Rain City Jacks rocks - everyone is so respectful and it's set up in a really cool way. Just for some extra info so no one is surprised when they go - as for "no touching", they manage that in two ways. 1) They encourage asking before touching in all cases where a preference isn't already known and never to expect that you can just touch someone. 2) They have a bracelet system for those who do not want to verbalize this in the moment, either because of being uncomfortable or that it's a turn off for that individual. Certain bracelets mean "do not touch me ever" and "feel free to touch me without asking". At least, this is the system in place when I went about 6 months ago.
There is usually a really good blend of solo jackers, mutual jackers, and voyeur/exhibitionist.
They still adhere to traditional jackoff club rules, and I've jerked with guys of all orientations and backgrounds there and in NYC and Denver - so it's both a hot scene and a very safe and inconspicuous environment.
I still think fondly of NY Jacks as well - those parties were always a grunting, greased up, horny, cum drenched good time.

Now that I live in Denver, I love the fact we have an active club - looking forward to visiting after all this quarantine edging period is over haha