Expecting a girl to be shaved - is it a porn deviation?

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Merkin - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Merkins - hilarious!

BTW pubic hair can also offer slightly more protection against skin to skin transmitted STIs such as HPV (warts) or HSV (Herpes) - although only minimal protection (probably more if you naturally have enough to plait like me :), in no way does it substitue proper use of condoms and lube!(Disclaimer)
 

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Fair enough - I take it it wasn't a serious relationship. Pretty sad if that's your most important criteria in a woman.
 

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this thread is making me lose my lunch. no offense to anyone but I'm going to have to unsub.
 

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well the other side of that is if a woman doesn't shave but wants her pussy licked, too bad so sad..

I prefery a bit of a bush, totally shaven I dislike
just dosn't seem...right

Though that standard does stand for both sexes I think there's a distinct difference between keeping groomed and being bald; having a lot of hair even doesn't bother me as long as it's basically upkept. The work pussy is prickly hair pussy. :/
 

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Why Bonky - have a problem with talking about the realities of sex? Sticking your head in the sand isn't a method of safe sex, not sure if you are aware or not? Shame you don't seem to have as much aversion to STIs as you do to harmless hair :).
 

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I think expecting a girl to be shaved is most certainly a product of visual porn. I understand why some trimming/shaving was done - it allows for a better visual of the female genitalia. What I don't understand is the complete removal of all pubic hair - in fact, I don't like that look at all.

That said, my wife prefers to shave a fair amount of her pubic hair. She says it feels better that way. She doesn't shave herself bald; as I said, I honestly don't care for the "bald pussy" look. And frankly whatever she does is fine with me - she was mostly unshaven early in our marriage, and has removed quite a bit more of it as we've gotten older.

I personally prefer to trim my pubic hair to some degree - one, my wife says it makes for a better experience for her when she goes down on me; two, I have had condoms catch pubic hair sometimes in the unrolled portion (that is NOT a pleasant feeling to have a pubic hair yanked/ripped out during or after sex); and three, I simply like the way it feels with my pubic hair trimmed.

If anyone else feels another way about pubic hair, that's completely fine. I think there's plenty of room for personal preferences in this regard.
 

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"this thread is making me lose my lunch. no offense to anyone but I'm going to have to unsub."

please, do us all the favor! after reading this and your posts about these horrible women who have the audacity to develop feelings for you after you use them for sex for months on end, I'm convinced the board is better without your misogynistic bs.

I take it you are completely bald yourself, Bonky? If not, what a ridiculous double standard. Then, I suppose you think that women have nothing better to do than sit around all day grooming themselves for men who will fuck them and then promptly kick them out of bed before any annoying emotions or conversation transpire, huh?
 

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Well, personally, I think it's an expression of a woman's individualism. Just like getting a tattoo, wearing jewelry, coloring your hair. I met a guy who also shaves, and I thought, wow, this is great... He must really like oral sex if he's shaving.. and sure enough, my intuition was right on. I was with him once before I decided to start shaving, but then I didn't like the stubbly look and prickly feel, so I went through the laser hair removal process, and that's one of the best decisions I've made. Not only do we both enjoy it, I love it, it feels so much nicer just every day, plus when we're having sex it's amazing, a completely different and nicer feeling. The outside of my girly parts is amazingly smooth, like silk, and it not only does he like it, but I love to feel it when I touch it too... very calming and pleasurable at the same time. Plus things just seem to be easier to clean, keep clean and that adds to a much more "sexy" every day feeling and vibe. I highly recommend some older women give it some serious thought... Oh, and porn may have sublimally influenced me as well. But it was one of my guy friends who really told me I would ultimately like it, and he makes sure I do too.

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Well, personally, I think it's an expression of a woman's individualism. Just like getting a tattoo, wearing jewelry, coloring your hair. I met a guy who also shaves, and I thought, wow, this is great... He must really like oral sex if he's shaving.. and sure enough, my intuition was right on. I was with him once before I decided to start shaving, but then I didn't like the stubbly look and prickly feel, so I went through the laser hair removal process, and that's one of the best decisions I've made. Not only do we both enjoy it, I love it, it feels so much nicer just every day, plus when we're having sex it's amazing, a completely different and nicer feeling. The outside of my girly parts is amazingly smooth, like silk, and it not only does he like it, but I love to feel it when I touch it too... very calming and pleasurable at the same time. Plus things just seem to be easier to clean, keep clean and that adds to a much more "sexy" every day feeling and vibe. I highly recommend some older women give it some serious thought... Oh, and porn may have sublimally influenced me as well. But it was one of my guy friends who really told me I would ultimately like it, and he makes sure I do too.

