lemontree said:
i've always been somewhat worried about damaging my intestines with this type of behavior, but nothing bad has happened yet!
.... any answer?
Anatomy is varied. Guys cocks are all different in terms of shape, curve etc etc but basically everything can generally fit without causing permanent damage as far as I know. The more turned on you are the more you can take a bit more pain. Anal sex shouldn't be rape, it has to be a shared endeavour.
You need to be with someone you know a little and can trust, and who you can communicate with. I don't mean you had to go to Sunday School with them, I've been with plenty of people who I have met earlier in the evening and just clicked with. Sometimes initial entry can be painful, you need a lot of lube and then a bit more. Sometimes I need to pull out after a while and vary direction/angle for a better fit or get more lube on. Other times it's best just for both to lie still, not moving for a few seconds/minutes while I'm inside and just give everything time to accommodate. That is something you might want to try.
Personally I like to start with my finger or thumb with some lube. After a minute or so I like to use the head of by cock (well lubed) to slowly start stretching a person's ass. This usually works fine, it's covered with a condom so its safer, no fingers which can tear etc etc. Then it is just a matter of going slow and responding.
There aren't any muscles further in that I worry about, but I gather all muscles can be sprained even the ones in your ass. Your intestines will be fine.
For me the psychology is interesting and important. If you are afraid, it will be more difficult. If you are enjoying the attention and like playing, and a little humour, you'll be fine. I say open wide, open up to LIFE. Good luck!
A former bf once said to me "I'm not just a receptacle for your penis" [not sure why, LOL!] and it did make me think about how much I loved ass and how much I wanted to improve my approach. However, the best thing about him was his ass and he is history after trashing what was left of my shattered heart.
Regarding some of the posts: I've never met a top who has called me a prince, sounds more like a bottom to me guys, if you want to know what I think. Especially as I replied to two PMs and no response, then again maybe I'm just typing shit as usual, and giving the impresion I'm a smart ass psycho.
