Experience with Jackoff Clubs

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Anyone going to NY jacks today?
I went to the Philadelphia Jacks today.
It was ok. About 30 guys mostly average body types and cock sized. I first spent some time working this guy's sac. His balls were big but his cock was maybe 5 inches at the most. He was about 5'7" I would say, a bit of a gut but not too much. I jerked him for about 10 min and then we separated.
There was one sender athletically built guy there; Svelte with a decent sized cock. He wasn't interested in me, but about 45 min in, he was jerking in a group of five and I squeezed my way in and work on his balls and also his cock. He ended up doing mutual frontage with this other dude: slightly older but a kind of hotter older man. This guy put his cock on the other guy's and they stroked for a long time. I cupped their balls , at certain points kneeling to do so. I always think that having a guy kneel while you're jacking off is hot, tho today it didn't seem to get any of the guys particularly worked up, as I've seen it do in other circumstances.
I worked over this one guy with a super fat cock head and shaft. He ended up lying on his back on a padded table while three of us shot our loads all over him. I thought that was pretty hot.
This place didn't have the intensity of the NY Jacks, and I have no idea how to explain what I mean or why it happens. It was just a little laid-back... or perhaps "bland" is closer the mark. Not sure why that happens.
 

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I've wanting to go to NY Jacks for years and I finally went this past Sunday.

I went with fears and low expectations as I thought the average age was going to be a bit high for me. But I was gladly surprised. Most guys were in their 30's and 40's and even a few in their 20's.

All types of body, some of them muscular/sexy types.

But what I loved the most was the atmosphered. Very chilled, everybody was very respectful and having a good moment.

I really advise everybody who is hesitant to go to give a try. You might end up having a lot of fun ;)
 

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I've wanting to go to NY Jacks for years and I finally went this past Sunday.

I went with fears and low expectations as I thought the average age was going to be a bit high for me. But I was gladly surprised. Most guys were in their 30's and 40's and even a few in their 20's.

All types of body, some of them muscular/sexy types.

But what I loved the most was the atmosphered. Very chilled, everybody was very respectful and having a good moment.

I really advise everybody who is hesitant to go to give a try. You might end up having a lot of fun ;)
How long did u last
 

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I've wanting to go to NY Jacks for years and I finally went this past Sunday.

I went with fears and low expectations as I thought the average age was going to be a bit high for me. But I was gladly surprised. Most guys were in their 30's and 40's and even a few in their 20's.

All types of body, some of them muscular/sexy types.

But what I loved the most was the atmosphered. Very chilled, everybody was very respectful and having a good moment.

I really advise everybody who is hesitant to go to give a try. You might end up having a lot of fun ;)
Good for you!
 
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I've wanting to go to NY Jacks for years and I finally went this past Sunday.

I went with fears and low expectations as I thought the average age was going to be a bit high for me. But I was gladly surprised. Most guys were in their 30's and 40's and even a few in their 20's.

All types of body, some of them muscular/sexy types.

But what I loved the most was the atmosphered. Very chilled, everybody was very respectful and having a good moment.

I really advise everybody who is hesitant to go to give a try. You might end up having a lot of fun ;)
Yes! That's EXACTLY why I love the NY Jacks. Glad it had guys of an age that you were interested in.
 

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Interesting to hear that. I started going this year and have been about 4 times, once at the new space. The first time I went I didn't know what to expect, but by now I know that there will be older guys that might be creepy or get handsy. What I do about them is allow maybe like 3-5 seconds of them touching, smile at them, then hold their hand away while saying 'I'm good' as politely as I can, or 'I'm taking a break'. They usually get the hint and leave me alone.

As for inserting themselves in groups it's only happened to me once, since I tend to end things either one-on-one with another guy or maybe two guys. The one time I was finishing in a group there was a bald, short older guy who heard me say that I was close and he got down in the middle of the group and put his head under me while saying 'cum on me, cum on my head!', it was so off-putting, but since I was already cumming I deliberately aimed AWAY from him while he kept moving up, but I made sure not one drop of my cum landed on him. It was a little frustrating, but more hilarious than anything. Not to be petty, but he was not a part of what "got me there", I was vibing with the other fellas, so really he didn't deserve to swoop in and get off from me cumming on him.