LOL! FlowerChick, it looks like the "older women" you at 46 and me at 43 are two of the few who like it! Perhaps it's because we are old enough to have experienced the, "Welcome to the Jungle" hairy sex and porn of the old days? :tongue: With one notable exception, it's the under 40 gals that have said that they don't care for shaving.

You are so brave to have your pubes lasered! I've had other parts of the body done (love it!) but don't know if I could do the pubes. Also, I like a tiny patch and don't know if I would trust them to not mess up the shape of patch I like.
 

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Doesn't porn just reflect what's popular? I wasn't alive to have sex in the 70's, but perhaps the porn from those days just showed what was popular and not necessarily what everyone was doing.
I don't mind a patch above a ladies parts, but when the hair is thick and furry and surrounding the labia on all sides, that is mostly what I have issues with. I like women to be soft and I have plenty of my own body hair to feel if I really want that furry feeling.
 

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if porn reflected what's popular, men would seek out girls in stripper heels, with two inch long fingernails and huge fake breasts to share with their mates.

but what most men seem to prefer is a pretty girl with natural boobs who won't want to bang other men while they're together.
 

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It's hard to believe men have been eating pussy for centuries without them being shaved. .


Omigosh! I can't believe you're contemplating growing bush. You're only my most wanked to female on here (maybe a tie), and I LOVE hair. Show those MCP's Mme, grow it out. And make sure your bf eats you real good. Hairy pussy is an essential part of a complete breakfast.

And listen. For cleaning up *slightly* malodorous pussy, ass or post orgasm semen cleanup, there's a great instrument on the market. It's the mouth. Why do people put up with partners who are junenile enough not to use their mouths?
 
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I don't mind if she shaved it,leave it bushy.It's her body so the choice is hers.
 

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Omigosh! I can't believe you're contemplating growing bush. You're only my most wanked to female on here (maybe a tie), and I LOVE hair. Show those MCP's Mme, grow it out. And make sure your bf eats you real good. Hairy pussy is an essential part of a complete breakfast.

And listen. For cleaning up *slightly* malodorous pussy, ass or post orgasm semen cleanup, there's a great instrument on the market. It's the mouth. Why do people put up with partners who are junenile enough not to use their mouths?
you think it's 'junenile' for someone not to enjoy eating out after sex?

grow up!

he might not like the taste. she might be too sensitive for more tongue.
there's nothing more 'junenile' than thinking your way is the only way.
 

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if porn reflected what's popular, men would seek out girls in stripper heels, with two inch long fingernails and huge fake breasts to share with their mates.

but what most men seem to prefer is a pretty girl with natural boobs who won't want to bang other men while they're together.

Exactly. :yup:
 

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Omigosh! I can't believe you're contemplating growing bush. You're only my most wanked to female on here (maybe a tie), and I LOVE hair. Show those MCP's Mme, grow it out. And make sure your bf eats you real good. Hairy pussy is an essential part of a complete breakfast.

And listen. For cleaning up *slightly* malodorous pussy, ass or post orgasm semen cleanup, there's a great instrument on the market. It's the mouth. Why do people put up with partners who are junenile enough not to use their mouths?

What planet have YOU been on? I've had a bush since i came to lpsg, who said i was contemplating growing one?

And im married,i dont have a boyfriend and i'd be pretty fucked up to ask him to mouth my pussy if its malodorous and expect him to get ass germs that could make him sick.

Come on dude....for real. I think its a little juvenile to skip warshing your pussy and ass and have your man do it with his mouth. I'd rather lick the bugs off of a car bumper.
 

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you think it's 'junenile' for someone not to enjoy eating out after sex?

grow up!

he might not like the taste. she might be too sensitive for more tongue.
there's nothing more 'junenile' than thinking your way is the only way.

Dolfie, would you mind sharing with Rougie how you keep the fuzz on your whisper biscuit? So i can fantasize about it later when im masturbating...
 

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Dolfie, would you mind sharing with Rougie how you keep the fuzz on your whisper biscuit? So i can fantasize about it later when im masturbating...
when i have bush i use hair conditioner on it, to keep it downy soft.
it smells nice!

i may have to masturbate to your masturbating.