experiences of the advantages and disadvantages of having a big dick in sex ?

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  1. truthguy

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    what are your experiences so far ?
     
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    Small guys, I'm really happy for you, and ima let you finish...but big cocks do some of the greatest dick slaps of all time!
     
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    I'm a bit larger than average and completely straight.

    I doubt that any woman I had sex with knew what size I was before the fact, so I doubt if my size attracted any women. I suppose it is possible that one or more women stayed with me when they otherwise might not have if I was smaller, but I have no way of knowing. I did get the "you are the perfect size for me" from a few, but I suspect guys of all sizes have heard that as well.

    As for advantages of being above average in size, I would say the biggest is not being afraid that a woman is likely to consider you too small. I suppose that one or more of my prior lovers might have preferred me to be bigger still, but I don't thing any considered me "little".

    I think sex feels a bit better when the woman's vagina is snug, and nearly all my prior lovers have felt at least cozily snug, and that might not have been the case if I was smaller. I have heard some less well-endowed guys complain that some positions were impossible (doggy being one) or impractical because they kept popping out. The only position in which I have encountered that problem was in the spooning position, and then only infrequently. So I suspect being a bit bigger opens up some more position options.

    On the other hand, I have had a couple of lovers for whom I was a little bigger than ideal, who would not allow me to bang them doggy style, or with whom I would have to be careful not to box their cervix. This sometimes prevented unrestrained ball-slapping sex, which was a bit of a drag. Two women would sometimes complain of soreness after some longer sessions, which left them uninterested in sex for a few days. And I have had several women complain that jaw fatigue limited their ability to perform fellatio on me.

    So I guess for me it has been a mixed bag.
     
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    As for the guy above me, the confidence is nice but it sucks when you can't thrust too deep into her/him without hurting them.
     
  5. Yono

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    redbear52 pointed pretty good issues.
    I like the fact that I've probably gone deeper into her than she has before which can have her commenting. but then I is really uncomfortable not being able to trust all the way and not being able to let yourself go as you might hurt her
     
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    I ve had the same trouble of not being able to get it all in uaslly there an inch to half an inch left. But I love there face when they first see it.
     
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    redbear52 did a really good summary.
     
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    Disadvantages are probably that a girl can get sore within about 15 minutes of penetration, but it isn't a big deal as long as she's willing to finish me off. Biggest advantage is being able to truly dominate a woman during sex just from your size, it's a big turn-on from both sides if she can barely handle what you're packing, really makes you feel like a man.
     
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    Yeah redbear52 put it pretty nicely.
     
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