Expecting a girl to be shaved - is it a porn deviation?

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Hi all,
the idea to date a girl and to have sex with her is, actually, normally coupled with the fact that I expect her to be shaved but I know that in reality is not like that so am wondering if this depends on watching porn where all the girls are shaved or what else?

What do you girls think about shaving your pubic area?

On of my exes never did, I let her know I would have liked it but she didn't seem to understand or to will to understand, so I got more explicit and had her to partially shave (don't like it fully shaved...) and she did but after a little time she didn't keep up with it.

Another girl said she started to do it on request and kept doing it (have also to say that this one was less naturally hairy than the other one), another one yet says she always did it (and being naturally still less hairy than the previous one) and it feels nicer and cleaner to her...

So, what is it behind shaving from the feminine side, is it just an appearance issue or is there more behind it?

thanks and sorry for confusion, my english is so and so...


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my girlfriend has always been shaved, i asked her about it one time. she was a virgin when i met her so i was curious as to why she was shaved, she said that she liked it much more like that just on a daily basis. she then went on to say that she will shave a bit more regularly for me, but its also for her benefit
 

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Some girls I've been with have been shaved, others not. Neat trim will do for me- some girls look strange with shaved pussy. The few I've spoken about it have all shaved since a teenager and feel cleaner that way. I think porn has probably made it seem the norm and not one of a variety of options.
 

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I wax. Seeing as I've been fucking my classmate for a longer period of time, I didn't have time to let the hair grow long enough to be waxed. Today was the first time he's seen my pussy with hair... it will be removed in 2 days.
 

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I wax. Seeing as I've been fucking my classmate for a longer period of time, I didn't have time to let the hair grow long enough to be waxed. Today was the first time he's seen my pussy with hair... it will be removed in 2 days.

Please do me a picture before you shave it off, TK :tongue:
 

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This is my favourite of yours. http://www.lpsg.org/gallery/showphoto.php/photo/114563/cat/500/ppuser/58172

I saw it a few days ago before a message came up saying I had to upgrade my membership, and then I couldn't view any more pics of you or anyone else, only thumbnails. Shame, there used to be a little ruse to see anyones pics but seems like they've fixed that now. :frown1:
Haha, the ol' print screen trick. Good to see they got to fixing that, after I was a gold member. You just have to take a verified picture then you will get a gold membership too.
 

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Haha, the ol' print screen trick. Good to see they got to fixing that, after I was a gold member. You just have to take a verified picture then you will get a gold membership too.

Yep, the print view. :biggrin1: Ah, so I just need to take a picture of me with a sign saying 'LPSG', is that right? Thanks for the tip TK. Damn, you know how much I hate taking pictures of myself. :cool:
 

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Me being shaved has nothing to do with porn. I started shaving long before it became the norm because it felt cleaner. The bonus was how much men like it.
I cannot be with a man who is not shaved. Hair turns me off especially when it is in my mouth. It is not deviant just a preferred method of hygiene like shaving ones legs, face, or arm pits.
 

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I think porn has a lot to do with what guys expect today and I think it's a shame. I am of the old school and believe women should look like women and not children. Trimmed and groomed, of course, but shaved is just not natural.

I admit to being biased, however the whole growing attitude today of men not having hair on their chests, women being completely shaved, and men having neatly trimmed waxed eyebrows, makes me long for the 80's and early 90's when body hair wasn't as much of a big deal as it appears today.

Everyone's preferences are being molded into the direction of completely shaved women (as the original poster stated he was expecting it from his girlfriend) and I personally believe porn has played a huge factor in that.

*note* I Don't mean to come across as judgemental.
 

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I think porn has a lot to do with what guys expect today and I think it's a shame. quote]
I agree with that statement.

i.e some men are shocked to find out that not every woman wants a huge cock, dildo, fist, etc shoved up their ass; get slapped around, fuck other women, etc... since they see it in virtually all commercial porn made now...and the women seem to enjoy it soooooo much.

But I think that shaving is similar to tattoos in that they have become more mainstream in the past 20 years and although shaved crotches, tattoos, piercings, are evident in porn I do not believe that there is a causal relationship there.
As I posted before, for me it is a hygiene issue, not specifically a sexual one.
 

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This is just me - but basically yes, I do expect a girl to be shaved. Everyone has their preferences; one of mine is that a girl be bald down there. Intercourse aside, I love to eat pussy, but it's a complete turn off if there's hair. I shave, as well...perhaps as a demonstration of empathy (I don't expect a girl to see/feel hair on my body anywhere I wouldn't want to on her body). Also, I prefer the way it looks. Just my two cents.
 

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I don't expect a girl to shave... its their body. I do like it when they are shaved or trimmed. I shave myself, more so that i hate having hair around my penis and that area.. plus i don't think anyone wants to go down there and floss!

I started before it became mainstream for guys especially to shave. Was a bit embarrasing at first in change rooms but now its more the norm thou i still get the odd "where'd it all go" from guys.
 

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My wife started shaving to stave off the icky mess of blood clots cought in the hair on her lips.Her cycles are rather intense and bloody.I shave my sack and shaft because she does not like hair in her mouth.

None of this has anything to to do with porn.
 
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I will say that a girl that is shaved will get more enthusiastic attention from me. Cleaner is better. I could be down there all day. Porn influence? Maybe, maybe not. I just know what I like. And yes, I return the favor by trimming my pubes and shaving my balls.
 

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Porn star influence: Azleah Antistia. She has the most beautiful cootchie ever. I think she waxes I mean, that is CLEAN. I wish I had a pic to show.