Expanding my nude time

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Another group had a thread on expanding nude time in 2019, so I posted it there and thought I would put it here also.
I am considering just staying nude in the "pubic" areas of our house when my adult son is home.
I know he wouldn't like it. He has already expressed his displeasure with me swimming and sunning nude when he is in the house and I am in the poll enclosure, which is visible from the back windows.
I am nude in the wing that has the master bedroom, study and master bath, but he is never in that area.
Since he leaves for work at 9:00 and returns at 6:45 I do have substantial opportunities to be nude in the pubic areas also.
My wife says I should go ahead with it and if he doesn't like it, he can move out.
Anyone else have thoughts about this?
 
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Seriously, it is your house, do what you want. He is an adult, he could move out on his own. What he should be doing is joining in with you.
My wife would not be happy if he were nude in the "public" parts of the house or even the pool and deck when she was home. She is not a fan of nudity but has come to accept than I prefer to be nude.
 
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My wife would not be happy if he were nude in the "public" parts of the house or even the pool and deck when she was home. She is not a fan of nudity but has come to accept than I prefer to be nude.

Your son could join you nude when your wife is out. Would be a nice father/son bonding experience.
 

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I'm curious how old your adult son is. I agree though, regardless, if he doesn't like it, he's free to get his own place. But he should probably make his peace with your nudity bc chances are, on future visits to your house, he's likely to see you nude again.
 
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I'm curious how old your adult son is. I agree though, regardless, if he doesn't like it, he's free to get his own place. But he should probably make his peace with your nudity bc chances are, on future visits to your house, he's likely to see you nude again.
He is 36.
I doubt that there would be a problem with him seeing me nude if he lived elsewhere and came to visit. His younger brother who is even more nude adverse than he, lives nearby and visits some and has rarely caught me nude.
 

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He's 36?? Just no. He is WAY beyond the age where this should bother him much, if at all. Early 20s? I could cut him a little slack. But almost 40? No. Dude, grow up. I say drop trou wherever you want in your house. He doesn't like it - that's on him. Life is too short. His problem. Not yours.
 

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I do have substantial opportunities to be nude in the pubic areas also.
My wife says I should go ahead with it and if he doesn't like it, he can move out.

Exactly, it;s your house so if you want to be naked, be naked! If you have a week in summer when you don't have much on (pun intended) you could see how long - as in how many days - you could stay naked for. Maybe make some naturist friends and ask them over, then as your wife says he might leave!
 
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Exactly, it;s your house so if you want to be naked, be naked! If you have a week in summer when you don't have much on (pun intended) you could see how long - as in how many days - you could stay naked for. Maybe make some naturist friends and ask them over, then as your wife says he might leave!
Concerning goals of how long, my immediate goal is to spend an entire week shirtless.
Longer term might be to spend a week nude. One issue with that is I might not want to be limited to the house and pool enclosure for a full week.
My wife is not comfortable around anyone other than me who is nude so having nude friends over is not an option.
 

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Hang out nude with my father? NO!

Same here. We never got along until he didn't have the physical stamina to maintain his dislike. If we were to hang out nude I would somehow be doing it "wrong" in a way that would never actually be explained. The nudity wouldn't even be a factor. Just hell no.

OTOH, if my maternal GRANDfather were to show up at a naked pool party he'd probably laugh and think it silly but he'd get naked and enjoy it without any issues. At least that's my prediction as he'd be 114 if he were still with us.
 

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He's 36?? Just no. He is WAY beyond the age where this should bother him much, if at all. Early 20s? I could cut him a little slack. But almost 40? No. Dude, grow up. I say drop trou wherever you want in your house. He doesn't like it - that's on him. Life is too short. His problem. Not yours.

I have to agree with this. It is his problem, not yours. He needs to adjust; you do not.
 
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Longer term might be to spend a week nude. One issue with that is I might not want to be limited to the house and pool enclosure for a full week.

In that case start with spending an entire day naked, then move on to a weekend and only then see if you can go longer - no need to stay in for an entire week to begin with - just being naked for an entire weekend could be liberating
 
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In that case start with spending an entire day naked, then move on to a weekend and only then see if you can go longer - no need to stay in for an entire week to begin with - just being naked for an entire weekend could be liberating
I have spent about 40 hours continuosly nude. Would have made 2 fulldays if a friend of my wife's hadn't stopped in.u
 
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