pretty much everywhere (especially men's bathrooms and behind buildings and in parks), and a lot of it in sex resorts and sex clubs. I am a huge sexual exhibitionist and also do porn. Males are sexual animals at our core. We should be able to openly indulge.

 

[jamesfreeman758]

being able to just fuck where ever you want should be legal

 

[openfly]

being able to just fuck where ever you want should be legal

or at least play with yourself...

 

[chancesare]

I would love to watch a couple having sex, not performing for me but just getting to see what they normally do.

 

[jj7145]

Being naked in front of others doesn’t phase me.
However, I admit I love it when a guy is confident about his body, and willing to put on a show.
A couple days ago, I was in the gym lockerroom talking to a couple guys after I showered and was dressing.
I didn’t realize it but another guy walked in to the lockerroom while we were taking. He was around 25, nice body, not perfect but nice.
The guys leave and it is just me and this other guy in the lockerroom. He casually strips like normal and heads to the showers. (I did think it was hot that he freeballs in his sweat pants)
My locker was in view of the shower he chose. After a couple of minutes, he ends his shower and pulls back the curtain. I thought I caught him sticking his head out, trying to see if I was still in the locker room.

He then steps out of the shower stall and faces my direction toweling off. He was taking his time trying to make eye contact.
He then drapes the towel on his shower and walks back into the locker area with his dick almost fully erect. He walks by me and then positions himself again to
continue drying off in my line of view.

I nodded to him and left. I will be interested to see if he will put on any follow up shows if I see him at the gym again.

 

[herbho]

On another thread I related the incident when I was just out of college and in my first apartment. My bedroom was directly across the courtyard from another. No one could see into each other's window except us. I loved to walk around my apt naked and, every once in a while, noticed that he was sneaking a glance. He was a middle-aged man, living alone. So, I decided that if he wanted to look, I would show him something. I would keep the shades open and the light on low at night and walk around. His shades were also up and I knew he was sitting in the dark watching. Once I put on some gay porn, sat at my computer and masturbated so he could watch, making sure that he noticed that the porn was gay. I saw him a couple times on the street and he always nodded and smiled, so I knew he had enjoyed the show. I never got reciprocation from him, but it didn't matter. I knew he enjoyed what I did, so it made me feel good.

 

[Jake1973]

On another thread I related the incident when I was just out of college and in my first apartment. My bedroom was directly across the courtyard from another. No one could see into each other's window except us. I loved to walk around my apt naked and, every once in a while, noticed that he was sneaking a glance. He was a middle-aged man, living alone. So, I decided that if he wanted to look, I would show him something. I would keep the shades open and the light on low at night and walk around. His shades were also up and I knew he was sitting in the dark watching. Once I put on some gay porn, sat at my computer and masturbated so he could watch, making sure that he noticed that the porn was gay. I saw him a couple times on the street and he always nodded and smiled, so I knew he had enjoyed the show. I never got reciprocation from him, but it didn't matter. I knew he enjoyed what I did, so it made me feel good.

I would love that exact scenario, a neighbor who could see in and clearly enjoyed the show but didn't expect more. I enjoy knowing I am the object of someone's desire without it turning into more, and I'm also happy to admire a younger, fitter dude and let him know I like what I see.

 

[herbho]

I would love that exact scenario, a neighbor who could see in and clearly enjoyed the show but didn't expect more. I enjoy knowing I am the object of someone's desire without it turning into more, and I'm also happy to admire a younger, fitter dude and let him know I like what I see.

The one thing I did was never let him know that I knew he was watching, but going about as if I thought I was alone and couldn't be seen. I thought it would be more exciting for him, thinking he was getting away with something " forbidden." It certainly was more exciting for me, as my orgasms were always huge, both in and out of his view.

 

[Jake1973]

The one thing I did was never let him know that I knew he was watching, but going about as if I thought I was alone and couldn't be seen. I thought it would be more exciting for him, thinking he was getting away with something " forbidden." It certainly was more exciting for me, as my orgasms were always huge, both in and out of his view.

