Exotic Dancers

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  1. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    What do you think of going to the strip club?

    How many of men here enjoy the experience?

    I for one enjoy going to the local strip clubs. The atmosphere is exciting to me. I enjoy the dance music and i like hanging on my husband and being one of the women there who isnt bothered by naked women in front of my man. My husband on the other hand doesnt enjoy it as much. I think it's because his choice in women is so picky that he doesnt find the fake boobs, overly tanned bodies and bad dye jobs to be so attractive.


    Do you ever go up to the stage and spend cash?

    When my favorite stripper gets on stage i go up there and give her money. She enjoys the female attention and i get to touch on her unlike the men. I don't spend much money. Generally the pitcher of beer for my husband costs more than what i spend on the dancers.


    What type of dancers are you drawn to?

    I like the dancers that arent surgically modified. I think there are a half dozen or so that i find attractive because they are unique. Whether they have short hair, a little more body fat, naturally large breasts or odd piercings. There is a gothic stripper that i love to see. She makes awesome money and has a no non-sense attitude. When she gets on stage the audience in captivated. The music is always very hard metal or NIN when its her time to dance. I also enjoy the black women because they are curvier and i love to watch their fans go crazy when they get on stage.

    Do you ever get lap dances?

    I've never had the guts to get a lapdance. Mainly because i don't want to be the center of attention as a guest in the establishment. It would be a little awkward for me.

    Do you know anyone who dances or used to dance?

    I dont personally know anyone. I've considered learning some technique and getting some stilleto's and practicing at home. I have a lot of outfits i think would work for the scene. But i do have an original look and stray far away from the cookie cutter girl look. Many women start to dance when they are young and end up quitting by the time they are my age (28).

    My husband is considering letting me because he knows that i could master the business side of it by marketing to a target audience. It's just a job to me. A job that can tap into my already sensual side. I figure if i make homemade videos on xtube and do contract nude modeling the least i could do is be making money at it.

    I work a physical job already, self employed, and i'd like to try it if i could master some skills before ever treading foot in a club as a hired dancer. I thought i'd get some feedback from the ladies and gentlemen here about their thoughts about exotic dancers, clubs and how they are attracted to them/the ladies.

    Feel free to follow up with any of your additional thoughts.
     
  2. tiggerpoo

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    I don't go to clubs but my gf used to be an exotic dancer. She has a stunning figure and is not surgically modified. Keeps herself in beautiful shape and is exceptionally well groomed and manicured.

    She said she made "quite good money" as a dancer, butter than any job she could have had. But as my partner she's now wealthy and manages her own investment portfolio, so she no longer has to work for a living because she's financially independant.
     
  3. TinyPrincess

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    Well, MR - since the men will not bite I will try to lure them out...

    OK, although it's not really something that trigger me. Have just been at clubs 15-20 times with customers in order to get a deal and twice at male strib clubs with girlfriends

    Nope

    Female - athletic types that know how to move and dance
    Male - well, the size of the bulge does matter - and I've still not seen a guy really been able to move his butt in an erotic way

    Nope

    Nope
     
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    Darn it - tigger just beat me to it
     
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    TinyPrincess

    My gf is 24, black, stunningly beautiful and ravishingly sexy. Moreover, she's beautiful inside as well. A Lady Diana type of person.

    When I met her three and a half years ago I knew instantly she was the girl for me. :biggrin1: It took me a few months to convince her that I was the guy for her. :biggrin1: We now have a wonderful relationship. Best one of my life.
     
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    I used to think strip clubs were fun,my wife even went with me and had fun.Then about 5 years back a new neighbor moved in.A 21 year old girl with a baby and a pot head boyfriend.They did not have a car,she danced to keep the heat on and food in the fridge.I drove her to the club every night.I'd stay for a bit and watch her dance,very sensual and fluid belly dancing.Through her I got to know all the other girls and they all had some sad variation of her story.Maybe it's different in the big cities but here in podunk Oregon girls do it to stay alive.Kinda kills the fun doesn't it!
     
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    I like going to strip bars but after about an hour I get bored, yeah looking at tail is cool but I enjoy the hunt of meeting a girl and talking to her then trying to see the goodies.
     
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    But all in all, Strip shows don't do anything for me.
     
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    I had a friend a while ago who danced, I think if you can keep it just a job its one thing, but so many of the girls get into doing sexual favors for money and doing all kinds of drugs since its just part of the environment, that I think thas wut makes the sad stories.

    I think most girls who do it have a reason to be doing it. My friend did it cuz she got kicked out of her parents house, moved in with her prick boyfriend, and when they broke up and he kicked her out, she had nowhere to go and no job. So, she started dancing.

