What do you think of going to the strip club? How many of men here enjoy the experience? I for one enjoy going to the local strip clubs. The atmosphere is exciting to me. I enjoy the dance music and i like hanging on my husband and being one of the women there who isnt bothered by naked women in front of my man. My husband on the other hand doesnt enjoy it as much. I think it's because his choice in women is so picky that he doesnt find the fake boobs, overly tanned bodies and bad dye jobs to be so attractive. Do you ever go up to the stage and spend cash? When my favorite stripper gets on stage i go up there and give her money. She enjoys the female attention and i get to touch on her unlike the men. I don't spend much money. Generally the pitcher of beer for my husband costs more than what i spend on the dancers. What type of dancers are you drawn to? I like the dancers that arent surgically modified. I think there are a half dozen or so that i find attractive because they are unique. Whether they have short hair, a little more body fat, naturally large breasts or odd piercings. There is a gothic stripper that i love to see. She makes awesome money and has a no non-sense attitude. When she gets on stage the audience in captivated. The music is always very hard metal or NIN when its her time to dance. I also enjoy the black women because they are curvier and i love to watch their fans go crazy when they get on stage. Do you ever get lap dances? I've never had the guts to get a lapdance. Mainly because i don't want to be the center of attention as a guest in the establishment. It would be a little awkward for me. Do you know anyone who dances or used to dance? I dont personally know anyone. I've considered learning some technique and getting some stilleto's and practicing at home. I have a lot of outfits i think would work for the scene. But i do have an original look and stray far away from the cookie cutter girl look. Many women start to dance when they are young and end up quitting by the time they are my age (28). My husband is considering letting me because he knows that i could master the business side of it by marketing to a target audience. It's just a job to me. A job that can tap into my already sensual side. I figure if i make homemade videos on xtube and do contract nude modeling the least i could do is be making money at it. I work a physical job already, self employed, and i'd like to try it if i could master some skills before ever treading foot in a club as a hired dancer. I thought i'd get some feedback from the ladies and gentlemen here about their thoughts about exotic dancers, clubs and how they are attracted to them/the ladies. Feel free to follow up with any of your additional thoughts.