Expert Anal Top Here. Any Questions?

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husky14620 said:
There are lots of natural born anal bottoms in the world. Sadly, there are too few natural born tops... :wink:

Do you really think that, husky? Yea, the people I know who are bottoms often say that. But the guys who are tops say the opposite -- in equal measure. Why do you think that might be?
 

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Oh fuck forgive my apostrophe booper/ typos etc. I don't mean to offend, off to get a cup of tea. I have enjoyed this thread, and I must say I'm giving my standing ovation to the bottoms and curious ones out there, we love YOU!
 

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reddog said:
Do you really think that, husky? Yea, the people I know who are bottoms often say that. But the guys who are tops say the opposite -- in equal measure. Why do you think that might be?

Why are you asking questions of others when you said you wanted people to ask YOU questions?

Oh, I get it! You're trolling for information and hot stories! Gotcha!
 

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i don't suppose i have very much expertise in this field, so i'll go ahead and toss my question out there...

in my experience, i've found that anal intercourse is really painful, up until a certain point. using my somewhat limited knowledge of human anatomy, i would think that the pain is from the penis (or dildo, whatever) hitting, and then passing, the prostate. is this correct?

it appears to occur after about three inches, and, unless i'm absolutely relaxed, it's painful enough for me to simply stop it all. however, as i've said, this reaches a 'breaking' point of sorts after which it just feels good. is this normal, or am i doing it completely wrong or what? i've always been somewhat worried about damaging my intestines with this type of behavior, but nothing bad has happened yet!

obviously time and patience are key, but i digress.... any answer?
 

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Lex said:
Why are you asking questions of others when you said you wanted people to ask YOU questions?

Oh, I get it! You're trolling for information and hot stories! Gotcha!
Lex...it seems you got really pissed because this man described himself as an expert top. Is that male competitiveness? You've gotta remember, there are MANY experts out here. I think he's cool to let us know about his sexuality!
 

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RocketMan said:
You and Lex appear bothered or offended by this thread. Why?
It seems there is legitimate interest.

mainer1 said:
Lex...it seems you got really pissed because this man described himself as an expert top. Is that male competitiveness? You've gotta remember, there are MANY experts out here. I think he's cool to let us know about his sexuality!

Guys--I am neither upset nor pissed. Male competitiveness? Not here. I compete only with myself--trying to make my mind and body better itself all the time. I'm no expert (at least not a self-professed one) and care very little about the expertise of anyone who is not a sexual partner. I mean, why bother?

This thread is FUNNY to me. He comes here, saying he is an expert top and that we can ask him questions and yet, he goes forth to ask OTHER people to share their stories instead. And what makes him an expert top? Does he have a huge penis and can share some info on how to ease in with a partner? Has he had lots of practice? With whom: men? women? both?

Looks like the classic pattern (here on LPSG) of asking a question in order to hear the stories of others.

I'm with Hung Muscle---I love anal sex.
 

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lemontree said:
i've always been somewhat worried about damaging my intestines with this type of behavior, but nothing bad has happened yet!

.... any answer?

Anatomy is varied. Guys cocks are all different in terms of shape, curve etc etc but basically everything can generally fit without causing permanent damage as far as I know. The more turned on you are the more you can take a bit more pain. Anal sex shouldn't be rape, it has to be a shared endeavour.

You need to be with someone you know a little and can trust, and who you can communicate with. I don't mean you had to go to Sunday School with them, I've been with plenty of people who I have met earlier in the evening and just clicked with. Sometimes initial entry can be painful, you need a lot of lube and then a bit more. Sometimes I need to pull out after a while and vary direction/angle for a better fit or get more lube on. Other times it's best just for both to lie still, not moving for a few seconds/minutes while I'm inside and just give everything time to accommodate. That is something you might want to try.

Personally I like to start with my finger or thumb with some lube. After a minute or so I like to use the head of by cock (well lubed) to slowly start stretching a person's ass. This usually works fine, it's covered with a condom so its safer, no fingers which can tear etc etc. Then it is just a matter of going slow and responding.

There aren't any muscles further in that I worry about, but I gather all muscles can be sprained even the ones in your ass. Your intestines will be fine.

For me the psychology is interesting and important. If you are afraid, it will be more difficult. If you are enjoying the attention and like playing, and a little humour, you'll be fine. I say open wide, open up to LIFE. Good luck!

A former bf once said to me "I'm not just a receptacle for your penis" [not sure why, LOL!] and it did make me think about how much I loved ass and how much I wanted to improve my approach. However, the best thing about him was his ass and he is history after trashing what was left of my shattered heart.

Regarding some of the posts: I've never met a top who has called me a prince, sounds more like a bottom to me guys, if you want to know what I think. Especially as I replied to two PMs and no response, then again maybe I'm just typing shit as usual, and giving the impresion I'm a smart ass psycho.:rolleyes:
 

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palicao said:
:eek:

*takes a chair and a bowel of pocorns to enjoy the show*

btw... who don't like anal sex? :biggrin1:

WARNING: A bowel of popcorn could decrease your enjoyment of anal sex. :wink:
 

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Hmmm, I think a bowel of popcorn would make for a rather crunchy experience. I'm sure there is a person with that fetish, some place in the world--just not me.

I'll take HM and Lex and a bowl of popcorn, though :smile:

Now THAT would be yummy.