    Jen
     
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    Hmm, not many guys have replied to this one . . . I guess I'll toss in my answers.

    What do you think of going to the strip club?

    How many of men here enjoy the experience?

    I've only gone a few times, but I've never really enjoyed it. I mean, I appreciate the eye candy parading in front of me, but most of them don't get me hard at all. I guess the fact that they are dancing in front of so many men, infers to me that they're not that into it. I need some real emotion from them. I jack off to porn, but I guess with that I can easily fantasize about how <i>I'm</i> giving her a great fuck.
    With a strip club.

    Do you ever go up to the stage and spend cash?

    I don't think I've gone up on stage with a stripper. I've given money a few times for girls that I liked, but not much more than that.

    What type of dancers are you drawn to?

    Um . . . I'm into the dancers that I'm drawn to in real life. Not overly thin, not too fake (fake breasts are OK if they're not overly big), and have a great attitude on stage.

    Do you ever get lap dances?

    Nope, but I think I'd enjoy it more than just watching a dancer. Just never felt like spending the money.

    Do you know anyone who dances or used to dance?

    Not personally.
     
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    I used to work as a stripper when I was a student. I can't imagine going to see female strippers with my boyfriend. He isn't into that kind of thing anyway. I like to see male strippers with my friends, Birmingham seems to have emerged as the male strip capital of the UK, what does that say about we the women of Birmingham!
     
  13. Phil Ayesho

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    I have been to strip clubs...
    Bachelor parties and the like.

    But I do not like them much...

    Don't get me wrong... I love to see the lovely ladies... but there is something about the male denizens of most strip clubs that simply depresses me.


    My wife and I once went to a club with another couple...

    All around beautiful nude women gyrating, serving drinks and doing lap dances...
    When My wife and the other woman, fully dressed, got up to go to the ladies room... every guys in the joint craned their necks to watch the fully dressed women walk across the room.


    In fact... I think that was the last time I ever went to a club.
     
  14. Marlboro woman

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    Nail on the head time ... I think that's what puts a lot of 'normal' men off ... they don't want to be seen as part of the dirty mac brigade.

     
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    I think men who enjoy strip clubs are rather pathetic. Real men can`t stand being told to look but don`t touch.
     
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    I've never attended a male strip show (for obvious reasons) but you are right, Birmingham (England) does seem to have an awful lot of them. Just how rude was the rudest one you've attended? You can tell me. I'm a Doctor.:biggrin1:
     
  17. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    I think you just made up my mind on the idea. When you mentioned up your wife and her friend walking across the room and all the guys rubbernecking to see a couple of clothed women. I happened to notice the same thing when i went. I never thought of it consciously but im sure it has something to do with it being eyecatching after seeing all the made up naked women for a few hours.

    The type of men at the club i was interested in are mainly 18-30 with a few older men that stroll in there. I suppose there is this glamourous idea of what those places would be like to work in.

    One thing that i've noticed in porn is that there are two types that earn some respect- the less is more types and the extreme fetish types. The typical close up brightly lit commercial porn might generate a lot of money but it generates little respect from the viewers.

    Thanks to everyone for your feedback!
     
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    I know this isn't the typicial guy answer that makes all the frat boys cheer...but strip clubs are the most boring places on Earth
    honestly it is like a resturant that will not give you food
    why bother
    I already know what naked women look like, and can find hotter naked women on the internet if all I want to do is look
    so....why shell out the cash for a girl to talk to me, when the music is too loud to hear and the girl generally has the intellect of a lump of clay?
     
  19. Phil Ayesho

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    Y'know what I think it was....

    I think the men all turned to look at the dressed women not only cause they looked really fine... I mean, dressed really well... but because they were more "real" than the women working the club...
    The men knew they could not have the club women.... they knew me and my friend were going home with these two girls...


    On the few occasions I have had to talk to women who work in clubs.... they seem to exude a real distaste for men...
    I think working there... seeing only this one side of men... seeing especially the lonely and pitiful men... the raucous frat boy animal-like men...

    I think it really has a detrimental effect on these women's view of men.
    They seem jaded...
    And those that don't seem jaded, seem to expect the worst from men... and often get it.

    I wish it were not so... its fun to see their lovely forms... I have no moral objections whatsoever... I do not think less of the people who do it or are into it....
    but the desperation of the men, the mercenary aspect to the women's feigned interest... the effect it seems to have on them both....

    Its just doesn't sit well...

    Makes me sad.
     
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    Amen.

    I can't add nothing to that.

    (not like me).

     
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