Other than that incident I've had a good time the times I've went. The crowd definitely varies each time, sometimes it's explosively erotic everywhere with guys that are in tune with you, other times it's more low key.

I know exactly what you were saying. What that guy did to you was very off-putting. I'd feel the same and I agree on how you summed it up "he was not a part of what "got me there", ... he didn't deserve to swoop in and get off from me cumming on him".

What he did was offensive, selfish, and very disrespectful to other bators and our community. It's not ok in my book.
 

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Yes! That's EXACTLY why I love the NY Jacks. Glad it had guys of an age that you were interested in.

I even made bate friends with some guys from NY Jacks. We exchanged numbers at the end after we finished and I've been hanging out with them sometimes when I'm in the City.
 

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I even made bate friends with some guys from NY Jacks. We exchanged numbers at the end after we finished and I've been hanging out with them sometimes when I'm in the City.
That's fuckin awesome, buddy.
I know cuz I'm on the mailing list that the Rain City Jacks (Seattle) now sponsor a post-jackoff mean/drinks at a local establishment. I've met the guy that runs it (he was at the NY Jacks a few years ago). Super nice dude.
Anyway, I guess the anonymity that some guys like is also something some guys would like to move beyond.
 

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And if any Bate Bros there were actually disgusted by someone just over their weight or something...I think that would run totally contrary to the sensibility of the bate community and the j/o club.

With a body like yours no need to worry if your cock is average.

Mixed crowd that skews older and white. Most are in average shape. A few were muscular, a few were kind of overweight.

Went to NY Jacks this past weekend and it was the worst time I've ever had there. Frankly, I'm not into the sheer number of old white guys with baby cocks. Much less into them swarming me. Anyone know of a similar party in NYC that's geared more towards younger/fitter/bigger guys?

there were a few young, in shape guys with big dicks and we all sort of gravitated towards each other

the Philly Jacks seemed particularly out of shape and old, and I was disappointed.

Mostly older out of shape guys.

The most humorous ones were the super hung gods who were so full of themselves and only hung with one another

there were men of all types and ages super hot to super not. Luckily, you get to determine who you play with

Unfortunately this is all I can focus on whenever thinking about going to one of these places...

Even some super encouraging men who are really into such groups have hangups about this. And it makes sense! I am not trying to shame or guilt anyone. I understand. It still hurts though.

Yes, these groups are generally really accepting of all types. But only if there is an acceptable amount of "hot" guys are around. The more opposite end guys such as myself going to these, the less the more traditional hot guys are interested, causing a feedback loop. Its human nature. It's real. Its a little silly some people try to deny this truth. Its better to accept it and look it in the eye so as to understand why things happen the way they do or why some are totally apprehensive.
 
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That's fuckin awesome, buddy.
I know cuz I'm on the mailing list that the Rain City Jacks (Seattle) now sponsor a post-jackoff mean/drinks at a local establishment. I've met the guy that runs it (he was at the NY Jacks a few years ago). Super nice dude.
Anyway, I guess the anonymity that some guys like is also something some guys would like to move beyond.

Yes, I've noticed many bate clubs/events now have started some social hours for men to hang out and get to know each other too. A bate buddy of mine in Europe has started a nice community there where they also hang out as social and bate friends.

For me, the more I go to these events, the more I am drawn towards building, fostering, and strengthening the bate communities. I'm less and less interested in anonymity hook-ups. They don't do much for me anymore. It's much sexier to masturbate and bond with the guys I've become bate friends with. Having said that, anonymity isn't the same as privacy. And having bate friends or being involved in a bate community does not overrule privacy.
 

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Just got back from the Philly Jacks. Really nice, man. A little more laid-back than the NY Jacks.

When I got there, I stripped to my Golberg jockstrap.

The first thing I did was see a guy who was also jocked (a rarity these days), so I went over to him. This guy was probably mid 60's about 5'6" something of a belly but nothing horrific. I felt like he was being ignored, so I went over him and had a chat with him about his jockstrap. (I remember getting cheap thrills in my 30's when I'd see Ace jockstraps at the drug store. They're crappy jocks, but I just liked the idea that they were on display and imagining some horny dude of a certain age clandestinely buying a jockstrap and drug store...)
Anyway, I went over and started rubbing him on the back (he had a shirt on) and snapping his jock, etc. His dick was tiny, a fact that he kept referring to apologetically, which made me sad. At one point, another guy came over, perhaps late 40s tallish with an ok body and I saw his nice sized dick and kind of invited him into my session with the short dude, and the latter kept saying things like, "He's giving you more for your money." It was clear this short dude had a serious tiny penis complex. I mean, I get why that's an issue, but I wish it weren't.