Oh yeah, definitely.

I didn't get to see it but friends of mine were at a restaurant we've been to with a back terrace, and apparently a guy whose apartment overlooks said terrace took a shower in full view of people sitting at the tables. While I have no idea if he knew he could be seen, the idea of acting innocent and not acknowledging your audience definitely adds to the fun for both. I actually worked a version of that into one of my stories.

 

[herbho]

Oh yeah, definitely.

I didn't get to see it but friends of mine were at a restaurant we've been to with a back terrace, and apparently a guy whose apartment overlooks said terrace took a shower in full view of people sitting at the tables. While I have no idea if he knew he could be seen, the idea of acting innocent and not acknowledging your audience definitely adds to the fun for both. I actually worked a version of that into one of my stories.

I had the same experience. A friend of mine and I were sitting in a restaurant across from some apartments. A guy walked into his bedroom naked after getting out of the shower. I noticed him and said to her," Look at that." She looked and responded, " I didn't know this was dinner theater." BTW, he was very hot and hung.

 

[hellagood88]

Glad to find some other people who are into this as well. One of the only things I liked about the gym was that I could get naked in front of other men in the locker room or showers. For some reason it turns me on and makes me feel more free about my body, even though its a nightmare to look at haha

The amount of times ive stood naked at a hotel room window ...

 

[openfly]

Glad to find some other people who are into this as well. One of the only things I liked about the gym was that I could get naked in front of other men in the locker room or showers. For some reason it turns me on and makes me feel more free about my body, even though its a nightmare to look at haha

The amount of times ive stood naked at a hotel room window ...

lol Here Here!!!

 

[Paul87]

It's hard to describe that feeling of knowing I'm being watched. My house sits on a hill above an alley. Twice a week around 5am, the garbage gets picked up. I usually use that as my cue to get up and go to the gym. I would get up and open the blinds and take off my t-shirt and shorts and get into my gym shorts, all in the dark. I can see the guy doing his pick up before rolling the bins back up the alley. One morning a few months back, I turned on my nightstand lamp before I opened the blinds. The light lit my body next to the bedroom balcony window. I looked down and it didn't register with the guy. He continued up the alley with the bins. I went ahead and undressed and was about to put my gym shorts on when I saw the guy return. I guess there's another bin to pick up. With no other lights on at the other house, mine caught his eye and he looked up and saw me buck naked. We both did a quick 'sup nod then went about our business. This went on for a few weeks, same routine. Then one morning I got bold and didn't wait for my morning wood to go down and opened the blinds. This time he grinned and jokingly grabbed his crotch and I grabbed my cock. All good natured, probably figured it was just morning wood. Saw him as I drove off to the gym, he was still on my street and we waved. Wonder how many cocks he must see in a day.

 

[openfly]

It's hard to describe that feeling of knowing I'm being watched. My house sits on a hill above an alley. Twice a week around 5am, the garbage gets picked up. I usually use that as my cue to get up and go to the gym. I would get up and open the blinds and take off my t-shirt and shorts and get into my gym shorts, all in the dark. I can see the guy doing his pick up before rolling the bins back up the alley. One morning a few months back, I turned on my nightstand lamp before I opened the blinds. The light lit my body next to the bedroom balcony window. I looked down and it didn't register with the guy. He continued up the alley with the bins. I went ahead and undressed and was about to put my gym shorts on when I saw the guy return. I guess there's another bin to pick up. With no other lights on at the other house, mine caught his eye and he looked up and saw me buck naked. We both did a quick 'sup nod then went about our business. This went on for a few weeks, same routine. Then one morning I got bold and didn't wait for my morning wood to go down and opened the blinds. This time he grinned and jokingly grabbed his crotch and I grabbed my cock. All good natured, probably figured it was just morning wood. Saw him as I drove off to the gym, he was still on my street and we waved. Wonder how many cocks he must see in a day.

I think I feel I wouldn't have stopped at just grabbing my cock----wouldn't have been able to resist a great chance at jacking for the guy

 

[herbho]