Exhibitionism

Discussion in 'New Member Introductions' started by D_Martin van Burden, Apr 27, 2004.

  1. D_Martin van Burden

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    I chatted with a fellow cammer just a little while ago. We're both members of the same Yahoo group and he responded to my intro/new guy post, and we finally met up on instant messenger.

    It didn't take long for the shorts to come off, for the goods to come out. He had seen the few naked stills that I had on my web folder -- you know, part of the required admission into the group -- and he responded positively to what I unleashed before him. And by this time, it had become almost routine. No, don't confuse that for an ego trip. What I meant is, I had done this showing off business enough on cam already to know how it works, and the positive feedback felt just as good.

    But, as of lately, I've been comfortable showing a little more of my... ah... intimates...

    I couldn't tell you how it began, really. I think it was part bravado and part courage coming together, especially when I'd get a random IM from an LPSGer who had read my posts and wanted to say hi. (I appreciate that by the way, guys.)

    But at some point, I became a bit more interested in showing and meeting through this whole web cam thing. Though Yahoo's a bit temperamental, if we're both cammed and both ready to show, I'm all game for the challenge. I don't have anything specific in mind when I do it; it's just... I don't know... there's something that feels good about letting it all hang out with another cool dude.

    For fairness sake (and perhaps at the cost of my own incrimination), I admit that another well hung LPSGer who makes halfway decent conversation is my best cam-to-cam buddy candidate. It's cool to just kick back in the chair and slowly stroke my dick to erection, while the dude is making a show of his bod and business.

    And I love the compliments.

    I take my body seriously, you know. I know I'm not a muscle stud, but when a dude compliments me, it... it feels really nice. (It's not like dudes run up to me at the gym trading niceties.) The guy I cammed with earlier said that compliments from guys mean a bit more to him because he understands that it takes a bit of bravado to tell a dude upfront and honestly that he looks good.

    Gang, I love that attention. I like how my body feels when attention is being drawn to it, and I like how my dick looks inside of a webcam frame. I never get to see it from that perspective, and it makes me feel pretty proud of it -- even though I knew I was no slouch before. And when the hormones start to take over, I'm all gung-ho about beating with a bud -- just me and a buddy getting our sticks off. We were gonna do it anyway; why not help each other out?

    And if my cumshots are any testament to how much I enjoy them....

    I just wanted to spunk it before bed tonight and I ended up nearly getting a mouthful of sauce. Jizz sprayed up my bod and splashed my lips, and my bud got to see it on live-action video. "Wow! Wow! Wow!" he yelled, saying that that was purely porno-studly hot.

    By that point, I was too busy trying to get the strong salty aftertaste out of my mouth.

    Okay. I really rambled on here, but I just wanted to get an idea of how some of you cammers feel. We've already discussed the trifling things, like people wanting to see you without having anything to offer in return -- or how rude people can get with demands. I just wanted to get the pleasure of my exhibitionism off of my chest, and quite frankly, I never saw it coming.

    Who knew I would love joking and stroking with my fellow cammers so much? I sure didn't!
     
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    (P.S. Sweet! My Exhibitionism post is the 60,000th post listed on the LPSG!)
     
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    justaboy: I have to say i feel almost exactly the opposite,having been abused and lied to over the weekend.The only people i show my cock to are the people that I am going to have sex with.
     
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    blackpower: Wow. You have it the nail on the head for me Dee. I have always felt the same way about camming with other dudes. Getting past the b.s. :p

    I guess it is a good confirmation when we are compliment from the same sex. We as men know how hard it can be to either maintain a specific physique or not, and to get get positive verification is just the icing on the cake.

    After reading your post, it has renewed some faith in me to start camming again. Because I had stop camming for the reason that most people want to see what you have and then did not want to return the favor or did not have a cam (when we know that they can be purchased for just about $10).

    Besides, your situation you were telling about the huge spash off :eek: got me an extra morning wood to splash off again ;D (Thanks).

    Once again, thanks for sharing. Hope to see you on the cam front.

    -BronxboyNY
     
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    Ineligible: I'm very sorry you've had that experience, justaboy. It happens too often and it always hurts. :(
     
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    steve_w: I feel similar Dee, Be it not just a complement about the equipment between my legs, but any complement about my body in general. I have strived to maintain a good physical condition over my years. Being a smaller person, I was always "beind" the other kids in grade-school in strength and size, thus making me not as agile in sports and strength challenges. I imagine you may have experienced the same thing. Today, I have noticed how well toned my body is, and the fact that I am in better shape at 29 years old than I have ever been, and most others my age. Considering this fact, when someone complements my body or physical abilities, it means much more to me than when someone complements me on menta capabilities, which tend to come easier to me. Men, however are typically reserved about saying anything about their fellow men, except to put them down, which makes a complement mean even more.

    I must say though that your dialouge was pretty hot! I have had similar experience when masterbating myself. I haven't tried camming with anyone yet...I need to get a camera! But I can be quite the exibitionist at times!
     
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    Thanks for posting your thoughts on camming, Dee. I used to do A LOT of camming a few years ago (especially when CUSeeMe and ICU were more popular). I really enjoyed showing myself (my body *and* my cock) off to guys. You're right: it is a big turn on!

    However, lately, I just haven't got the time to whip it out and stroke it on cam. Hey, you never know...I just might have to find the time. Right?
     
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    It seems like we're having lots of true confessions, so I'll belly up to the bar. After getting my pc in Jan of '98, I was a regular on icuii until I had to reformat my hard drive and loss my membership. During that time, I had found LPSG and it seems this site has taken my interest. My profile picture on icuii was a close up of my hardon in 2Xist briefs and got many, many takers. Hardly any inquired about my age, they were just intested in getting off watching me stroke. I think most of us like to be admired!
     
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