The two of them jacked with me for a while, and at one point I got on my knees and stroked their balls. I like being on my knees in certain situations. I think it conveys an appropriate worshipful attitude towards men and their cocks, and hence is very afFIRMing. The tiny dicked dude did at least have a nice set of hairy balls.
After about ten minutes of this, I got that sense that you get at these clubs that it was time to shift partners, so I asked if they wanted a break, to which they agreed.

We switched partners a few times. At one point, the guy with the nice-sized dick ended up with the hottest guy there, a dude I had noticed last time. Perhaps 30's tall, slightly slender but not skinny with a 7 inch cock and a nice face. The two of them frotted for a long time while I watched.

I noticed a guy, maybe 40's just sitting on the padded table. No one was paying attention to him, so I finally got in "his orbit" but he seemed not interested in having anyone around, so I backed off and ended up with Mr Nice-Sized Dick again. (I find I have a very strong instinct to gravitate to the guys who aren't getting much attention.)

We faced each other and I worked his cock while he groped my pouch. I have found lately that, alas, my cock really doesn't get as hard as it used to, but in an effort to keep my hands to myself (or at least my right hand), I leaned in close and whispered fuck talk in this dude's ear. He said "Daddy" a couple of times, and I thought, "Oh, he wants a dad." I called him "Boy" in whispered fucktalk but I couldn't tell if I'd read the situation accurately. Eventually, my own talk got to me, and I pulled aside my pouch and jacked off and shot all over his arm. At that point, I never know if I should continue with the other dude or not, so I worked his cock some more and then he decided to take a break. Very friendly and a really nice guy to lose my load with.

I did a little "tour" a couple of times around the room and then went back to get dressed. As I was stripping off my jock, I thought I should make a present of it. So when I was fully dressed, I went back to find Mr. Tiny Dick. He was super nice and very open, and I felt like he really needed some male-male emotional connection, so I talked with him for almost half an hour, I think, telling him stories and listening to his. I asked him if he would accept the Golberg jock from me, which he did.

I left feeling like a million bucks and the timing was such that Mr. Nice-Sized dick left the same time, so we had a conversation for a few minutes as we walked down Chestnut St. He told me he'd been to the NY Jacks, as I have, and that was cool.
 

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Still haven't hit one up but planning to in Seattle
I've actually met the guy that runs the Rain City Jacks. His name is Paul. SUPER nice guy. The guy(s) that run NY Jacks and Philly jacks know him. In fact, a lot of these jackoff club owners seem to know each other, which I guess isn't surprising. I had hoped to get there myself this summer but I couldn't make it. The closest I got was Stumptown Jacks ( I know. what a name for a jack off club!) in Portland, but I was a little reluctant to give them personal info, which Rain City jacks also requires, I believe. Let us know if/when you get there.
 
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Unfortunately this is all I can focus on whenever thinking about going to one of these places...

Even some super encouraging men who are really into such groups have hangups about this. And it makes sense! I am not trying to shame or guilt anyone. I understand. It still hurts though.

Yes, these groups are generally really accepting of all types. But only if there is an acceptable amount of "hot" guys are around. The more opposite end guys such as myself going to these, the less the more traditional hot guys are interested, causing a feedback loop. Its human nature. It's real. Its a little silly some people try to deny this truth. Its better to accept it and look it in the eye so as to understand why things happen the way they do or why some are totally apprehensive.
I'm interested in checking out NY Jacks, but I have some anxiety about the vibe. I'm an older guy, very average body (5'9" and 155), hung well enough (for the real world i usually stack up well, but not a horse)... I'm also not a naturalist or nudist at all (so walking around naked will take some courage). So I'm wondering if I'll be pleasantly surprised or leave depressed feeling that guys there are thinking i'm one of the "creepy old guys" (and i do notice that a lot of gay men tend to equate older with "creepy"). If people are really picky and want to curate for some casual JO with only guys with abs under 35, aren't Grindr or Sniffies, etc. easier for that? Just wonder if any guys over 40 feel out of place at NY Jacks?