Thanks for the post, hypo... Can you give us some tips about how your friend made it happen? I'm intrigued...as I'm sure may others are... 3 hours is a long time, but sounds like everyone was happy in the end.... :wink:[/quote]
Well dude I suppose the answer (and based on my experience too) is slowly. But also (as all good parents know) it is imprtant not to give up instantly if success isn't immediate, it has to be a shared goal.
I'm usually bored after about an hour, but these days I've pretty much got the "welcome home" by then. I put it down to experience. Lots of kissing, hugging, determination and desire are important. The person receiving has to genuinely want what is happening and trust you. Opening up emotionally and physically need to happen at the same time. Checking about the other person's physical comfort is also essential. A shared bath before or after is always a treat.
Of course a good laugh about it after can also be fun.
The memory that comes to mind is my friend not being able to sit down with us at Christmas dinner for more than 10 mins at a time after his big Christmas morning surpise present which lasted for an hour. At dinner his mum and dad weren't aware of it, but his sister gave a us a lot of smirks and giggles. She's such a smart ass she had worked it all out by herself! Actually I love her too and have been resisting her invitations because that would mean that I'd fucked up a whole family and the guy is my best bud (he had even been encouraging me though!!! he's such a sick fuck). God that sounds pretty bad doesn't it, but I do try so hard to be good. We still laugh about Christmas day! I miss him because he's living in SE Asia these days.