novice_btm said:
True, but again, I've had a "total top" tell me afterwards, "man, that was HOT," hand me the lube and a rubber, and say, "OK, now you do ME
novice_btm said:
Whoops! So, back on topic... Any additional tips for getting through the "second sphincter"?
Technical Aspects of Fucking: An Extraordinary Articulation of One Man's Experience.
Ok Floppy Ears, here are some more technical details seeing as how the original poster has gone awol.
Note of explanation: I will describe what I do when I'm lying on top of someone who is lying on their stomach. That is, when I am on top. This isn't romantic, just technical. I've explained the importance of emotional openess/ mood etc above. Get that right and the nut is half cracked.
1. Get your knob firmly up against the "second sphincter". This works anywhere up someones ass that is very tight including the "first sphincter".
[By the way, wasn't the first sphincter discovered in Egypt?]
2. Hold your cock in place firmly against
the wall, confidently and securely.
3. Make reassuring noises, check that there is no extreme discomfort, eg are you ok? don't move for a minute, etc etc. Encourage the person underneath, tell them how great it all is and how much you appreciate them.
4. Pause, breathe, kiss, nibble ears etc (mind the fur). Make sure the ears don't keep wacking you in the face, you never know where they have been!
5. Ensure you are both physically stable, do
not use thigh muscles to thrust, this can be lethal for the ass, the mood or the opportunity to do it again.
6. Ok now that has all been explained: you have your knob firmly on the spot. Use your cock muscles only to open the guy up. That is, you need to flex and pulse your way gently forward ensuring that the firm pressure is there, but it is the small gentle movements of your pulsing cock that is doing all the work. I don't ever think someone I have been with has found this to be too much (put up your hands if you beg to differ). Frequency of comfortable pulsing will be something you can work out togther.
7. You'll get some signs as to when you can start thrusting a little. If you don't, just do a little, and then ask "do you want more?"
8. Then you need to work out if the response means duration or pounding. Look for the signs or ask. Hope this helps.
I've mostly had sex with guys (unusual childhood/adolescence) and some couples. On one silly occasion I start fucking the gal and the guy says "you never let me do that" and she goes "but it feels better when he's doing it". He got the hang of it once I started fucking him. This is why I think sometimes it's good to articulate/demonstrate basic technical details. It isn't really that mysterious.
By the way, I regard myself as a total top but you are right, I don't mind being fucked by the right guy. I especially feel the need to be fucked if it is make up sex and I have been a prick and
want to make up. Having said that, it has been a while and I regret not taking up a recent opportunity. Anyway Fluffy I hope this is all you will need on your quest for a better fuck, for now, anyway. :wink:
PS: sorry for my English, it isn't my first language.