Ok- So I am trying to be more of a bottom lately. I have a new "buddy" who is only a top and so we have had our fair share of oral and now we want to move on to anal. I haven't done anal for about 3 months now because whenever I did it I would bleed the next day if I ever went to the restroom (as lovely as that sounds I am sorry) So, I am going to try to play with some toys before we start anal sex to get my ass prepared. I have 2 dildos...ones a 7 inch and one is an 8 inch...yet the guy I am with is about 9 max.
So for those expert bottom guys out there what is the best way to relax your ass so the next day I don't have to worry about bleeding or any of that. Everyone always says Relax...I have always felt relaxed before, but I guess I wasn't. What else can he do or what else can I do to prepare? Rimming? Fingering? I just want to make sure I am doing everything in a safe manner because I bet a lot of you guys who have bottomed don't bleed afterwards the day after. I must not be doing the right steps before.
Any advice would be great!
So for those expert bottom guys out there what is the best way to relax your ass so the next day I don't have to worry about bleeding or any of that. Everyone always says Relax...I have always felt relaxed before, but I guess I wasn't. What else can he do or what else can I do to prepare? Rimming? Fingering? I just want to make sure I am doing everything in a safe manner because I bet a lot of you guys who have bottomed don't bleed afterwards the day after. I must not be doing the right steps before.
Any advice would be great!