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1. I'm a guy who want experiment with men. I've been watching gay porn since I was in middle school. I'm in my late 20s now. There isn't a day where I go without watching gay porn at least 2-3 hrs a day, if not more. I have see some dick everyday. I love watch men have sex with each other. Twinks are my favorite.
2. I need some advice and I have question.
3. Are you openly bi or in the closet?
4. I have a girlfriend. If you have a spouse, do they know that you are bi? If not how do you hide it.
5. Where would be a good place to explore my curiosity. A place where it can be an secret.
6. If no one knows how do you keep it from getting out.
7. Please steer me in the right direction, where the woman I love feelings do not get hurt.
PS telling her is not an option, she will not go for that at all.
 

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I was in the same situation years ago. I finally caved when I met a HOT blond stud on the beach after I'd come in from surfing. We talked, he was forward, we made a date for later. He came back to my place, I sucked his big, fat cock and then he shoved half of it up my ass (that's all I could take.) Having a beautiful man to explore my desires with was an out-of-body experience. The stars lined up--all that jazz.

The guilt I felt from cheating on my girlfriend of 2 years was unbearable. The next day (with a sore ass) I dumped her and it didn't go well. Over the next week or 2 I did fuck her a few more times. I was also messing around with Mr. November (he'd been in Playgirl.) She put things together after the fact and long story short: she went apeshit. She tried to run me over with her car, showed up to my family home (I wasn't there) 9:30 on a Tuesday night screaming like a banshee about "sexuality" letting my secret out of the bag when I'd barely started to figure things out...she was beyond hurt. She snapped.

In internet fantasy-land getting some dick on the side is hot but in real life it's cheating and the consequences can be disastrous. Had I thought it out I would have dumped her before indulging my bi side. If there had been Grindr back then I probably would have done it sooner. I'm not built for lying and sneaking around so I probably wouldn't have done it for long.
 
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I was in the same situation years ago. I finally caved when I met a HOT blond stud on the beach after I'd come in from surfing. We talked, he was forward, we made a date for later. He came back to my place, I sucked his big, fat cock and then he shoved half of it up my ass (that's all I could take.) Having a beautiful man to explore my desires with was an out-of-body experience. The stars lined up--all that jazz.

The guilt I felt from cheating on my girlfriend of 2 years was unbearable. The next day (with a sore ass) I dumped her and it didn't go well. Over the next week or 2 I did fuck her a few more times. I was also messing around with Mr. November (he'd been in Playgirl.) She put things together after the fact and long story short: she went apeshit. She tried to run me over with her car, showed up to my family home (I wasn't there) 9:30 on a Tuesday night screaming like a banshee about "sexuality" letting my secret out of the bag when I'd barely started to figure things out...she was beyond hurt. She snapped.

In internet fantasy-land getting some dick on the side is hot but in real life it's cheating and the consequences can be disastrous. Had I thought it out I would have dumped her before indulging my bi side. If there had been Grindr back then I probably would have done it sooner. I'm not built for lying and sneaking around so I probably wouldn't have done it for long.


What's grindr?
 

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Hey buddy I had the same feelings. I would rather be with guys than the girls. I thought I was gay because of that. girls talk too much and guys talks about sports. I was watching my fiends in underwear. I have no gay friends unfortunatly being from a small town. I experience gay stuff. It is tru if your are gay than you are gay. I waer thongs bikini briefs boxer breifs even tights made for menbut I tried it and I am not gay. I am attracted to mens undies but like girls and guys. hope this answer your question
 

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Hey buddy I had the same feelings. I would rather be with guys than the girls. I thought I was gay because of that. girls talk too much and guys talks about sports. I was watching my fiends in underwear. I have no gay friends unfortunatly being from a small town. I experience gay stuff. It is tru if your are gay than you are gay. I waer thongs bikini briefs boxer breifs even tights made for menbut I tried it and I am not gay. I am attracted to mens undies but like girls and guys. hope this answer your question

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